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Tease and Denial brings Blue Balls

Empress Delia — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 01:30:17 +0000

Tease and Denial Causes Painful Blue Balls for Me

Tease and denial can bring on a case of painful blue balls. The aching balls can be felt from upper thighs well into the lower abdomen. Edging, Tease sessions, and orgasm denial can make tease and denial enthusiasts’ balls so sore. I personally love it when I get emails describing the struggle of one who has been denied an orgasm. One blog reader shared this with me.

A Denied Man Discussed his Blue Balls

This weekend you provided me with more pleasure than I have had in a long time. By pleasure I mean ball aching frustration. I made sure that I edged for you in 5 different locations today. The first was one on the way to an appointment downtown. I was able to unzip my pants and stroke as I was on cruise control down the expressway. The second was in the men’s room stall at the coffee shop. There was alot of people coming in and out but I managed to stifle my moans as I edged a second time – a thin strand of precum making its way down to the cold tile floor.

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The third edge was in my office. I could hear my busty intern on the phone chatting to her friend about their exploits Friday night while I jerked my hand up and down my shaft with a nice tight grip. I gave it at least 2000 strokes and enjoyed it so much I edged multiple times over the next hour. Stroking beats working any day! At one point I think my intern must have heard my muffled moans as her conversation stopped and I heard her giggle. Maybe I should ask her to watch next time. The fourth edge was through my pants under the table while I ate lunch. It was at one of those crowded sushi places and I had been playing so much at the office it wasn’t hard to reach the edge without skin contact. I scanned around the room and found a young lady with gorgeous eyes and made eye contact with her while I massaged my cock head through the thin fabric of my wool suit pants. Do you think she could look back into my eyes and sense what I was thinking? Do you think she knew how close I was to blowing my load in my pants? I think I noticed her blushing.

Final Denial and Swollen Balls

My fifth and final edging is about to begin. I like to wait until after listening to you on Cock Radio. I like the sound of your steamy voice in my head when I lay naked on my bed with a bottle of astroglide, my Aneros Helix massager, and a few hours of stroking and edging and milking my prostate. My balls are swollen to the size of tangerines full of cum saved up for you Empress Delia. The pain is delicious. Thank you for challenging me beyond where I have ever gone before!

This week’s Tease and Denial Assignment

PORN! This week I want you to watch porn online with your stroking and edging. So, schedule your stroking times well each day! If you need to for privacy, change the times. Email me: Delia@enchantrixempire.com so you can report which porn you are watching, and how your slow, easy stroking method is keeping your balls full, tight, well teased, and aching oh so much. Tell me how much you love denial and suffering through those blue balls for me.

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Empress Delia — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 04:00:18 +0000

Tease and denial is a favorite activity of mine, and I am so impressed by how much orgasm denial is going on! I adore when other Mistresses get in on the teasing and denying, and I have a treat for you today! Check out what Ms. Sloane has to say.

One of the things that saddens me is the general lack of knowledge and even downright fear so many men have with regards to their prostates. So many miss out on the best thing to really enhance an orgasm and round out their sex life because of this

Tease with Prostate Massage

irrational fear that if their prostate were to be stimulated and they cum, they somehow magically transform into a gay man.And if that were to happen, would the world suddenly end, the skies fall and the planet just explode?

Let me remind you of a few basic facts. Women have G spots and when they are stimulated they usually have wildly wonderful orgasms and in my own experience, ones that are stronger and last longer. So…men have their own ‘P” spot and if properly stimulated, the same effect occurs. As far as I know, having a great climax and one that lasts longer and makes men suddenly realize what cumming is all about do not, I repeat, do not immediately start having this insatiable urge to suck strange cocks at random and without any control. Not saying this never happens, but in my many years as a sexual femdom gourmand, I haven’t witnessed it. Jus’ sayin’.

Do yourself this favor and try it, start slow as Ms Delia has posted about, using external massage, a lot of lube, and just enjoy. When you are ready to take the next step and have your prostate massaged internally with my massager while you stroke your cock, let me know. I’ll be happy to help assist you in cumming your brains out and watching the look on your face when you do. After that, you’ll beg me for more and kick yourself for not realizing these few simple truths sooner. Trust me.

I have to say, I couldn’t agree with Ms. Sloane more! Enjoy your stroking, massage that prostate, and remember you are not allowed to cum! Be ready for a new activity Monday!

Tantric Masturbation Exercise

Empress Delia — Sun, 22 May 2011 13:03:19 +0000

Tantric Masturbation has been something I have dabbled with, but have become more serious about since doing the Fire Breath Orgasm with Ms. Layla and Ms. Claire Friday May 20, 2011 on The Weekly Hot Spot. It was intense. I had been practicing, and got some tremendous feelings, and want to share some tips with you. Think of this as a bonus, not my spreadsheet challenge, but something extra for you to try and to incorporate into your masturbation challenges with me!

What can you do?
I want you to try something very simple. Slow down a bit and pay attention to what you feel. I want you to savor and enjoy your feelings in each and every part of your body. I know this is hard (no pun) but don’t just focus only on your cock, but be aware of every other feeling. Maybe you will have tingles in your feet, warmth in your back, clarity in your mind, and pulsing in your perineum and prostate.

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Help your mind be aware of these by touching yourself in these places. I know this is not for everyone, but you can certainly insert a finger for prostate stimulation, and just enjoy. Alternatley applying pressure to your perineum can produce absolutlely exquisite warm feelings.

The Basic Thought:
Basically what I want is for you to become more mindful and exploring in nature when you stroke for me! Relax and enjoy the little tingles, the warmth of energy, the peaks, and the build ups. When starting, don’t rush it with thoughts of “I must cum!” Relax, enjoy, breathe and just feel. This may be the first time you have actually taken time to notice sensations. Notice the difference when stroking this way. Now, you may not cum the traditional way, but may have more intense feelings throughout your body than you do with tradtitional masturbation!

What happened on the Hot Spot?
Ms Delia and Ms. Layla were visited by Ms. Claire, and shared a Fire Breath Orgasm with everyone in chat! It was intense, and for this Mistress felt so warm and strong! Ms. Layla has posted a tantric masturbation meditation involving moving energy up your body in a sequence of circles.

How Can I Find That?
Oh that’s easy! Just visit Ms. Layla’s blog for a more detailed version of this special energy orgasm! Also, download the Weekly Hot Spot show’s podcast so you can practice with us!

Monday we resume our spreadsheet program, but do try this and report to Mistress Delia!

Fetish Weekend Update

Empress Delia — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 01:22:18 +0000

Fetish Weekend Update

A Sexy Fetish Weekend Makes A Mistress Happy!

This weekend was a hot weekend! Though I missed speaking to you, I did so enjoy the activities the weekend provided. On Friday night, after The Weekly Hot Spot show, I was able to get a turn teasing a mummified slut. This was amazing. The slut was hot! He was up on a slow moving turnstile. Industrial-style plastic wrap was woven around him. Just when I thought his already stiffening cock would be covered, the wrapper began a close criss crossing leaving only the cock and balls uncovered. This would become my teasing area! After participating with other Mistresses to cover the plastic encased slut with candle wax, making pretty colors and patterns, the tease and denial began! I had such fun making this toy squirm, scream , and beg. It was such a hot scene!

Saturday was all about transformations! I got to use makeup skills to help pretty up some sexy sluts on their way to fem transformations! Some even chose (or were put on display by their Mistresses) to participate in a sexy sissy fashion show. Items had been donated by Mistresses. There were 3 categories: casual wear, bathing suits, and evening wear. Though I was not on the judging panel, the sexy sub I liked best won! I was thrilled. We had a chance to chat later about the transformation. I let on that she had been my favorite as she had been wearing my donated old (only once before worn) prom gown! I felt she did it great justice. She gushed about winning and getting her crown. It was perfect!

My Sunday consisted of looking at a few things before I left: impact play and flogging, CBT with all kinds of implements, and nipple play. All of these demonstrations gave me many ideas for new things I want to try! I am so thrilled to have been invited by my Mistress friends to attend this private fetish function! My weekend away was so very amazing and hot, that I am sure I will have many daydreamy fantasies about it for a long time!

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A Gallery of Asses

Empress Delia — Wed, 21 Apr 2010 07:08:00 +0000

A Gallery of Asses

A nice red ass from a good, hard spanking always makes me hot! An ass taking a nice big and hard strap-on fucking is spectacular. An athletic ass clad in baseball pants is wonderful. Does this make sense? It does if you know where Mistress Delia went on Monday!
I went to see my team play baseball! I went with 3 playthings: My pain slut, My sissy slut, and My House boy. I generally play with these toys separately, and on different schedules. Sometimes the planets align correctly, and I get to hang out/play with the three together. One toy had 4 tickets and we arranged a fun day! So I drove to Fenway. I had never been. I did not know my purse would get searched for drinks and such. Much to my delight, my glass dildo and sex dice I carry around with me did not get taken! The bag checker was nice and gave me the most embarrassed grin! This was public humiliation at its best…unplanned! We had field box tickets along the first baseline which means I could literally reach out and touch players’ asses had I wanted too.

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So back to asses! Seeing “My” players up close and personal was great! I started snapping pics with my cell phone. I tried to get faces or batting shots, but ended up getting just their backsides! Thus, I have a gallery of asses! For my purposes, “asses” can be taken on a couple of ways. I have my baseball ass gallery, and the team played like a group of asses as we lost 8-2. It was embarrassing!!

However, I had a lovely day with my playthings which is a rare treat for me! The day continued and found me at a bookstore where I found some sex books I drooled over. Yummy bits about tantric sex and ideas I will surely be using when we speak! I love books!
On the drive back, talk turned kinky as it generally does with me. I began a discussion about cuckolding. We discussed everything from the serving aspect to the humiliation aspect, and covered fluffing, BBC, cleaning and more. We even talked about types of cuckolds What a fun ride home! So, if you’ve ever wondered what Mistress Delia has done on her day off, you can be sure I am doing something fun and I am always thinking kink no matter where I go! Oh, and what happened when I got home? That is a story you’ll just have to call me to discuss…