There is something so sexy about how a man masturbates, sliding his hand up and down the hard shaft, grazing over the sensitive head over and over until that feeling builds up so much that he pumps harder and faster, driving that cock to a spurting, throbbing release. So sexy, right? Oh, but that’s not you. Instead, you stroke and stroke, and are simply denied by Mistress causing your blue balls to ache for release.
I Need to Change How you Stroke
Over this past week I have received comments and worries about stroking and edging. Some of my tease and denial challengers are so worried about getting in 5 edges that they do it in under 10 minutes. Others worry about getting too close to the edge and not being able to return, cumming accidentally! That would be horrible. There has been so much concern about pleasing Mistress, that I feel I must clarify exactly what I want my strokers to be doing to participate best in the Tease and Denial challenge.
What Did Ms. Delia Learn?
When stroking that cock I now own, it is important to remember the spirit of this challenge. Remember My goal is to have you denied and achy, begging to cum on New Year’s Day. I do not want accidents. While I was teasing jacknjerk, (you know the guy from Enchantrix Empire I married in Vegas this summer, right?) I realized that there was something better than edging that drove him crazy!
Stroke MY Way!
Here’s what I did. Instead of getting him up to the point of a dangerous edge, which he got to very quickly, or to 5 edges also achieved well before the 20 minutes I wanted to stroke him for, I kept his stroking slow and midway between getting hard and cumming. Think of it as a midpoint; a three on a scale of 1 through 5. This type of stroking could be held for 20 minutes and brought on the best case of achy balls and needy cock I have seen thus far!
Now you Will Do This!
Well, you will find your excitement midpoint, and will stroke there for 20 minutes. It is that simple, but really quite difficult. I know you will want to go higher, but you can’t. I know you will be frustrated because that is a long time to stroke, but that’s okay. I enjoy it. To continue to impress and amuse me here are tips:
- If you feel your masturbation going beyond the midpoint, slow down your stroke, breathe deeply, and relax anything that is tensing up.
- Uncurl your toes and focus on slow, even strokes.
- Take your hand off for a minute, or lessen your grip by half.
- Do NOT overstroke anymore!
Remember challenger, I want you to ache for me. I want to control your cock and balls! Your goal this weekend is to practice this type of stroking, and use it from this point forth. It should be agonizing to stay at a lower level for a longer time. Enjoy, and stop by jacknjerk’s profile to thank him for this new way to stroke. Monday be on the lookout for a new assignment!
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Ooh Mistress this challenge is turning out to be so much fun. I fuller than I’ve ever felt in my life and never thought it’d feel this amazing. I’ve done some experimenting to keep myself from cumming over the past week and I think I’ve stumbled onto something. I tie a piece of string, yarn, or whatever is small and soft enough to not leave marks around my sack right above my balls. This keeps them from tighting up all the way and urging me to an orgasm that I don’t have permission to have yet.
Mistress Delia, You are amazing! This leaves your cock you now own heavy and feeling a little edgy but not any where near the edge. i was close a few times this is definitely more frustrating and delicious as it leaves you every twenty soft and filled up. i did have to slow down and stop to stay semi hard thinking of you laguhing and enjoying my torture as I had to take away my hand twice. As always your cock to use as you desire. pantiobi
Wonderful!
I knew this stroking method would be agonizing and edgy. 🙂 There are more fun things to cum…or not to cum, lol. But I will plan more fun!!
Ms. Delia
sam,
I am so thrilled that you are so full! This week we are going to do internal and external (for those who can’t do internal) prostate massages, so stay tuned. It may offer some relief, but will be equally as frustrating! I love that you have created your own cock ring! How creative. Impressive.
Best,
Ms. Delia
mistress you are doing a great job by teasing and dening us …. I can feel mu sack slowly slowly filling up and giving me slight pain too… But its all for your pleasure… This new way of stoking is good as it helps , cause now days i m able to hold it for some more time mistress. I hope you understood…..
Wow Mistress you really have a talent for controling cocks so well. Especially my cock, oops I meant Your cock. This midway stroking technique is great, but I think I kind of broke your time limit rule. After finding my midpoint, I was able to stroke anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour. I’m sorry mistress, do with Your cock what you will.
Dear Empress Delia,
I am loving giving you control over my cock and balls. I have never been so constantly aroused and yet sore at the same time. I have been to the edge many times but never over and love the taste of what leaks as I edge.
tom
🙂 Thanks, Andy!
Hold it for longer. You have to do 20 minutes minimum. Do you really want to do just the minimum? More is better 😉
Ms. Delia
Thanks, sam!
Like I said to andy, you may stroke more than the minimum of 20 minutes at your midpoint. More, in this case is really better, especially for me!
Ms. Delia
tom,
I love that you are so constantly aroused, yet sore. That was a combo I was looking for! Excited and full, horny and denied work too. If you love drinking you should love today’s post!!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Ms. Delia you have so many things to teach our stroker boys. The tease and denial challenge is only part of the fun. All the new stroking and edging techniques they are learning are “ahem” icing on the cake!