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A Sexy Fetish Weekend Makes A Mistress Happy!

This weekend was a hot weekend! Though I missed speaking to you, I did so enjoy the activities the weekend provided. On Friday night, after The Weekly Hot Spot show, I was able to get a turn teasing a mummified slut. This was amazing. The slut was hot! He was up on a slow moving turnstile. Industrial-style plastic wrap was woven around him. Just when I thought his already stiffening cock would be covered, the wrapper began a close criss crossing leaving only the cock and balls uncovered. This would become my teasing area! After participating with other Mistresses to cover the plastic encased slut with candle wax, making pretty colors and patterns, the tease and denial began! I had such fun making this toy squirm, scream , and beg.  It was such a hot scene!

Saturday was all about transformations! I got to use makeup skills to help pretty up some sexy sluts on their way to fem transformations! Some even chose (or were put on display by their Mistresses) to participate in a sexy sissy fashion show. Items had been donated by Mistresses. There were 3 categories: casual wear, bathing suits, and evening wear. Though I was not on the judging panel, the sexy sub I liked best won! I was thrilled. We had a chance to chat later about the transformation. I let on that she had been my favorite as she had been wearing my donated old (only once before worn) prom gown! I felt she did it great justice. She gushed about winning and getting her crown. It was perfect!

My Sunday consisted of looking at a few things before I left: impact play and flogging, CBT with all kinds of implements, and nipple play. All of these demonstrations gave me many ideas for new things I want to try! I am so thrilled to have been invited by my Mistress friends to attend this private fetish function!  My weekend away was so very amazing and hot, that I am sure I will have many daydreamy fantasies about it for a long time!

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Anal toys are a great way to begin pleasurable anal training. Toys can be small and graduated in size.  I have a set of graduated pink beads that are so hot to play with! They feel amazing, and when pulled out at the right time really intensify an orgasm!

Buy a Trinity Anal Trainer Kit!

A Butt Plug Kit is an essential tool to help you graduate from fun toys to a serious strap-on. I always suggest a butt plug kit to all of my slutty playthings! When looking for a good training kit, find one that has a small, medium and large butt plug. Small can be fun for wearing anytime. During masturbation the medium can provide amazing fullness great feeling pressure. To get you ready for a dildo or a strap-on, a large is great for stretching. Go slowly and carefully!

Prostate Massagers are amazing to use when masturbating because of the increased sensation and intensity they give! While the Aneros is a popular one, I have found one called the Rude Boy that is so hot! It is curved, and designed to stimulate the prostate and the perineum. By rocking on it, you can have a hands-free orgasm with practice! I was so excited when I saw my playthings having such success with this toy, that I looked and found a G-spot toy, the Rock Chick by the same company!! I love these toys. Note they are silicone, so use water based lubes if you play with them.

Dildos  are so very useful if you have no one to use a strap-on with you.  Sir Mathew has weighed in on his opinions about strap-ons and dildos, and has caused quite a discussion in his blog! But I digress. There are many types, and I do have my favorites! What I love most is any dildo that is realistically shaped, and that feels real.  Many dildos have a new type of comfortable “real skin” type of material that actually makes them feel close to the real thing! I like to use these realistic dildos as strap-ons. I suggest trying a real skin dildo.  It will make your masturbation session so hot!

It is important to practice and create a masturbation schedule to include anal play. I adore setting up masturbation schedules for hot strokers who want to add extra intensity to their stroking fun! This is crucial to continued anal enjoyment! Good practice will have you ready when your Mistress expects you to be ready to take her strap-on.  You’ll be so glad you practiced so you can please her! Enjoy your anal play!

For an anal training phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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Keeping you in the know!!

First is my schedule for this week! Tomorrow I have the great fortune of heading to a baseball game! But this week is vacation week for me, so you can expect to see me around much more during the days this week.  On Friday sometime during the late morning, a group of friends and I are heading out of town to a fetish gathering! I will be calling into The Weekly Hot Spot from a remote location! I think it will be a wild time for all!

Next, I have some new blogs to share with you all!

• http://www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ focuses on the hardcore femdom skill set I have. There, I provide info and tips on toys I use in scenes. I even include links for the reader to click buy and try! If you like things a bit more intense, do check out my new blog!
• www.femfabulous.com focuses on all things feminine. I wanted to have a blog especially for those who like to get prettied up. Anyone who loves transformations of any kind are certainly welcome to visit.
• http://www.theweeklyhotspot.com/ is the blog for the show co-hosted by me and Mistress Holly. It provides a weekly recap of the show, has a wonderful widget to allow you to listen to the show, and has a special page to highlight the “best” sex toys Holly and I chose for each episode.

The next bit of news is clubs!  With each blog, I have a club. There is a stroker club on www.begformistress.com, a fem club on www.femfabulous.com, and a club on www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ just for those that like things a bit more intense. On each blog a reader can put in a name or nickname and submit the form to me. It takes about 5 seconds!  I will send out newsletters twice a month and other special surprises from time to time.

The next bit of news is Facebook.  Yes, I finally caved and am there.  I have been friended by many, and am still figuring out all the bells and whistles.  You can go here to see my Facebook profile and friend me.  I am sure you can help me navigate the site, and I look forward to seeing your profiles!

Podcasts are next for news! The Weekly Hot Spot will become a podcast within the next week or so! Mistress Holly and I will keep everyone informed! Holly has also taught me the magical craft of creating audio, so you can look forward to having me read some blog posts to you!

Finally, our guest for this week’s The Weekly Hot Spot will be Ms. Jane! Our show will be focused on cuckolding, and Ms. Jane is the expert on BBC!! We are hoping for a second super secret guest, so do stay tuned!

That’s all, but I think that’s enough!

For a sexy phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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Look At This While You Tease Yourself!

Anyone who has done a Tease and Denial, guided masturbation, or edging call with me knows how much I love to tease and deny a cock. I have had many assignment requests, and feel that teasing one’s cock is so very sexy, that I do very much want to share one of my favorite tried and true ways to tease and deny a cock! I will give all of the information you will need to Tease and Deny yourself. Remember, when you do this exercise, you are stroking cock for Mistress Delia, so do it well!

Mistress Delia’s Tips on How to Tease and Deny Yourself

Things you’ll need:
• Lube
• Dice or online dice
• A block of time, at least an hour
• A towel to clean up the explosion if you get to cum

What to do:
Strip down naked, because this is what pleases your Mistress. Get on a couch, chair or bed, wherever you are most comfortable. Roll your dice. With online dice, I choose 6 to roll. With a set you roll, I would suggest three rolls. Add your numbers and that is how many times you will tease and deny. Say for example you rolled a 5, a 7, and finally a 12. You’d be looking at 24 edges!

Now, take the lube and stroke your cock slowly anyway you like. Try your favorite way, the old stand by. Work your cock slowly, exciting it more and more. Think of it as a number line, one through five. One is just hard and not very excited, 3 is in the middle, hard and excited, but not so excited that you couldn’t stop if needed. A 5 is the edge. This is where I want you to be! Work yourself up to a twitching, throbbing 5 that is about 3-5 strokes away from cumming. Stop.
Yes, stop. Remove your hand, take deep, gulps of air, relax your tense “ready to cum” muscles and relax. You will let your cock drop down to a three. Once there, you can start over again, getting to that agonizingly blissful 5, then stopping again. You will repeat this process until you have done the required amount of edges as determined by your dice rolls.

I know many Mistresses love games that involve Tease and Denial.In fact,  Mistress Holly has some amazing  Tease and Denial Games that you should see. Mistresses agree it is so hot when we get to assign and control your masturbation and your orgasm! 
After this, you need to find out whether or not you may cum. This is best left to fate, and I like a coin toss. Don’t have a coin? That’s fine you can flip a coin online! It’s easy. Now here are the rules. If you flip heads, you may cum. If you flip tails you must deny, as much as that makes you ache!

I never said self Tease and Denial would be easy! I hope you have the will to follow through if the coin says No! Do you think you can really deny yourself? I hope you can!

For a sexy tease and denial session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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Listen to what Mistress Delia thinks about  stroking by yourself:

http://eroticaudios.com/content/Delia/DoNotStrokeAlone.mp3