Self-Bondage can be quite a rush. Simple body harnesses made of rope, cling film that can be cut away, even using sheets by rolling yourself up in them can make you feel helpless, sexually vulnerable and exposed. I think that is why so many not involved in a kink relationship will wear their own cuffs, or engage in more self-bondage.
Now, of course, Ms. Delia ALWAYS advocates safety in BDSM, so just remember, if you’re going to use self bondage, to always play safe. You need a release method.
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Bondage Release Methods
If you’re using padlocks, a key frozen in a block of ice will work – your bound until that key melts! If you’re using rope, make sure you have a pair of scissors somewhere that you can get to them. You can of course, rig up some kind of release device – like padlocking the scissors closed and putting the key in a block of ice!
Another way is to use sugar or salt inside a lock. It would need to dissolve in water before a key could fit. It certainly is a predicament!
Rope and Self Bondage
Ms. Delia has plans for a sexy rope harness that I could send to you! I have one submissive who has made several modifications. It is easy to slip on and off so the bondage is safe! Curious? Just ask me!
One modification of the harness is to have you tied with a butt plug deep inside you! It gives a super slutty feeling! It’s just one of many self-bondage techniques you can use.
Basic Self-Bondage
I recommend using Google and typing in “slip knots” or “chinch nooses”. You can use these around your wrists or ankles. The more you struggle, the tighter it gets! So make sure you have scissors handy. The second basic technique is the Wrist Coil. You just coil up a length or rope, twist it into a figure-8 and slip the offending limbs inside each loop. You can then tighten up the middle where the ropes cross with a slip knot.
Alternately try bondage tape! It is sexy and can stretch, but will hold you for a while!
Get to know your knots, and your easy releases and you will be enjoying self-bondage safely!
Beg for Mistress Delia and play safely!
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You always have the best tips for sexy things like self-bondage, Ms. Delia! I love how your mind works; you don’t let a silly thing like your pets playing solo stop you from getting them all tied up and in trouble! This was a great post!
Thanks, Ms. Piper!
I hope we can tie someone up SOON together!
Ms. Delia.
You and Ms. Piper are so hot! I will be calling SOON for a two mistress call with the both of you. I hope to be a sub both of you can enjoy for many sessions…..
Thanks LP!
Yes Ms. Piper and I LOVE to play together! We have a certain chemistry together that is unforgettable! 🙂
Thanks so much for this post Ms Delia! You gave me some great ideas that I never would’ve thought of. I’ve thought about freezing a key in ice, but padlocking scissors closed and freezing the key is a great variation. Salt or sugar inside a lock that would have to dissolve in water…. genius! Love to see that rope harness sometime too!
jemmie