I know three easy ways to slow down your orgasm! Do you orgasm too quickly? Do you wish you could find some ways to slow down your orgasms? If you can successfully pull back, this will make you a much better lover and will even make your masturbation more intense. Why be quick about orgasms when going slow can give you SO MUCH more intensity and pleasure.
The Slow Jerk Technique
This technique is great to use when you feel yourself approaching an orgasm. When you begin to feel yourself approaching an edge, and your body is starting to tighten up. At this point, you need to carefully grasp the scrotum and firmly pull down on those aching balls. This works because it blocks the opening the cum is supposed to push through, and it can stop ejaculation. This lets you go longer and build intensity!
The Squeeze Technique
When you are edging, practice this technique. It is simple. Wrap your first finger and thumb under the head of your penis. Squeeze until that edge and all its pulses and throbs passes. This works because it dulls the sensation a bit, and reduces the need to cum. This can allow you to edge with less risk of cumming and build up all of that delicious (intensity) over and over.
Relax and Breathe Technique
This technique is so delicious! When you start to get close to a nice edge, what you need to do is take a nice deep breath and do a slow exhale. When you do that exhale, make an effort to relax all of your muscles that are tightening up. You should find you cock feels less urgency to orgasm, and you can do this for a very long time!
Ms. Delia’s Challenge
This week I want you to CHOOSE one or all of these techniques. Practice slowing down that orgasm. Then send an email to delia@enchantrixempire.com or the comments section here, to report which worked best for you!
Ms Delia…these are some great tips for slowing down the orgasm and allowing us stroker boys to ride the edge of ecstasy for as long as possible. I for one enjoy scrotum tug…pulling those balls down and away from the body feels so damn good and allows me to ride that edge a little be longer 🙂
Oh PB,
It IS great to have a longer and more satisfying masturbation experience, right? Oh that IS so sexy when a man can ride the edge and just ENJOY! Sometimes fast is not always best!
I know you know that!
Ms. Delia
Oh Ms Delia, You know i prefer the breath an squeeze method for suppressing the urge for premature ejaculation. i am so thankful to several of You here for the mentoring and coaching in the using techniques of Tantra to prolong my actual release, while being able to enjoy the body writhing throes of multiple intense implosions. i know You enjoy watching them and having the complete control once they begin to keep them going with a simple command of “Now” or “Again!” To me the sinsation of an implosion is very similar to that of a complete orgasm,, just without the mess to clean up. (Of course, i know You also enjoy watching me clean up my mess as well).
Hi kneel.
Yes, the breathe and squeeze way is a great one. Being relaxed can really help you to hold off orgasms.
And the other nice item you bring up is eating up the cum when you have been allowed that!
😉 Ms. Delia
Yes, fast is not always best…and being watched is the bomb 🙂
AGREED, PB!!
And watching a man slowly masturbate IS amazing! I just LOVE it! 😉
Ms. Delia