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External Prostate Massage

Empress Delia — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 04:00:45 +0000

Oh my strokers, I must tell you a few of you are now familiar with the words “accident” and “failure”. Some of you did not follow the stroking and teasing instructions given on Saturday! Go back and recheck that post so you can refresh yourselves on what Mistress wants. I no longer want to see a submissive, humiliated email telling me something like, “I was edging last night and I went too far and had an orgasm.” Really? How disappointing! To the few who have gone too far, you will still follow the challenges and keep me apprised of your progress! Just because you messed up and had an orgasm does not mean you get to quit! Remember, your cock and balls are mine until New Year’s Day, remember? I know you all want to please Mistress and do well with this challenge, so continue with renewed efforts and ache for me!

Prostate Massage

I will tease and deny you with prostate massage!

Moving forward, we will be doing some milking soon to get rid of just a bit of that achy semen build up and also deprive you of the pleasurable feelings of a full orgasm. I know some out there cannot do an internal prostate massage, so this week I want you all to practice an external prostate massage which you will learn this week and use for all other weeks if you can’t do an internal prostate massage. I love teaching new tricks!

How to Massage the Prostate Externally

There are a couple of ways, but the easiest is for you to lie on your back, and bring his knees up. Next, you will place the soles of his feet together as best as you can. If you can’t, just move your knees apart so they are more perpendicular to your body. This position exposes the perineum or taint. It may be difficult, but do your best to please your Mistress! I want you to move your finger along your perineum until you feel a change in the muscles. It may feel like the direction of muscles change. When you find that, you will feel for a firm lump about the size of a walnut. Using your index and middle fingers, gently rub and press this area while moving your fingers in a small circle This will soon produce pleasurable feelings, and will help prostate fluid that has built up to drain from your cock. You will not orgasm, but will drip or leak. While arousing, this will not be even close to an orgasm.

How long do I Do This?

I want my challengers, and that includes everyone who signed up to practice this daily this week. Times will vary, but I estimate about 15 minutes to a half hour for sufficient leaking. Now, if you do not leak or drip after a full 30 minutes, you will stop. As long as you felt some pleasurable feelings, you will have accomplished what I wanted; moving around that prostate fluid. Practice daily in the bathroom on your back if you have to, and remember you will use this for milking very soon!

Anal Training and Strap Ons

Empress Delia — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 00:16:29 +0000

I love anal play, and have quite the collection of anal toys, prostate massagers, and strap-ons! I love breaking in a man, and think every man should experience the pleasures of anal play often. It is important to know that you can’t just go right from wanting the actual experience anal play or a strap-on to immediately riding a large dildo or getting fucked by a strap-on. There are steps you must take in between, and these steps are very pleasurable, especially when added to masturbation.

Anal toys are a great way to begin pleasurable anal training. Toys can be small and graduated in size. I have a set of graduated pink beads that are so hot to play with! They feel amazing, and when pulled out at the right time really intensify an orgasm!

Buy a Trinity Anal Trainer Kit!

A Butt Plug Kit is an essential tool to help you graduate from fun toys to a serious strap-on. I always suggest a butt plug kit to all of my slutty playthings! When looking for a good training kit, find one that has a small, medium and large butt plug. Small can be fun for wearing anytime. During masturbation the medium can provide amazing fullness great feeling pressure. To get you ready for a dildo or a strap-on, a large is great for stretching. Go slowly and carefully!

Prostate Massagers are amazing to use when masturbating because of the increased sensation and intensity they give! While the Aneros is a popular one, I have found one called the Rude Boy that is so hot! It is curved, and designed to stimulate the prostate and the perineum. By rocking on it, you can have a hands-free orgasm with practice! I was so excited when I saw my playthings having such success with this toy, that I looked and found a G-spot toy, the Rock Chick by the same company!! I love these toys. Note they are silicone, so use water based lubes if you play with them.

Dildos are so very useful if you have no one to use a strap-on with you. Sir Mathew has weighed in on his opinions about strap-ons and dildos, and has caused quite a discussion in his blog! But I digress. There are many types, and I do have my favorites! What I love most is any dildo that is realistically shaped, and that feels real. Many dildos have a new type of comfortable “real skin” type of material that actually makes them feel close to the real thing! I like to use these realistic dildos as strap-ons. I suggest trying a real skin dildo. It will make your masturbation session so hot!

It is important to practice and create a masturbation schedule to include anal play. I adore setting up masturbation schedules for hot strokers who want to add extra intensity to their stroking fun! This is crucial to continued anal enjoyment! Good practice will have you ready when your Mistress expects you to be ready to take her strap-on. You’ll be so glad you practiced so you can please her! Enjoy your anal play!

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Beg For Mistress Information

Empress Delia — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 03:16:53 +0000

I sometimes need to do an informational post. There is so much going on and so many things that I am excited about, I had to share!

Keeping you in the know!!

First is my schedule for this week! Tomorrow I have the great fortune of heading to a baseball game! But this week is vacation week for me, so you can expect to see me around much more during the days this week. On Friday sometime during the late morning, a group of friends and I are heading out of town to a fetish gathering! I will be calling into The Weekly Hot Spot from a remote location! I think it will be a wild time for all!

Next, I have some new blogs to share with you all!

http://www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ focuses on the hardcore femdom skill set I have. There, I provide info and tips on toys I use in scenes. I even include links for the reader to click buy and try! If you like things a bit more intense, do check out my new blog!
www.femfabulous.com focuses on all things feminine. I wanted to have a blog especially for those who like to get prettied up. Anyone who loves transformations of any kind are certainly welcome to visit.
http://www.theweeklyhotspot.com/ is the blog for the show co-hosted by me and Mistress Holly. It provides a weekly recap of the show, has a wonderful widget to allow you to listen to the show, and has a special page to highlight the “best” sex toys Holly and I chose for each episode.

The next bit of news is clubs! With each blog, I have a club. There is a stroker club on www.begformistress.com, a fem club on www.femfabulous.com, and a club on www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ just for those that like things a bit more intense. On each blog a reader can put in a name or nickname and submit the form to me. It takes about 5 seconds! I will send out newsletters twice a month and other special surprises from time to time.

The next bit of news is Facebook. Yes, I finally caved and am there. I have been friended by many, and am still figuring out all the bells and whistles. You can go here to see my Facebook profile and friend me. I am sure you can help me navigate the site, and I look forward to seeing your profiles!

Podcasts are next for news! The Weekly Hot Spot will become a podcast within the next week or so! Mistress Holly and I will keep everyone informed! Holly has also taught me the magical craft of creating audio, so you can look forward to having me read some blog posts to you!

Finally, our guest for this week’s The Weekly Hot Spot will be Ms. Jane! Our show will be focused on cuckolding, and Ms. Jane is the expert on BBC!! We are hoping for a second super secret guest, so do stay tuned!

That’s all, but I think that’s enough!

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Stroking Challenge Update

Empress Delia — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 02:17:00 +0000

Time to update you on the stroking challenge.

My Cock Stroking Challenge is still going on until April 24th. There are two weeks left to stroke for a day or more for your Mistress!

On The Weekly Hot Spot, winners were told they would be notified by email, and were announced for the first few weeks of the challenge.

For the trial run of 3-21 through 3-27, the winner was JJ who broke in the challenge, and did more than 24 hours without sleeping before the rule amendment allowing a full night’s sleep was added! That took will!

For the week 3-28 through 4-3, the winner was JB who did the most hours and kept me updated in both IM and in email! Impressive!

For the week 4-4 through 4-10 the winner was BillyRay who kept me updated hourly with not only email, but also video clips too! I watch them often to enjoy my favorite edges over and over!

So far for this week, there are two challengers stroking it out! The first is at more than 30 hours. The second is at 27 hours, and continuing, hoping to emerge the winner!

I am so enjoying this challenge, that I am hoping to start a new one for the merry merry month of May! I’d love to focus on cuckolds! I know whom I would love to team up with for that challenge for some ideas: Mistress Christine! She always has a great cuckold story or two that she tells so very well! What do you cucks think? Ready for a challenge? Stay tuned. I will let you know what I come up with!!

Now,let’s go back to the stroking challenge. I will announce the winner on the second episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, this Friday, April 16th at 9pm EST. There is some great news too! The Weekly Hot Spot has its own blog where Mistress Holly and I will recap our show weekly! Feel free to stop by The Weekly Hot Spot Blog to say hello and leave a comment or two. We’ll enjoy your feedback!

For a hot Smart and sexy phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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12 Days of Denial and 12 Days of Femme

Empress Delia — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:35:44 +0000

12-14-09

Well, deck the halls with pretty sissies and Tis’ the season to be cock-teased!

Because I adore teasing AND adore crossdressers and sissies, I had to incorporate the 12 Days of Christmas somehow!

So, here is how it works. Each Blog post will be 2 tiered. One part will be aimed at strokers, men in chastity, those who love teasing, and so on. The other part will be for my favorite crossdressers and sissies who love things soft and feminine.

Read the part that applies to you, and have a fun 12 days!

12 Days of Denial: Day 12

Oh this is so much fun! For my pleasure, you are going to tease yourself and edge, but not cum until I allow it. Won’t that be the best gift ever? Yes! Mistress says so!

So, here is your task. You need to practice for me. Let’s start with an easy task! 10 minutes of stroking followed by 5 edges for me. Then you can remove your hand and walk around with a nice pair of blue balls!

12 Days of Femme: Day 12

Okay. Today is a day of organization. Today you are to pick out you favorite 12 pairs of panties. Don’t have 12? Time to go shop! Get 12 sexy pairs. You will be wearing them just for me over the next few days. Now, do not fret. If there are days you need to be a bit more discreet, get a bland and boring black brief. No one would question that! Now with each passing day, I will challenge you to wear a sexy panty! Will you be able to meet my challenge? I do hope so. Here is what I want you to have:

1. A white pair

2. A red pair

3. A boring black pair

4. A cute pair, something flowery

5. A shocking pink pair

6. A basic nude pair

7. Something with lace

8. A satin pair

9. A thong

10. Something with a keyhole back

11. A stretch lace pair

12. A pair with naughty writing

So, that is your list. I know many of you have hundreds of pairs of panties, so this should be a cinch! If not, go shop, or if you must, make due with what you have. The most important part is wearing panties every day! Fa la la la la La la la la!

For a guided phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975

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