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Chastity Lock Emergency

When you are in chastity, I always say you should be prepared for an emergency. Last night that happened to Me and to Jack. We solved the problem, but this made me want to again stress the importance of having a plan for escaping chastity if needed.

Jack had been Chastity Locked for the Weekend

Friday night I locked him and wore the key around my neck. I do this from time to time, so it was no different from any other time. The weekend proceeded normally, well normal for us and our kink, of course! Jack completed a nice list of household chores. He cooked, and cleaned, and even cleared out overgrowth in the backyard. Sexually, this weekend was for me. All the orgasms I wanted and how I wanted them were had! And I applied the sweet frustration of cockteasing to our sexy weekend too!

Saturday Night Chastity Lock Emergency

Late Saturday night after some play and wild teasing, I decided to free that cock from chastity. After all, Jack had earned it! I took the key from around my neck. The Femdom controls chastity! and went to put it in the lock, but it would not fit. A second of true panic erupted inside me. I tried again. I went to get the emergency key kept in my jewelry box, and tried it. It did NOT work. I looked closer at the lock, and it looked like a part of the lock cylinder had moved up. The key would not fit!

I made Jack try the lock, and it would not budge. There was no way the key would fit.

Plan for the Chastity Lock Emergency

But we had a plan. We had discussed this happening before we started chastity way back when. While I love being a cocktease and chastity Mistress, I ALWAYS play safely! Our backup plan was to cut the lock. Like a nervous trooper, Jack put on shorts and made his way out to the shed. (Oh, I HATE that shed!) He came in a couple moments later with bolt cutters.Β  I watched as he ever so gently opened them, and put them on the lock shackle, then closed them down, cutting the metal.

Within seconds, the chastity lock was off, and the device followed. I was relieved that even though chastity went wrong, we had a plan that was quick and helped us get back to the kink!

If you are in chastity, make SURE you have a plan if things go wrong. Pinching, pain, a lock emergency, or whatever you can think of is a good thing to discuss with your Domme before locking away! KNOW your plan, and PRACTICE it before locking so you know what to do if you ever have a chastity emergency!

18 comments to Chastity Lock Emergency

  • I’m glad everything worked out safely for you & Jack— and YES!!! Safety plans are very important—suubies: don’t forget to have one in place *before* the lock goes on. For anyone (but definitely those in a long-distance chastity situation), make sure you know the location of your local urgent care clinic just in case you’re unable to safely remove the lock or device on your own. Don’t worry; they’ve seen far stranger things than a chastity device, and never, ever let a little embarrassment prevent you from getting the proper care.

  • Delia

    Great comment, Ms. Lilly!!

    Safety first! And I do think safety and proper planning allows for us to be more free in our kink! Great tip about Urgent Care. When in my “panic mode” I thought about that! Luckily I knew our plan, took a breath, and we got through it!


    I know that some people think it’s “hot” to have no “backup” plan for chastity but that’s actually dumb and dumb is never sexy (at least not to me). Recently, I had a chastity pet who left his key at another location. He did this intentionally and I didn’t know about it. OOPS!!!! So, he was fine in chastity for the duration until he got back to that other location … and then the chastity cage removal day arrived. Another member of the household had CLEANED UP and moved the key (maybe even thrown it away).
    Panic — his and mine (no sexy fun for either of us during this part).
    He realized this at night and had to wait until the next day to go BUY bolt cutters. I had him write out what he needed the house members to do in case the bolt cutters slipped and there was a critical emergency. He had to map out how long to get to the emergency room. It was AWFUL.
    Long story made short — he cut the lock without further problems and learned several valuable lessons — the main one is: TALK to your Mistress, LISTEN to your Mistress and don’t fucking go off half-cocked with any play that is by nature edge play!

  • Johnny

    Remember the 6 P’s. Proper preparation prevents piss poor performance. haha

  • This is WHY I have decided to take up Locksmithing. For those delicate and rather compromising situations when you need a discreet Dominatician to crack your Nut Safe.

    Speaking of being vigilant. If locked up you should always unlock before boarding a Plane. Otherwise its a Deep Cavity search for you by Airline Personal.

    Ooooh, “Shock and Awe.”

  • Delia

    Ms. Olivia WOW! What a story, and things like this happen all the time!! Thank you so much for sharing about your chastity pet.
    Yes yes yes! TALK to Mistress before getting locked.

    Ms. Delia

  • Delia

    SO true, johnny!!!

    And we were properly prepared!!

    πŸ™‚ Ms. Delia

  • Delia

    HAHA Ms. Anna!

    You crack me up, but there SHOULD be kink friendly locksmiths, I believe!

    And on planes…NO METAL LOCKS! Always use the plastic ones πŸ™‚ Always!

    Ms. Delia

  • YESSSSS …. and the weird thing is …. he DID talk to his Mistress. I gave him instructions … I just never thought he would go off the reservation, so to speak. Silly chastity boy!

  • Delia

    Ms Olivia! OMG!!! That is the whole reason to HAVE and FOLLOW a plan!! I am shaking my head. He was naughty with his chastity!

    Ms. Delia

  • Ms Kay Marie

    OMG – I am sure afterwards you can giggle a little about it but at the time a brief moment of panic comes on you. Always great to have a back up plan. I am a firm believer in always having the ground rules & contingency plans laid out first. To me you can relax more knowing that if something comes up – you’re cover!! Thanks for the reminder that things can happen to any of us.
    BTW – regardless of the situation – send him to the shed – lol Mine creeps me out too!!

    Ms Kay Marie

  • Delia

    Giggling after is the best, especially after the scary part is off.

    Ms. Kay, you are SO right. Ground Rules, and a PLAN!

    BDSM stays SAFE!

  • I have only had a couple of ER visits with real life kinky experiences. One was getting the lock cut off where the cock was getting more and more swollen and purple inside. When he went to get the key, he accidentally dropped it down the sink! Finding the tools to get the drain pipe off was taking too much time, so we went to the ER and had it cut off there. And ice put on his dick for awhile as well.


    Ms. Delia, I am SO GLAD to know Jack was cool with cutting the lock off himself. I would have been a nervous wreck watching. Glad you were a stable force for him!

  • Delia

    Key near the sink??? OMG Ms. Daphne, I cracked UP!

    Jack was excellent cutting off the chastity lock! New lock was purchased too!!


  • Kayla

    I read all of your blogs and this was very well written. I must say that it never occurred to me for the need for an emergency plan with a chastity device. The key did not work, imagine that. It does make sense after reading the blog posting. Duly noted.

  • Jerry

    Locks are very easy to break if they are padlock style. Here is a little video to show you how. As with almost anything, its just a matter of applying the proper leverage to get results you desire. πŸ™‚

  • Delia

    Thanks, Jerry!! Great help!

  • Delia

    I am GLAD this helped you, Kayla! Always have an emergency plan for EVERYTHING!

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