Two Types of Chastity Slaves
The world of BDSM and kink is so varied that there are probably way more than two types of chastity slaves, but I think they can be generally categorized into two categories – the BDSM based chastity slave, and the chastity clave who truly enjoys the feelings of tease and denial. I wonder if you learned what type of chastity slave you were in July, and I do want to hear all about it!
The BDSM Chastity Slave
The BDSM chastity slave is in a relationship where chastity play is part of the power exchange dynamic. He’s being denied in order to enforce obedience, using the orgasm as currency. In other words, if the BDSM chastity slave obeys his Mistress, she may grant him an orgasm as a reward. The reward can be for sexual pleasures he provides his Mistress, or more service oriented tasks, such as domestic chores. It may also be for allowing his limits to be pushed, or for engaging in an activity that he may not be especially enamored of, but which the Mistress especially enjoys.
Chastity for Chastity’s Sake
However, there are also a number of chastity slaves who engage in the activity simply because they enjoy it. They want to be teased and edged, over and over again, because they enjoy that feeling. The consistent edging may actually leave them on a constant “slow simmer”, where they are always feeling that edge. They also derive wonderful feelings just from knowing that they are pleasing their Mistress.
I think i am a Chastity slave because i love to obey you, my Mistress.
my only aim is to give pleasure to my goddess. Whatever you like i m your pet.
Mistress Delia,
As I think about this question I am clear in my mind that I am a BDSM chastity slave. There is nothing more exciting to me in a Mistress/ submissive relationship then power exchange. The thought of orgasm as a reward, in my mind, is how it should be. I do admit though, teasing and denial is exciting.
In my case, I am on chastity for 5 to 15 days. This means that I am NOT allowed to stroke that cock and pleasure myself sexually in any way. When those days pass, I am granted permission to stroke, bringing myself to the edge, many times. I am NOT allowed to have any orgasms. Then that cycle repeats. Would this put me in that category of “Chastity for Chastity’s Sake”?
CFB,
I do think that would be the right category for you! Chastity with no release ever sounds delicious, and I love that thought of you locking it away after relentless cock teasing! You are certainly spot on about what kind of a chastity slave you are!
Wickedly,
Ms. Delia
for me it’s the “wonderful feeling of just knowing that I am pleasing my Mistress.” I feelm that is more than enough for a strong and determinded girl, such as myself, and don’t need a chastity device! Other than just for the pure novelty of using a device once or twice! Just to say, I’ve been locked away! I’d love to be a mistress myself, someday and would love to be able to tell my subs, what an honor it is, and how good it feels!
Vanessa –
Pleasing Mistresss is a wonderful thing. You are a VERY determined chastity slut. I can see that you have wonderful edging control.
Ms. Delia