OTK Spanking

Naughty Submissive Needs OTK Spanking You stand before me, naked and eyes down. I can see the slight blush of embarrassment on your cheeks. I know why you are here. You have been very naughty and that requires an over the knee spanking. I know tonight was a formal...

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Masturbation Stretching

Stretching Before You Masturbate Pre-masturbation stretching can help you to feel amazing when you go for a wonderful Masturbation Marathon where you will be sitting, laying, or standing in one place for long periods of time. And I have talked to many men who...

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Ruined Orgasms – Scrunching

I LOVE ruined orgasms and want to show you all about SCRUNCHING! What is a Ruined Orgasm? A ruined orgasm is simple. You "almost" cum, but are stopped just as you go over the edge. When you just edge for me, you stop before you have that almost orgasm. Ruining takes...

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Easy Submissive Rules

Three Easy Submissive Rules I often use 3 simple rules that submissives must adhere to. I simply love control, and these submissive rules make it very easy to see that! I will control you even when we are not speaking.  Rule 1 - Show Proper Body Care When serving a...

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Human Furniture

Human Furniture Bdsm human furniture is an intense fetish scene. To be able to think of one’s self as an object rather than human is an incredible headspace. One dungeon slave chronicled a dungeon story so that all could understand that special submissive headspace....

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Temperature Play

Temperature Play Temperature Play Intensity Temperature play – hot wax and cold ice – can certainly give intense sensations, especially if you combine the two.  Alternating the heat of wax dripping onto you, with an ice cube sliding over your sensitive parts can...

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Sensory Deprivation

Why I Like Sensory Deprivation Being able to take away your ability to sense anything that’s going on is just the ultimate in control.  Part of being a creative Mistress is the ability to mind fuck, and what better way to fuck with your mind than to make sure you have...

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Violet Wands

Violet Wands A “quack” medical device I  am a naughty femdom Mistress who loves to play with toys! The Violet Wand was a medical device developed at the turn of the century that was supposed to cure everything that ails you with the judicious use of static...

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Endurance Cockteasing

The Best Thing About Cockteasing Cockteasing – All About The Denial?? I am a Cockteasing Bitch, and  I love teasing you OVER and OVER and OVER again likely until you beg for mercy. Oh and I know you will indeed beg for an orgasm, but honestly, what fun is that for me?...

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What IS SPH?

If you’ve got a small penis, then you know exactly what I’m talking about, don’t you? I recently got asked, "What is SPH?" in an email. The gentleman had never heard of it!  Actually, he had seen the term “SPH” and been curious. Well, if you do not know, Ms. Delia...

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No Call Sessions

No Call Sessions I know you would like to play often, and you love to be dominated! Though I certainly do distance domination by phone, things happen and you just can NOT call. Life, privacy, or lack thereof! Or maybe it is ME! I love to vacation, and if I am on...

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Getting into Subspace

Discussing subspace Subspace and feel like walking a tightrope. You want to fall into that space so much, but it is scary! Think of Ms. Delia as your guide and safety net. All the instruments of BDSM, be it hardcore or sensual are designed to bring about a floaty,...

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Happy 4th of July!

  Happy 4th of July. As we celebrate our independence today, I want you to think of anti-independence for Ms. Delia. Yes, that means independence from your dependence on orgasms. By the end of the day, I want some aching blue balls for me! So what can you do for...

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The CBT Chair

The CBT Chair All of my playthings know about the room I have in my house. The one with my “special” furniture. And one of my favorite pieces is my CBT chair. It almost looks like a Medieval throne. Massive, with a really high back. It has a very special feature...

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Predicament Bondage

Predicament Bondage What is Predicament bondage? Predicament bondage is the use of bondage and positions which can cause pleasure or punishment over time as the scene progresses.  When used as a punishment, predicament bondage positions are also known as “stress”...

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Flogging and Spanking

Why do men love being flogged and spanked? Ms. Delia likes to think of it as comfort food! Floggers as comfort? Spanking as comfort? Oh yes! Comfort food can bring you back to an earlier time when certain feelings and emotions were imprinted. Now, you get to feel safe...

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Lube for Masturbation Sessions

Picking out the right lube for your masturbation session is important, and necessary. Dry hands without lube can cause irritation! Spit dries way too quickly and has bacteria in it, and we do not want that! Sex toys really do require lube. Oh, and if you have tried...

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Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive. A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. I am fortunate...

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Roles of a submissive

Roles of a submissive There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to...

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Humiliation As Discipline

Humiliation Will Make You Better Humiliation can be such a wonderful disciplinary tool to put a submissive right in his place and to let him know who is in control, always. It can break you down so I can build you right back up again. From time to time, I like using...

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