Domme Space is not often talked about. Generally in BDSM, the focus is on subspace or subdrop after a scene. However, a Domme can fly and soar, so today I want to focus on Domme Space which is such an amazing feeling. When Domme and sub get into that rhythm of play that shares a sexy back and forth, intense sensations, and feedback, that is how I best can get into my Domme Space.

Achieving Domme Space

So for me to achieve Domme space, I must get into a rhythm or start feeling a certain flow to things, and for many Dommes that is how this space starts. It is a powerful, strong set of emotions and feelings. It is not the letting go of subspace, it’s more about everything just flowing and moving right along. In business “feeling the flow” is a really great thing that makes you super productive. I would say the BDSM flow is the same!

How Can a submissive Help with Domme Space

One thing that stands out is music. Do you have a good music playlist? Maybe something you love with a certain beat or sound? Music can help me to start the flow. Your reactions also help me so much. As examples, You moan while stroking and following my teasing instructions. You gasp when the nipple clamps come off.  During a spanking session, you get that tone to your voice and I completely tune into the scene. It is the auditory cues that really help me soar!

When that back and forth between Domme and sub happens just perfectly, the sexy feeling of Domme space can wash right over me and make me roar!