What are kegels and how do they intensify orgasms? Well, I will explain the first part, and then will let a sexy stroker add his thoughts about kegels during masturbation! And I must say, I love how many of you are doing orgasm experiments after I encouraged you to do so in my previous blog post. Keep it up!
What Are Kegels?
Kegels are basically your pelvic floor muscles. Sure women have them too, and we squeeze them in line at the grocery store, at work, and pretty much everywhere else! WHY? Oh it feels GOOD, and it also intensifies orgasms! You can do them too! See just another thing you did not know about masturbation!
How Can I Intensify My Orgasms with Kegels?
Just pretend you are trying to stop cum from spurting out and clamp down. Squeeze that cock muscle. You will likely feel the squeeze all the way to that back door I love so much. That is normal. The muscle is a long one!
A Caller Tries Kegels to Make His Orgasms Better
I like sharing what others send me, and this is a great example of a way to use kegels.
I have on some very stimulating audio, images, and I can edge for a few times till I am almost to the brink. This edging is done while standing with one leg lifted up on a counter, chair, or couch no tight compression in the pelvic area, we want things to flow easily. I might be a challenging stroking position, but try it.
Next you edge till you think you can’t take any more. Just prior to the first spasm of orgasm, BREATHE, BREATHE AGAIN (deep) let the need to let the spasm go, subside. As part of this some deliciously decadent viscous fluid makes its way out of my head. This is all the pre-cum, not the joyous thick cream that I wait for. You CAN do this a few times…
Then…
Edge again…but this time get to the almost point of no return and drop that leg down, stand straight up legs together and do a powerful kegel squeeze!
The kegel will suppress the urge of the involuntary orgasm (spasm), but force a copious amount of thick creamy ejaculate out, to catch. The great part is that you have not had the release from a full on orgasm so you are still very horny, willing to eat and taste to satisfy that hunger. You’re still able to stroke to the full orgasm, but do not be surprised if very little comes out and it is just the wonderful spasm feeling. Enjoy !
Remember to try new masturbation ideas and techniques, BEG for Mistress Delia, and do those Kegel Squeezes!
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YAY for kegels and deep breathing being endorsed so heartily by another of Your submissives Ms Delia. i am so thankful to Your dear friend Ms. Layla for introducing those techniques to me so long ago when i first found LDW. Oh and You have done such a wonderful job of providing ample opportunities for me to perfect those techniques for edging numerous times. i am also thankful to the two of You for adding a huge does of Tantric energy work that has now helped me experience multiple implosions during our sessions. Some may ask what is an implosion? To me it has the same total body spasms and sensations of cumming, without ejaculation, and often without even stroking. i’m told they are a site to behold, and confess being able to experience (6-10) during an hour session, sure leaves me satiated and spent when the time is up. i do love when You leave me feeling like an amoeba, in a drained sub-space.
That is quite a good review of kegels, kneelcc!
I am glad you learned and use them, and I truly get much pleasure watching you ENJOY them!
I’ve done Kegels for years, and can definitely attest to the benefits of them! I am so happy that you are telling everyone about them, Miss Delia. So many people don’t even know what they are, but once they learn, orgasms are not the same! To me, the best thing about Kegels is that I can do it when no one knows. When I’m standing in line at Starbucks, when I’m watching television….anytime! Totally worth the few minutes every day when you consider how they can change your pleasure. Heck, now I’m doing them right now! Thanks, Miss Delia!
Oh yes, Ms. Amber!
I do them all the time too, and they really enhance EVERYTHING!! Men can do them too once they are able to locate the muscle. Just think of everyone in line at the grocery store doing their kegel exercises! 🙂 FUN!
Is it just me or are kegels like yawning? As in they are contagious! I can’t even read the word “yawn” with out getting the urge and thanks to you Ms. Delia. I have discovered I am the same way about kegels. Yep. Now I am sitting here in my office kegeling away!
Kegels are my fave form of exercise other than sex! They are discreet, stimulating while also being relaxing, and as an added bonus help strengthen the bladder -which is helpful while waiting in the long line for the ladies room.
I got one of my boy toys addicted to them ever since he asked how I made it feel like I was squeezing and drawing him in internally. Now he loves performing this simple exercise as well.
True story: I was sitting on the tarmac, with nothing to read, wearing a tight pair of jeans and squeezing my kegels. When all of a sudden, from out of no where, I had an orgasm. Now mind you, I was sitting on the plane between a pair of suits (nothing like me, I usually sit by the window). I was telling one of my callers about it, and I said, “I hope I covered it well.” And he laughed a knowing laugh and said, “Oh they knew, trust me.” And I said aghast, “How?” And he said, “They smelled you.” HAHAHAHAHAHA!
Ms. Delia, your callers are very lucky to have a mistress like you to expand their horizons. Not only do you have one caller grateful for your kegel guidance, but you have another caller in the comments who has obviously learned a great deal from you too! I’m a little jealous of their orgasms, I have to admit. Maybe you can help me improve my kegel orgasms! 😉
Ms. Piper
Oh let me just say I would LOVE to help you out with your kegel exercises! We could also experiment (in the name of science of course) to make sure the kegels work!!