I often get asked if I am a sensual or strict Mistress. And honestly the answer can be both! Often a session can start out very sensual, and turn strict when I can tell my submissive needs a firmer hand or to be taken deeper into subspace. Other times a strict session can turn sensual and sweet, especially toward the end with after care. I am both and I am neither. It truly depends on the dynamic of our session!
Sensual or Strict?
What is Sensual to Me?
I also have a side that still takes control but is softer. I generally am sexually confident and assertive but seductive and sweet at the same time! This side of me is playful, nurturing, sexy, and horny!
What is Strict to Me?
I have another side of me that can be cruel and sadistic. That part of me loves dishing out pain, humiliation, and a great mind fuck. This part of my personality is harsher and harder and will put you in your place!
How do You Decide to Be Sensual or Strict During a Session?
When you want to set up a session with me and you are curious about me, there are very specific things you can do to get a sense of my mood:
- Email me – Delia@enchantrixempire.com
- Contact me on Yahoo IM – empress.delia
- Read my tweets – @EmpressDelia
- Read and comment on my blog
- Listen to my free audios
Because I can be either sensual or strict depending on our call, its tone, and our dynamic, it is most important that you communicate to me needs and wishes. If you need a firmer hand, let me know, and I will enjoy that Toppy space! If you need sexy talking or a more nurturing call, I absolutely will wrap you in that part of my personality.
Isn’t it great that I can be anything I want?
My Dearest Mistress,
Having only been in your stable for a short time I may not be the best to weigh in here…I for one have enjoyed the softer side of you as we get to know each other..and not knowing which side of you will dierct each part of our journey together is excting in its self. I’m very glad that both sides wrap up to make you who you are.
Dave.
Oh Mistress Delia, i wholeheartedly agree from experience with everything You say above. i began typing to mention one exception, the line where You say You can be both strict and sensual, or neither, yet on further reflection,, i once again must alter my response.
You know how much i adore serving Your strict side and transferring power to You as top energy to allow You to soar into new galaxies of Domme’ space. i also cherish those times when Your mood is softer and sensual throughout the session, and especially during Your excellent after-care to conclude an intense hard core session like the one last Saturday and Tuesday night.
Now, as to being neither, i first thought of You as a wonderful combination of perpetual strict and sensitive, talented and receptive enough to pick up on my vibes of my craving need of the moment. When i first read You say You are at times neither, i was about to throw out the BS flag, Then i remembered the audience, and reflected back on many wonderful times and conversations we have shared, which i thoroughly enjoyed over the past year, that were except for a few subtle undertones, relatively asexual. i treasure the friendship we have developed talking bout such a wide range of topics, music, movies, recipes, to name a few.
You truly are a wonderful Mistress, Mentor, and Friend. i’m glad You ike all my personas and i trust You know i like all fo Yours equally as much.
Mistress Delia, I love the fact that you can be both sensuous and strict. As all of us, Mistresses are not one denominational and have complex emotions and desires. To submit to a Mistress is to experience all of her moods and desires. For me there is nothing better then when Mistress Delia quickly switches from being soft and sensual to being strict, demanding and cruel and then at her pleasure back again. Thank you Mistress Delia.
Thanks for such a sweet comment subthomas!
It is true that not many Mistresses are one dimensional. We all have different desires at different times.
I do enjoy my moods and how in the flow of a session, I can go from sensual to strict and back again!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Hi Dave!
Thanks for the compliment! It is so true that different ribbons run through me and wrap up who I am. I like who I am, and know whether I am in a sensual or strict session, I am always sexy and just happy to be me!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Hi neal!
What a great reply! Glad you did not have to throw out the BS flag, lol!
I simply just like to be ME! Whether that means I am in a sensual, strict or just a conversational mood…I am always real and true to my feelings, emotions and energies!
I am glad you have seen each side of me!
🙂 Ms. Delia
You know Ms D, i adore all of You, just as You like all of the personas You have helped me to discover and embrace in myself.
What i cherish most having experienced Your strict, sensual, and conversational moods, is the way i always hear Your radiant smile beaming through the phone.
What a sweet thing to say, kneel!
I am so glad you can hear me smile through the phone 😉 And… I know you like all the sides to me in a session.
Hee hee!
Ms. Delia
I am in agreement with both dave and k,n,& e, with their opinion of Mistress Delia. Since I found her she has given me the confidence of accepting who i am. i was meant to be a cucked fag fluffer to serve others and to be used for their pleasure. i am very proud of who and what my purpose is, and with Mistress Delia’s soon future guidance i will be placed into chastity to improve on my talents.
Love Ya
tim
Thanks tim for those wonderful words!!
I am so glad I have helped you to be confident and more acceptance of who you are! I am so happy to guide you to finding out more and more about who you are!
🙂 Ms. Delia