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Effort Vs. Perfection

Effort Vs. Perfection Do I Expect Slaves To Be Perfect?

Short answer, no, I don’t.  What fun would it be if you came to me perfect, without any need for training?  There would be no reason to discipline you.  Oh, what am I saying! Even if you were perfect, I’d spank, flog and cane . . . → Read More: Effort Vs. Perfection

Discipline Vs. Punishment

Do you need to be disciplined? Or punished?

Discipline And Punishment Are Not The Same Things

The D in BDSM usually stands for Discipline. I get a lot of calls where the sub tells me that want to be punished, but what they really want is discipline. Discipline and punishment are two totally . . . → Read More: Discipline Vs. Punishment

Safe Sane and Consensual Kink

Safe, Sand and Consensual is a well known acronym in BDSM. SSC means that both Domme and sunmissive negotiate a scene, and trust exists between them…at least for the scene. It makes each person free to get fully into the scene and really let go!

Safe, Sane  And Consensual Kink

SSC Play!

This . . . → Read More: Safe Sane and Consensual Kink

Domme Space and Sub Space

This week I am in a mood to discuss some of the finer points of BDSM.

Domme space is wild! What is it? Think of Domme space as controlled sub space

Ruined Orgasm Mistress Delia

In the past, I have often talked about subspace, and Top space is the Dominant equivalent of that wonderful, blissful . . . → Read More: Domme Space and Sub Space

Ms. Scarlet and Ms. Delia Play in Florida

I’m so excited to guest blog for you, Miss Delia! I wanted to share this with your readers and admirers:

Just this past week several of your favorite LDW Mistresses got together in Florida for some frolicking and fun. I spent some “quality” time with the lovely Mistress Delia; we’ve been long time friends . . . → Read More: Ms. Scarlet and Ms. Delia Play in Florida