Erotic Face Slapping
Wherever it falls along the sensual to painful spectrum, face slapping is a very intimate act. It is one activity that MUST be done with BDSM safety and negotiation protocols!
Now in some fantasies, I can order you around, have you drop your pants and lay over my lap, and begin spanking you, treating you as if you are a nameless, faceless piece of meat that just has to be dealt with, and even be dealt with with little thought.
It is an Intimate Activity!
However, when your Mistress decides to do erotic face slapping as an activity, it’s completely different. She looks into your eyes SO intensely that it can feel more intimate than sex! Mistress truly can see all of the emotions in your face. Think about the anticipation as you stand there…waiting for it to happen…scared and humiliated submissive, wondering what it will feel like. Then…crack…Mistress slaps your cheek and leaves behind the sexy, red imprint of her hand. You feel a little sting and then the warmth spreads. You feel so submissive at that very moment!
Such a Range of Sensations
And there is such a range of face slapping that can go on. From the playful tap on your cheek to get your attention to the rocking, back-handed hard slap to get you to correct your ways and feel completely dominated by Mistress.
(Please note Ms. Delia does not slap for punishment. She does not think it is an effective punishment, and she does not think any kind of BDSM activity, even one for correction should EVER be done in anger!)
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I guess I’ve never really thought about face slapping being erotic, but the sting and the warmth that you described is exactly what I love about spanking. There’s something so thrilling about that smack and having your breath catch in your chest, so I totally get this post and love it, Miss Delia!
I guess i understand the fantasy.
But, no, actually being struck anywhere on the head isn’t erotic to me.
You are really terrific Ms Delia, please don’t take this to negatively.
Thank you.
Thanks for the input, domestic!
I used to be very offput by the idea of face slapping. I learned about it from my submissive! 🙂 No negativity taken at all.
Ms Delia,
For me a single slap to the face can be very erotic especially when done in public. It becomes very clear at that time who is in control, especially when the sub submits and does as told.
It hasn’t really happened to me, but I know that I want it. I guess from reading fiction about it.
We will both know who is in charge and who is owned! I don’t know but I think it can bring everything up. My fantasy is : mostly cross dressed, regular spanking, some face slapping.
omg, I can’t believe I told you
Admitting your fantasy is the first step, Jennifer!
I am glad you did tell me. It sounds very erotic with the crossdressing and impact play!
🙂