Cock Teasing Without Touching

Generally when we do a cock teasing call, there is lots of skin to skin contact, but cock teasing without touching can be a really SEXY way to add to your teasing, edging, and delay (or denial) routine. I find toys can be a big help when teasing the cock without...

What Does a Mistress Really Want?

What Does a Mistress Really Want? Every now and again I get an IM or email from someone brand new to me expressing his undying devotion and total knowledge of how worthless he is. In this email I am often asked to take him on and totally control him as my pathetic...

One Submissive Tells His Journey

In October I wrote about your submissive journey and got so many positive responses. One stood out. Over six years, I have had the pleasure of molding one submissive, and guiding him on his journey. What started out as a blog comment, with his permission is being...

Erotic CBT

Erotic CBT Is CBT Painful? Not always! CBT does not have to focus on intense pain. In fact, I often say that tease and denial and the ache of blue balls is a form of sexy and erotic CBT. In this blog, I want to focus on some sensations that are more sensual and less...

CFNM is Sexy

Ms. Delia feels that CFNM is SEXY! Whether you are slowly stripped of your clothes piece by piece or told to remove them all at once there’s nothing quite like being vulnerable in front of your clothed Mistress. On the other hand, there’s nothing I love more than the...