Take off those clothes!
How Come There’s No CMNF Fetish?
So, Ms. Delia was sitting around the other day, in between phone sex calls, and I got to thinking. Why is the Clothed Female, Naked Male such a hot fantasy? And how come there’s not really a Clothed Male, Naked Female fetish. Okay, I’m sure there is – anything can be a fetish, and just about everything is – but when I did a Google search, there were over 54 MILLION! hits for CFNM, and there were only just over a million for CMNF.
Open and Vulnerable
In a BDSM context, either naked fetish would seem to be about being naked and vulnerable in front of the Dominant, having no clothes to hide your responses and everything that’s going on. It can also be a power exchange dynamic – the Dominant has the option to wear clothes and only allows the submissive to see what they allow to be seen. I think it’s something else though, something more – fashionable.
We Have Better Clothes
That’s right, we Dommes have better fetish wear! Sure, as a submissive, I can put you in a leather body harness, or maybe some leather short shorts. If you’re a sissy, we have so many options – panties, bras, lingerie, full femme dress. But, what is more powerful that a Domme dressed in black leather – maybe a bustier, a short leather skirt and stiletto heeled boots? Even if I’m wearing a wool pencil skirt, button up blouse and high heels, is there anything else that just screams female dominance and control of you and your horny cock? I didn’t think so….
Ms Delia…great post. CFNM is just so much fun. CMNF would be fun as well…for about 30 seconds before the roles were reversed and she had me under her power. Why, because for me the woman owns me, controls me…and even if I tried I can not help but assume my station in life…that of a bitch boy to a superior, beautiful, sexy, dominant woman. Hell if she can own me standing there in front of me fully clothed, and yes, even over the phone…..imagine what she could do to me standing there naked…wow..I would be under her spell before your undid the first button on her blouse. I would melt as she slowly bent down to take off her stiletto heeled boots…and I would be begging to be hers as I watched her hands slide her stockings down from her thigh, over her calf….gulp!!!!!
Hi PB!!
I know you love CFNM because it is amazing, hot, sexy and so fun to feel vulnerable in front of a woman or women. Hands sliding down the stockings…what a great visual!
Ms. Delia
Being a straight male and a partisapant in cfnm I have learned th e reason I like cfnm are as follows. The first is interaction with women. Let’s face it I am straight and I do like attention. There is something to say for being nude infront of a woman who has never met you and her first time laying eyes on you she sees you not your car not your wallet not your clothes. And after experiencing cfnm. I have found it more comfortable to be naked infront of women then being clothed infront of them. Once again used to think that a world where women were always naked would be the best place in the world. Sometime I still think this. However with growing bod mods tats and shaving of their pussy I have shied away from the women being naked. It pretty much sent me down th cfnm path. And after time to think about it cfnm is to me a great equalizer between the sexes. How I have come to this idea is it takes away a man’s advantage and gives one to women. It makes men more approachable. And maybe alittle less intimidating. Plus having a woman walk up to you and look you in eyes and touch your bared cock is truly one of the most amazing experiences in the world. So with that being said the woman’s hand on your loins should replace ever other form of greeting not saying she has to stroke you to orgasam but a few moments to say how do you do. I really do think that cfnm should be more common. To that point that I would like to meet a woman who has never seen a clothed male before. That to her and others like her all males have always been nude and they would know us no other way. A permanent clothed female naked male world… Sounds like a great world to live in.