There Is No “One” type of Submissive
Submissives for Mistress Delia
The thing I like about being a FemDom Mistress is that am able to talk to so many different kind of submissives. No one is exactly the same, so if nothing else, it’s never boring! Also, since I am a rather eclectic Mistress, it allows me to explore so many different activities and fetishes. Yes, I am a cockteasing bitch – and that is my favorite thing to do – but variety is the spice of life and it’s a lot of fun to explore other aspects of dominance and submission.
Exploring Your Submission
So, over the next few weeks we’re going to find out what kind of submissive you are. I’m laying out very broad descriptions here. Those of you who have talked to me know that I am not just one type of Mistress. I can be sensual or hardcore, I can help you with your sissy or cuckold fantasies, even humiliate you for your small penis or any other number of shortcomings. So, as you read through what I’m writing, know that you may identify with one type of submission or several. There may be one that really interests you as cockteasing does for me! You may also find a few submissive types that just aren’t for you. One of the things they say in the scene is YKMNBMKBIOK – Your Kink May Not Be My Kink, But It’s OK. Although trust me, in general, any kink you can come up with is probably going to be one I’ve done and I like doing!
Let’s Take Jack…
No, I’m sorry, you can’t take Jack, he’s all mine! Let’s use him as an example though. As you read through, you’re going to find that my slutty little bitch has many of the characteristics of a lot of these types of submissives. He’s a bottom (who has a very nice bottom indeed, although usually a bit too pale for me!), he’s definitely the bedroom submissive, I know his submission started out as psychological and he’s become my slave heart submissive. So, c’mon back here next Wednesday, and we’ll start exploring all of these kinds of submissives.
What type of submissive do you think you are? Leave a comment and we will explore together!
I think, I’m definitely atleast part bottom! I can’t wait to hear all the catagories and I think it will take a few calls with you to find out! Actually, I’m sure you already know, it’s just a matter of when will you lead me to the answer!
Looking forward to next weeks part.
Hi Robin!
There will be a number of posts on this since it fascinates and excites me! There will be one type each Wednesday in October 🙂
Make sure to catch them all.
Ms. Delia
I would agree, vanessa!
I think if you keep on reading each Wednesday in October, you may find a bit of yourself in each type.
🙂 Ms. Delia
I would consider myself new to this but I guess I desire a sensual Mistress who will tease and deny me. I don’t go for humiliation but I am turned on by the thought of being “broken” by the desire to please a Mistress who will take care of me.
Goddess i am eager to read the other parts of this blog. I am a submissive. But ready to be any thing you Tell me to be. I love you a lot goddess
This is a good thought!
I think a sensual Mistress who would mercilessly tease and deny you would be a great thing for you! It is a wonderful thing to be please your Mistress for sure!
Ms. Delia
Andy,
I am sure you will find a type that suits you very well. 🙂 I am sure of it. I already have my thoughts, but we will see.
Ms. Delia
Goddess i am sure What ever you Tell me Would be true. My only aim is your pleasure and your smile.
Oh andy,
You do make me smile.
Ms. Delia 😉
I am looking forward to reading this series of blogs. I am not sure where I fit into the D/s dynamic. I am not really sure how submissive I really am. I think this series may help me to understand my self better.
On other fronts.
The challenge, edge 50 times then ride a 9.5 edge for 3 minutes.
The results: Ohhhhh Myyyyyy Gooooddddd
The dirty details: 2 hours of stroking, 4 different toys, 6 different lubes, 52 counted edges and one amazing orgasm that I will always remember.
The naughty bits: I started out with thinking about how to know I got 3 minutes. I discovered a nifty trick with my iPod when I did my month of denial, I can set a timer on it that will shut it down at the end of the timer. I set up the 3 minute timer before I started so that when I got to that point I could just start it. I stroked to edge after edge. When I got to number 48 I realized that I was getting there a bit too quick and was going to have a hard time with the 3 minute ride so I backed off a bit, using the shaft stroking technique for a bit to help cool down. I got to the 50th edge and decided to go a few more so I could cool off a bit more. I got to the 52 and decided that was the one to end it on. I set the timer on my iPod and let it play out with the music playing on it. I do not remember too much about the next 3 minutes other than my bucking and writhing in my bed in pure ecstasy. That 3 minutes seemed to last forever while I was in that wonderful place in my mind. I do not recall what was playing. I do remember that almost as soon as the music stopped I had one of the most incredible orgasms I have ever had.
I thank you very much for handing me this challenge, I enjoyed the practicing towards the goal a great deal. I also came out of this knowing how to edge at a much higher level than I had before and will most definitely be added to my stroking sessions.
Forrest –
This is WONDERFUL!
What a way to use you ipod as a timer! I am so thrilled that you got to edge at a higher level. I am glad you took on this challenge to stroke and edge for me! I am impressed!
I also am excited to see which submissive type you are. 🙂
Ms. Delia
i like this topic! a couple reason. i like to explore the details. + i hope i do enough!
i look forward to the other posts to come! Think this is great!
Hi toy!
I am sure you will see bits of yourself in a few types this month. I know for sure you are a submissive 🙂 I wonder if anything will be a surprise to you…
Ms. Delia
This is a great topic for discussion! The bottom line is that, as a sexually submissive male, I seek to please my mistresses. Combinations of pleasure and pain are what control me. Yes! I am into whips, spanking, and testicle squeezing, as those remind me who is in charge. Being the custodian of that penis and those testicles, I enjoy having dominant females be in charge of them. To satisfy both them and me, I submit to periods of chastity (5 to 15 days) followed by a day or two of guided masturbation. Stroking that penis with LOTS of edging and tease and denial provides for my pleasure as well as their entertainment. Being into orgasm denial, I may go for very long periods of time without having orgasms, which may be once or twice a year. That, too, is for their entertainment, and I do have to eat those huge loads of cum. 🙂
cfb –
I just adore what you are into! I am thrilled that you can submit to periods of chastity, and that your orgasm totals for a year are so small! The way you entertain the Mistresses is fantastic!
Ms. Delia
would love to see how you categorize me
slave binoy –
I will tell you that you are in a category all your own. I will write about slaves on the last Wednesday of this month, and will be discussing each type of submissive also on Wednesdays this month.
I would need a new category for a worthless slut like you. I believe you are the lowest of low.
Ms. Delia
i am sure you, with all you are, will surprise me
Oh toy,
That is nice coming from a heavy kinkster like you. I do hope you will learn something new about yourself!
Ms. Delia