Let’s Not Ruin Those Family Jewels
My phone erotica callers tend to get on streaks. Yes, I always have the guided masturbation fans and the sissy cocksuckers. Lately though, a lot of you have been calling to have some CBT fun. At least it’s fun for me. Ms. Delia loves to torment a cock and a nice pair of low hanging balls. I want to make sure that everyone plays safely with the family jewels though, so let’s lay out some CBT safety play tips.
Hot Balls
A good number of my CBT pets call and want to use heating lotions as lube. It sounds hot – pun intended! – but it can cause pain that isn’t fun at all. And since most of those lotions aren’t water soluble, the burn is just going to continue long after we’ve finished. So, I don’t use those. Something that can give the same feeling and can easily be wiped away if the sensation is too much is toothpaste. Some minty toothpaste can give you that icy hot feeling. I like to use ones that have a bit of grittiness to them, to add a little more in the sensation department. And here’s some more fun – let’s sensitize that already sensitive head by running a toothbrush over it! You think I can drive you crazy rubbing the head with my palm? Imagine how much more sensitive it’ll be after being brushed…
DIY Cock Rings
One way to ruin your orgasm is to squeeze the base of your cock and keep all that spunk trapped in your balls. A cock ring can help with that. It’ll also keep you harder. When you don’t have a cock ring, I can have you make one out of a leather thong or a shoelace. Whichever method we use, if your cock or balls actually starts to turn blue – that means it’s too tight! Blue balls are just an expression. If thy’re really blue, that means the blood supply is cut off – and we don’t want to do that.
Practice these safety tips so I can have hours and hours of CBT fun with you!
Ms Dee,
Loved this blog!
But you never played with my balls like that!
A quick tip, shave a man’s balls and use a shampoo by Pert that has menthol in it what tingly feeling that gives a man by shampooing his balls with it! Also to play with his hole, tingly and real warm without a lot of pain.
T
Mmmm. Tom… NICE!
I am glad you loved this blog. Perhaps we can do some safe CBT. Go out and get your Pert. I am going to want to hear you try it! You are so sexy!
😀 Ms. Delia
Oh YES, MS Delia, another thought provoking topic that brings back so many precious memories and new things to yet be tried. i always appreciate how safety is foremost in Your sessions. Another warming solution that is water based is KY warming lube and their Tingling jelly both provide very interesting sensations when applied to a shaved scrotum.
Before i was lucky enough to have a commercial cock ring (and cage), i tried shoe laces and leather thongs too. i would like to mention for those using these, try to use a wider shoe lace or leather strap than just a small string. i find they don’t tend to tourniquet the skin as bad when applied tightly; don’t pinch as much when wrapping multiple loops; and are a lot easier to untie.
As for DIY CBT, i’m contemplating crafting a humbler as my next project and have found several designs on line to work from. i hope to demonstrate it for You in the not too distant future. 😉
You are right, kneel 🙂
Safety in BDSM is so SEXY!! I like the lube tips you gave in your comment. Also, I agree that the surface area of a tying material should be thicker…though in a pinch dental floss can be used…and looped a lot! It is a little pinchy taking it off though!
Mmmm. A DIY humbler sounds like a great project. I know a few people who have made their own, and they are neat to see. I can’t wait to see how yours comes out!
Ms Delia 😀
I used a tempered steel metal ring that was part of a leash once. It fit my tiny penis flaccid, but would not let the erection subside. Had to go to ER, took like 3 hours to cut through with a Dremel. Hot as heck nurses, so humiliating. Loved it. My penis was so swollen and nurse looked at it and commented “Awe, poor little guy”