I wonder if I could ruin you forever?
Can You Ruin A Man With Ruined Orgasms?
I received a very interesting email the other day:
Dear Ms. Delia
Do you think you can ruin a man’s orgasms by ruining every single one? Like, if you ruined every orgasm he had, would he, ultimately, not be able to achieve a full, satisfying release? I ask because I have been in chastity to my Mistress/wife for close to 3 years now. On the rare occasions that she does allow me release, it’s by ruined orgasm. The past couple of times, she has tried to coerce a full release out of me, but it just seems to dribble out, and afterwards, I’m just as horny. Will I ever be able to have a full release? Or am I …
— Ruined Forever
I Don’t Think you Can Be Ruined Forever
Well, Ruined Forever, my answer to your question is, no. Now RF didn’t tell me his age, but, as you get older, those orgasms where you shoot cum so hard it paints the celling are going to be harder to…ahem…cum by. Ejaculatory force, if you will, diminishes with age, so that may be why it’s not a powerful stream, even though it seems your Chastity Mistress (and what a lucky pet you are to be married to such a wonderful woman!) teases you relentlessly.
Is It The Dribbling Or The Horniness That Makes You think it’s a Ruined Orgasm?
A ruined orgasm isn’t only the physical part of it, it’s mental as well. Since you don’t get the full release of an ejaculation (which is much, much different from orgasm), all that sexual energy stays pent up and you’re still aroused and horny.
You know what though, RF? I think your continued horniness is from something totally different. I think it comes from the realization that as soon as you’re soft, she’s going to lock you back up again and all that teasing is just going to start all over again as you travel down the road to a Female Led, Chastity lifestyle.
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Ms. Delia, Funny, funny for Mr.RF. I suppose the only method for ruining an orgasms that work is the one where you let go at the point of no return.(hahaha) He should never be allowed to wank himself if he plans to ruin his orgasm or as Mistress Delia said maybe it’s due to age and now the aim is off and force is no longer achievable.
Dear Mistress Delia,
First of all my hat’s off to Ruined Forever for being in the relationship, which he is in, being married to a mistress. As in my case, it is good to read about other submissive males being willing to have dominant women take over control of their cocks and balls.
Having experienced ruined orgasms, ejaculatory orgasms, and non-ejaculatory orgasms, I find that there are differences between the 3. Does Ruined Forever practice the Kegel exercises? In my case, I have noticed that I was able to attain non-ejaculatory orgasms, because of that practice. On those rare occasions, when I get to cum with a full orgasm, I feel that I have pretty strong muscles, which also allow me to experience some strong squirts during those ejaculatory orgasms.
I may also ask, what is the duration of time between his ruined orgasms? Days? Weeks? Months? What other activities does the relationship involve? Does his wife perform CBT on him? Maybe occasionally spanking his testicles? I only ask that, because my in-person mistresses do perform CBT on me. The initial painful sensations subside, causing a very pleasurable sensation inside my testicles, which actually enhances the explosive quality of my ejaculations.
These are just a few of my thought on this subject. Thank you for another great post!
This is such a hot topic Ms Delia. I wouldn’t know what to do if you tried to ruin me forever. Oh gwad!
Thanks, Andy…we can ONLY hope to!
Thank you CFB!
I know RF is in for a tough time, but so it goes. I adore his Wife/Mistress already!
Agreed Ms. Cindy!
I have no issue with RF being exactly that!
Ms Delia ~ What an interesting topic. First of all, I would love to take his Mistress/Wife out for lunch. I have to agree with you, I do not think RF is ruined forever. You are definitely right when you say it is mental as well. I wonder what his last real release was like?? Maybe he doesn’t think he can take it – lol. But I am sure you are spot on when you say he realized that he is going to get locked up and it will start all over again. Thank you for sharing this with us!! And keep us posted if he gets back to you.
Oh Ms. Delia, please tell me we CAN ruin them forever! Why does a little chastity bitch deserve a full “big boy” orgasm? He doesn’t, I tell you! I prefer to think that the more you force a little slut to ruin, the fewer chances he has to ever be “normal” again. Probably a fantasy, but hey–a girl can dream, right? 😉
Oh Ms. Piper we CAN we CAN we CAN ruin them forever!! I promise 😉
Oh Ms. Kay Marie!
You and I and I believe Ms. Piper will take his Mistress/Wife to lunch for sure!!
There’s a point where I realize something is just an evil bad idea (usually starts out enticing, then slowly gets more extreme). I think you ladies need some spankings to want to destroy functionality of a mans penis! That’s horrible haha think about how you got to this point. Reflection is important unless you’re just trying to lose your innocent self completely…
Hmmm.
I think human here protests too much and could benefit from a couple years of ruined orgasms for even thinking of spanking a Mistress. LOL!! Someone please train this naughty commenter!