Anal toys are a great way to begin pleasurable anal training. Toys can be small and graduated in size.  I have a set of graduated pink beads that are so hot to play with! They feel amazing, and when pulled out at the right time really intensify an orgasm!

Buy a Trinity Anal Trainer Kit!

A Butt Plug Kit is an essential tool to help you graduate from fun toys to a serious strap-on. I always suggest a butt plug kit to all of my slutty playthings! When looking for a good training kit, find one that has a small, medium and large butt plug. Small can be fun for wearing anytime. During masturbation the medium can provide amazing fullness great feeling pressure. To get you ready for a dildo or a strap-on, a large is great for stretching. Go slowly and carefully!

Prostate Massagers are amazing to use when masturbating because of the increased sensation and intensity they give! While the Aneros is a popular one, I have found one called the Rude Boy that is so hot! It is curved, and designed to stimulate the prostate and the perineum. By rocking on it, you can have a hands-free orgasm with practice! I was so excited when I saw my playthings having such success with this toy, that I looked and found a G-spot toy, the Rock Chick by the same company!! I love these toys. Note they are silicone, so use water based lubes if you play with them.

Dildos  are so very useful if you have no one to use a strap-on with you.  Sir Mathew has weighed in on his opinions about strap-ons and dildos, and has caused quite a discussion in his blog! But I digress. There are many types, and I do have my favorites! What I love most is any dildo that is realistically shaped, and that feels real.  Many dildos have a new type of comfortable “real skin” type of material that actually makes them feel close to the real thing! I like to use these realistic dildos as strap-ons. I suggest trying a real skin dildo.  It will make your masturbation session so hot!

It is important to practice and create a masturbation schedule to include anal play. I adore setting up masturbation schedules for hot strokers who want to add extra intensity to their stroking fun! This is crucial to continued anal enjoyment! Good practice will have you ready when your Mistress expects you to be ready to take her strap-on.  You’ll be so glad you practiced so you can please her! Enjoy your anal play!

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Keeping you in the know!!

First is my schedule for this week! Tomorrow I have the great fortune of heading to a baseball game! But this week is vacation week for me, so you can expect to see me around much more during the days this week.  On Friday sometime during the late morning, a group of friends and I are heading out of town to a fetish gathering! I will be calling into The Weekly Hot Spot from a remote location! I think it will be a wild time for all!

Next, I have some new blogs to share with you all!

• http://www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ focuses on the hardcore femdom skill set I have. There, I provide info and tips on toys I use in scenes. I even include links for the reader to click buy and try! If you like things a bit more intense, do check out my new blog!
• www.femfabulous.com focuses on all things feminine. I wanted to have a blog especially for those who like to get prettied up. Anyone who loves transformations of any kind are certainly welcome to visit.
• http://www.theweeklyhotspot.com/ is the blog for the show co-hosted by me and Mistress Holly. It provides a weekly recap of the show, has a wonderful widget to allow you to listen to the show, and has a special page to highlight the “best” sex toys Holly and I chose for each episode.

The next bit of news is clubs!  With each blog, I have a club. There is a stroker club on www.begformistress.com, a fem club on www.femfabulous.com, and a club on www.thepainmistress.com/blog/ just for those that like things a bit more intense. On each blog a reader can put in a name or nickname and submit the form to me. It takes about 5 seconds!  I will send out newsletters twice a month and other special surprises from time to time.

The next bit of news is Facebook.  Yes, I finally caved and am there.  I have been friended by many, and am still figuring out all the bells and whistles.  You can go here to see my Facebook profile and friend me.  I am sure you can help me navigate the site, and I look forward to seeing your profiles!

Podcasts are next for news! The Weekly Hot Spot will become a podcast within the next week or so! Mistress Holly and I will keep everyone informed! Holly has also taught me the magical craft of creating audio, so you can look forward to having me read some blog posts to you!

Finally, our guest for this week’s The Weekly Hot Spot will be Ms. Jane! Our show will be focused on cuckolding, and Ms. Jane is the expert on BBC!! We are hoping for a second super secret guest, so do stay tuned!

That’s all, but I think that’s enough!

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Well, deck the halls with pretty sissies and Tis’ the season to be cock-teased!

Because I adore teasing AND adore crossdressers and sissies, I had to incorporate the 12 Days of Christmas somehow!

So, here is how it works.  Each Blog post will be 2 tiered.  One part will be aimed at strokers, men in chastity, those who love teasing, and so on.  The other part will be for my favorite crossdressers and sissies who love things soft and feminine.

Read the part that applies to you, and have a fun 12 days!

12 Days of Denial: Day 12

Oh this is so much fun!  For my pleasure, you are going to tease yourself and edge, but not cum until I allow it.  Won’t that be the best gift ever? Yes!  Mistress says so!

So, here is your task.  You need to practice for me.  Let’s start with an easy task!  10 minutes of stroking followed by 5 edges for me.  Then you can remove your hand and walk around with a nice pair of blue balls!

12 Days of Femme: Day 12

Okay. Today is a day of organization.  Today you are to pick out you favorite 12 pairs of panties.  Don’t have 12?  Time to go shop! Get 12 sexy pairs.  You will be wearing them just for me over the next few days.  Now, do not fret.  If there are days you need to be a bit more discreet, get a bland and boring black brief.  No one would question that! Now with each passing day, I will challenge you to wear a sexy panty!  Will you be able to meet my challenge? I do hope so.  Here is what I want you to have:

1.        A white pair

2.       A red pair

3.       A boring black pair

4.       A cute pair, something flowery

5.       A shocking pink pair

6.       A basic nude pair

7.       Something with lace

8.       A satin pair

9.       A thong

10.   Something with a keyhole back

11.   A stretch lace pair

12.   A pair with naughty writing

So, that is your list.  I know many of you have hundreds of pairs of panties, so this should be a cinch! If not, go shop, or if you must, make due with what you have.  The most important part is wearing panties every day! Fa la la la la La la la la!

For a guided phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975

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Wow, you are qu ite a creative bunch! I am one happy Mistress! I already have some great entries: Kinky Wonderland, Frosted The Blowman, and Jingle Belled Cock just to name a few! In case you are a new subscriber, here are the rules and information:

This is something I gave my sweet submissives an extra week to work on. The goal was to take a Christmas Carol or Holiday Tune. Take the words and change them to reflect a bdsm or kinky set of lyrics able to be recorded on getgirlie.com or teasemania.com.

Rules:

1. Submissions are due by Thursday the 17th

2. Songs are to be sent to Empress.Delia@gmail.com

3. Songs must be kinky/sexy/naughty, but nice enough to be sung by me and posted!

4. If the song is a complete song, give me those kinky lyrics from beginning to end.

5. As a bonus, and a chance to win brownie points, I have a favorite strap-on-training song that goes so well to Jingle Bell Rock. I have posted it in poem form somewhere many years ago. See if you can find it, and I will sing a custom audio for a wonderful cocksucker out there!

I am so giving!

Again I will say, with this contest, I will make the following promise: As long as the lyrics fit and are appropriate for the free audio section, I will sing each entry. Yes, that’s right. Mistress Delia will sing your entry! Don’t worry. While I love to embarrass and humiliate you on our calls at times, I am personally quite confident, and enjoy singing. I am looking forward to it! Now how does that grab you? I know you can’t wait to have a sexy and smart woman like me to show off her talent! Make these songs fun for me.

Best of luck with the contest!

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We started. I began with, “Go grab your dildo I made you buy.  I am going to make you take it all.” He whimpered. I sternly said, “I don’t care if it’s really big, you choose it, and my instructions were for you to get a dildo to challenge yourself!  Now, lube it up.  Lie on your back and spread our legs wide open and slide just the head of that dildo into your asshole.  Slide it in there slowly.” Secretly I was getting off on his whimpers and moans because I love being a Femdom Mistress! He managed to get just the head in. But I had more in store for him. I slowly had him work the rest of the dildo in, and it took some time! I did say challenging!

Finally I took him through a guided masturbation role-play where he closed his eyes and imagined that the dildo was my strap-on, and I was using it on him. He was amazing the more he got caught up in the call! It was great because I was completely into it too! This call was simply great because of a few things. First the anticipation and assignments done over a couple of days. Second I got into his head and the connection was great. I love it, when that can happen.

Are you ready to impress me?

For a guided phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975

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