I Like My Slaves Smooth
Do you remember a few months ago when I wrote my post about shaving a submissive? I’ve been thinking a lot about how making shaving a ritual and attaching rules to it can really add to the dynamic of a Mistress/submissive, female-led relationship. As a submissive, you should always be trying to embody all that is feminine and submissive. Simply put: hair is masculine, hairless is feminine. And even if you aren’t a sissy, you should try to be docile and submissive, and according to society, that’s also somewhat feminine.
Pubic Hair and CFNM
You know you love being naked, needy and exposed before me. Well, if we’re going to play with your CFNM fantasy, shouldn’t you be completely naked? Pubic hair serves to conceal a man’s cock and balls. And there is no room for modesty here. He must be exposed and fully naked. Besides, aren’t you a slut? Having no pubic hair is undoubtedly slutty. Being smooth and hairless leaves little doubt that you are a sexual being and groomed for submission. No hair looks way, way sexier and more pleasing to the eye.
It’s a Ritual
Having a submissive maintain that smooth, hairless skin is also a ritual, and one in which he can show his devotion to his Mistress, without it being about sex. It takes more effort and daily attention to keep completely hairless, and daily duties ensure his mind is focused on something that he knows is pleasing to his Mistress. Rather than having to shave a design, like a heart or an arrow, or leaving a landing strip, completely shaved is easiest to maintain and judge. I can give you very clear instructions: no hair. Simple for even you to follow. Messing up and having hair is a fantastic excuse to harshly punish my submissive. Leaving anything more than the barest of stubble means you have failed, and it’s time to take you over my knee for a strict spanking.
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Yes mistress I love being clean shaved .
Hi Mistress, I agree all slaves should be cleanly shaven so a Mistress can identify slaves as soon as she sees them. I have been shaving my cock and balls for years but for the last year Mistress Scarlet also requires me to shave my asshole before each call. She says she makes most of her slaves shave their dicks but only the most perverted whores must shave their assholes.
Your right being soft/smooth is submissive & feminine.ive been this way since 2001. Everything fits so much better especially bras/panties/dresses. Now that I found women into this she keeps me this way all the time with monthly waxings. Also I came out to her with my crosdressing and she measured/fitted me for bra and kept me in in all weekend along with having me come over to her place dressed trying on lipsticks/spraying me in perfume/lotions. We are going shopping for women’s clothes/lipsticks/perfumes/ along with me getting makeover done end of month. Also she wants me dressed in leggings/knee high boots/women’s turtle neck sweater/wraparound scared with pink shoulder strap purse/bra/panty. I’ll need to bring panty liners so I won’t make mess or her seeing me get hard. I finally met my match Ms Delia I’m her cream puff purse perfume lipstick sissy girlie boy.
As a submissive all my life, I have always shaved my cock and balls and lately, my ass as well. It’s interesting that in all my relationships I’ve had, the women have had pubic hair in some form while I am smooth. The hard part comes at the gym with gang showers. I often wonder what others think. I do get some stares somtime and wonder if they want to approach and ask. I like being shaved and like having a woman require it of me. I guess that’s why I do it…
i am always totally shaved and in panties. Now everyone knows ! Being so smooth n silky I cannot ever have body hair ! I feel soo sexy and feminine, and it has many other effects. Makes me desire to be a total girly girl in ALL WAYS…OMG !
as a submissive sissy i am always smooth, being clear that i am making no claim to the trappings of male appearance. At this point any hint of pubic hair is totally unwelcome.
Dear Mistress Delia,
I really enjoyed reading this post. In my case, I am a nudist and have been affiliated with several nudist groups. Being part of the nudist community, I have seen a very large percentage of women that are shaved, and quite a large percentage of men also shave. I have been shaving my cock and balls for more than 15 years, and I enjoy being clean shaven. Although, in my case, shaving has nothing to do with being submissive, but I like that my cock and balls are not concealed.
I am in a female-led relationship, where both my mistress and I are shaved. Being shaved ads spice to that relationship. By the way, I enjoy walking along a nude beach shaved. 🙂
Thank you for this post!
Hello Delia,
I found this blog to be highly erotic, which I’m guessing was your point…
For me, this is why it is so erotic.
I like to have some hair down there. I really do.
But when being submissive, it is an incredible turn-on for Mistress to require that is is as smooth as Ramsey Lewis playing Jazz on the piano.
It is an incredible turn-on because for our species, the reproductive organs are clearly seen as very personal and private. Virtually every culture on the planet had coverings for them, and especially so in our culture.
To be required to keep such a private and personal body part shaved and smooth when my preference is for their to be some hair down there, there is no stronger claim to ownership of the cock that I can think of. And the daily grooming required to keep it that way, with the frequent inspections to make sure there is not stubble, is a constant reminder of that claim of ownership.
I can see myself right now, at any moment you may give the command. I have to stand with my feet apart, my hands together with fingers linked behind my head, and my elbows as high as I can get them. I am required to gaze up while you inspect my grooming, it would not be proper for your slave to look down at you while you are performing the inspection. I’m a little apprehensive, my hair grows fast, and your standards are very high. If there is stubble, your hands are mighty close to my sensitive balls…
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Thank you for the very erotic blog.
You are very welcome, Alice Wonder!!!
I love the visual of you ready for grooming inspection!
You would be SO smooth for me!
Delia
Thank you for sharing your story of smoothness, CFB!
I do appreciate the details you take to your shaving!!
Delia
I agree, susan!
Thanks for sharing your smoothness thoughts!
Well, of course, missy!!
You ALL know how smooth and femme you are!
Delia
That is a great reason to be smooth, ggriffrun!
I am sure the guys in the group shower at the gym may wonder too…but you have to shave if a woman demands it!
Oh cream puff!
Of course you should be dressed from head to toe, and SMOOTH from head to toe! That’s what being a sissy is all about.
Delia
And this is just another reason why I vibe so well with Ms. Scarlet!
The front to back is like a Brazillian wax. Maybe you should try that!
Delia
The Mistress that had decided to train me as a slave, not a submissive made certain conditions.
Being cleaned shaved was a priority. As the training advanced slave grew to like it! Visitors , also Dommes or female friends at times watched slave clean Her apartment, prepare Her bath..prepare coffees and small snacks. The Lady loved exhibiting me, slave was always naked from moment inside the apartment.Clothes were folded and. packed away. Occasionally slave wore the tiniest g-string for some Ladies.. Being shown off and posed was a perfect way to humiliate. slave was never introduced except at special times. There is nude and there is fully exposed totally naked, like shaved clean..
A shown off and posed slave is so wonderful!!!
I am happy your Mistress presented you that way!
Ms. Delia
My lady friend sometimes requires me to shave my genitalia before a punishment session. She claims that she notices more improvement in me from “going bald” than just a caning. Sometimes she allows me to keep a little fuzz on the pubes, but often i have to go completely smooth. In the last couple of years she makes me call her after working out at the gym and i have to walk from the changing rooms to the showers without a towel or anything, so as to be completely visible to all present. I think I accidentally gave her the idea, because i told her that I am more self-conscious about the bald dick than about the red lines on my bottom after a caning. Now I have to let both show, but I feel able to because her voice on the phone right before, warm commanding voice. “Hpn, it is an honor for you to show off my caring, hold your head high and be very proud. Those who don’t know may think are gay, but you don’t care because you know it is for me.” And I accept it is for my own good.
It is good that you accept your smoothness for your own good! I like your Mistress…lady friend! And remember, you do this and endure all for Her!
Ms. Delia
I see you think along the same lines she does. And she also likes to know exactly when I am shaving my pubes, often I am told to say her name while I am doing it. But she is reasonable, before I was having some surgery in that area she let me grow back some hair. she said she has a friend who is an OR nurse who said they do sometimes have a good laugh about a guy’s privates. She says its just to relieve tension, but she didn’t want me to worry. Afterwards I needed to shave and be inspected every week for 90 days. I am self conscious in the sauna but I do consider it an honor to be in submission to her.
I would love to help…erm…inspect you!!