I believe most people know that I love ruined orgasms! Getting you to the point of no return, then pulling away that pleasure makes me feel so powerful! Watching your face, hearing your whimpers as you realize what has happened. The pleasure leaving you little by little, the realization all over your face.
This week I want to teach you about one ruined orgasm technique I enjoy, Scrunching!
Squeezing the Tip
Squeezing the tip is also known as Scrunching. With this method we are going to actually stop your cum from spurting out just after that ejaculation begins. You will stroke that cock until the very instant that you begin to feel that first sensation of cum, And then I want you to prevent it from escaping from the shaft. A ruined orgasm is amazing cock control!
Squeeze to Stop the Cum
Immediately you will wrap your first finger and thumb around the tip of that cock just below the head, in that ridge. Squeeze hard! Continue to squeeze right there very tightly until the throbbing subsides. Ruined orgasms can be punishing! The cum should be trapped in the shaft. When you let go, some might drip and dribble out, but it mostly will slide back down that shaft and not escape at all.
Ms. Delia’s Ruined Orgasm Challenge
I want you to edge 5 times for me. With EACH edge practice the squeezing technique until each edge has passed. Practice makes perfect! Once those edges are done, it is time to ruin that orgasm using the scrunching technique.
Let me know how your ruined orgasm was, and remember to BEG for Mistress Delia!
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Ohhh wow Mistress Delia, you send my mind on a mind fuck so bad with your scrunching technique on Ruining my Orgasms after edging 5 times. I just can’t wait to try, I’m going insane just thinking about it. I know my cock is not going to know what hit it, after being a regular creamy/cummer and sometimes shooter, as my balls are so,so big…I’ll be really suffering that much more, and thinking of you urging me on. I know you want the proper techniques practised, so I will do your edging and “scrunching” orgasm delay procedures as totally per description, as I want to please my Mistress fully like the good sexy subbie that I am 😉
I definitely know you love to ruin orgasms….in fact, we’ve had some fun ruining them together 😉 I love this post—-it gives the edgepets step-by-step instructions for something to do to perfect their technique and help prevent unfortunate ‘accidents’ from occurring. I can’t wait to see who might accept your challenge!
Ms Delia ~ I love this technique. And what a challenge for your little cock strokers. Five times edging. Five times being so close to the blissful release. Each time closer and closer only to know they will never reach it! And even though it is such sweet torture, if their Mistress gives them a challenge, they could never walk away from that.
Dear Mistress Delia,
I am very intrigued with this post. In this case, by scrunching, would I be keeping that cum inside my balls, seminal vesicles, and prostate? If so, this seems very tempting to try. I am curious!
Meanwhile, I will just keep on edging and obtain the benefits of orgasm denial. Perhaps the scrunched orgasm will work nicely with orgasm denial.
Thank you for this interesting post.
You are right, Ms. Delia…a ruined orgasm is amazing cock control. Most men don’t have the discipline it takes to ruin their own orgasms, but the training of a masturbatrix helps. I hope your strokers were able to successfully complete your ruined orgasm challenge…otherwise they might be in for many more ruined orgasms!
I absolutely love the surge of power I feel as a mistress when denying a stroker boy an orgasm! The sound of his whimpers as he realizes his fate is like a power surge for me. I really like the “squeezing the tip” method, because although it does require impeccable timing, it is so rewarding to succeed at that level of cock control.
Thanks, CFB!
I do believe the ruined orgasm techniques here would keep the cum trapped in your balls. Give it a try and let me know.
Excellent, Rich!
Enjoy this sexy ruined orgasm technique, and do let me know how bad the ache is and how it all works for you!
After my orgasm’s ruined will you give me a compassionate hug.?
after the ruined orgasm you could have the slave touched by sexy women, because he’d be unable to “perform”.
that would ruin his heterosexual drive.
I belong to Miss Delia and I respect her.
I suck cock for her and I take it I the ass for her.
Dear Mistress Delia,
I want to thank you for the opportunity to comment. With your encouragement, I would like to share my ruined orgasm experience.
I will start with the background! As expressed in quite a few LDW blogs, I am an active participant in the female domination BDSM lifestyle, and I have several in-person mistresses, who have taken complete charge of my cock. I also make calls regularly to the LDW mistresses for additional cock control. For the 4th of July, I was granted permission to have an orgasm, after having my last ejaculation on October, 2014. After practicing orgasm denial for those many months, I was ready to experiment with your technique.
Yes! After many months, it truly felt good to experience a ruined orgasm, even though it was a ruined one. I also utilized the squelching and scrunching techniques. By putting pressure on my penis, it felt as if cum was forcing its way out of my cock; however, I also felt that cum being backed up. This caused me to feel extra pressure inside my body, as if I still felt I was going to cum. What was also interesting is that I had a very short refractory period, and after about 1/2 hour, I could easily get hard again, and repeat the stroking and tease with orgasm denial stroking.
It has now been about 24 hours since my ruined orgasm, and my testicles feel very engorged – a good sensation. I feel as if I could easily cum, as I feel pressure inside of me. Then, I feel very horny. I am now going to be practicing more guided masturbation, teasing, and orgasm denial. It is also a learning experience, as I am learning new things about my submissive sexuality.
Importantly, all of that cum stays inside of my balls. The experience has added to my understanding that my cock and balls must be controlled by the dominant mistresses in my life. As a sexually submissive male, I willingly have handed control of my cock, and I accept that I am subject to orgasm denial and ruined orgasms.
Thank you, Mistress Delia, for this post!
Thanks for this ruined orgasm report!!
FANTASTIC!!!!!
I think hugs are a wonderful thing, alice!
I am sure you could use one after being ruined!
loved it so much iv not cum in weeks thanks to this!
So happy to hear about your orgasm denial, steve!
Ms. Delia