Reconnecting with Mistress
Sometimes you have not spoken to a Mistress in a while. Maybe you have been trying out new Mistresses or have been experimenting with different characteristics like sensual verses strict. We Mistresses of LDW love when you explore, because when we get to reconnect, it makes our time so much more special!
The Reconnecting Email:
It was great reconnecting with you after a long time. You remembered me and what things I played with. After a nice talk and reviewing your pre-call questions, you took over. You had me edging in a short amount of time. You knew what to do with me and you kept me edging for a whole hour for a total of around 30 edges. The peak was the 10 rapid edges in a matter of minutes. I wanted to cum so bad but you kept me under control. I needed to please you. I begged for my edging; I wanted more and you let me edge as long as I did not go further. The end of our hour call came too fast. You gave me an assignment to edge every 30 minutes for 5 hours. You said I was allowed to cum after the 10th edge, but I decided to just edge and not cum as I wanted to please you. You were on my mind all day and the ache in my balls reminded me of what a wonderful time we had during and after our call.
Reconnecting with Mistress After Much Time has Passed
I also recently spoke with a dear submissive who noted catching up after over a year had been easy. It was warm and comfortimg to be welcomed back after a few months of him being nervous, and wondering if I would even remember him.
Here is my advice. If you have a good connection with a Mistress, and you have lost touch, just reach out. More often than not, you will likely receive a warm welcome…and perhaps some necessary punishment, but you might just like that!
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Its been a year or more…
Life events overtake, schedules change, and other stuff gets in the way…
I miss those times when I got to turn my cam on for Ms Delia…
I loved turning my cock over to her guidance – teasing, throbbing, pulsing, edging – every touch and stroke exactly the way she wanted…
I loved knowing that she was watching me – making sure every move was exactly how she wanted…
I wonder sometimes if she misses me…
Great post Ms Delia. I love it when a caller reaches out to me after a long period of time of not talking with him. It is nice to hear what he has been up to and also to see if his fetishes, fantasies, or desires have changed. Sometimes things may have changed for him and the topics have changed. so guys just as Ms Delia has said….reach out and call your Mistress or a new Mistress and share what is on your mind xox
This is a very good and helpful post. It is helpful to know that a mistress can understand. As a submissive guy it is hard to admit how nervous, shy, timid and scared you can feel in calling a lady. Sometimes time does past and you do want to reconnect. The time passing can make you (even more) nervous. The mistresses always sound so relaxed, confident and comfortable – and there you are shaking and scared – even though it is “only” a phone call – it is a real live woman and she is there. As a guy, even a submissive one, it’s hard to own your feelings around it. I never want a woman/mistress to say “don’t be afraid”. I always hope for her to understand and accept that I truly am and that she will help me to explore my tender submissive feelings that leave me feeling small and powerless.
What a fantastic blog Ms Delia! I never thought of it this way … but I would imagine that someone might even be shy about reconnecting after a long time away. We do know that all sorts of things happen with people who call — girlfriend, marriage, work issues, health issues, travel, moving — there are so many reasons for falling out of touch. Ms Delia is right, just reconnect …. she proves the spark is will there!
You know, there are times we Mistresses get busy and don’t get to stay in touch with one another as often as we should, and there are times you and I don’t get to spend as much time torturing our pets as we’d like. I agree with your two subbies–it’s EASY to reconnect with you, and I’m always glad I have! 🙂
I sure do miss talking to you, Bill!
Yes, Ms. Piper!
Reconnecting feels so good,
Such a good point, Ms Olivia!!
It can be tough when you are shy, Jim!
Yes, we Mistresses are relaxed and confident. Just get into that groove! It will be ok.
I definitely love hearing from someone that I have been wondering about for awhile. Sometimes, there is some amazing chemistry and the Mistress noticed it, too! People get busy…it happens to everyone. But reconnecting is such a treat for both parties, and there’s a great call to follow! Great post, Miss Delia! Here’s looking forward to some fun re-connects!
Mistress Delia, you are right about the feeling it gives when a caller reconnects with a mistress after a long hiatus. I think some callers worry that we will be made that they were off trying other mistresses, so they shy away from calling. For me that is never the case. I am always glad to hear about their adventures while away and flattered that I warranted a call back. The guys here at LDW have a special place in my heart and I never care how long it’s been, as long as they make a return! 🙂
Ms Delia ~ Again, such great advice. I love when I hear from someone I haven’t in awhile ~ even if it is just a quick message to say hi. It can really get the ball rolling again. You are right, sometimes life gets in the way or you were looking around. It’s not always easy to find the right fit when it comes to a Mistress. And it is always ok, for someone to come back and say – I miss you or you really got me.
I’ve also had experiences with strokers and subbies reconnecting after some time away–and it’s always soooo much fun! Sometimes they’re sheepish, sometimes they’re nervous, and sometimes they’re worried that the connection they felt might not be there when they come back. I love finding out what they’ve been up to—and hearing how thrilled they are when they realize that ‘chemistry’ that made our last session so much fun is alive and well. It’s a blast rekindling their kink 🙂