Abandoning an orgasm leads to a ruined orgasm. It is that simple. In this series on ruined orgasms, I have gone over some of my favorite techniques so far to include scrunching and squelching. Today will will be learning a new technique called abandoning. This really is a FAVORITE of mine, and one I love for men to practice for me.
I Wonder if you can RUIN it?
How do I abandon an Orgasm?
Your goal is to not cum. To abandon, all you need to do is stop stroking that cock. The key here is not HOW, but WHEN! It is imperative that you stroke that cock until the moment that it is about to cum, then STOP. Seriously, just stop all stimulation. Take away your hand, and take a deep breath, exhale, and relax all of your muscles.
What will abandoning feel like?
Abandoning an orgasm will feel like an edge, but much stronger. Some cum may escape, but it should not shoot out like a real orgasm would. Instead you may get a smaller pulse of cum, and then smaller dribbles. Abandoning, because it is SO close to edging should leave you horny, and ready for more! How many ruined orgasms do you think you can take?
Ms. Delia’s Abandoned Orgasm Challenge
Here’s where we have FUN! I want you to set aside some time this week for this. I want you to edge and ruin as many times as you can. I expect this will be an intense session, and I want to hear all about it here in comments or in an email! Happy ruining!
Dear Mistress Delia,
I have been granted permission to masturbate 3 days a week for up to 30 minutes. 🙂 In fact, I am supposed to do my edging, such that my penis weeps. 🙂 I am not allowed to have any full-blown orgasms, or I will be punished by my mistresses. My New Year’s resolution is to be disciplined, please my mistresses, and NOT cum – keeping those swollen balls filled. 🙂 This still allows me to have 1 1/2 hours of quality stroking pleasure time and hours of pleasing the mistresses. 🙂 Talking about mutual satisfaction! Thank you for another great post!
Oh cum filled balls!!
Pleasing your Mistress by stroking and NOT having orgasms is wonderful!! I hope those balls stay full and swollen!
Ms. Delia
Ms Delia,
After seeing this entry i needed to tell You about a recent experience. I was doing an edging assignment for Ms Olivia and ended up for the last 3-4 edges with what you mentioned here … i thought i had stopped but i ended up with abandoned orgasms – if you can really call them orgasms. I never knew the term, now I do thank you. Looking toward to the Challenge next week.
Hi swimmer!
I am excited to hear about your experiences with ruined orgasms! Sometimes they happen by mistake, and you spend time trying to make them happen again! I also look forward to our cock control circuit training program!
🙂 Ms. Delia