A submissive’s prep story

I enjoy BDSM sessions and sexy phone sex sessions especially when you plan them with me ahead of time, and are very prepared. I do have one special submissive who is collared, and also is a wonderful commenter on this blog! He often attends fetish events, and through his preparations is able to get his sub space started, and he is a wonderful with Femdom chastity rules!

A Submissive Tells His Routine

I was honored to get an email from this very adored submissive explaining his preparation routines. With his permission, I am reprinting some of his lifestyle BDSM prep here so others can learn what works for him, and perhaps try it before their next session with their Mistress.

A submissive shares

i never know beforehand what Mistress might be in the mood for when the appointed time finally arrives for our session to begin. As Her “collared one”, i feel it is my obligation to prepared for anything She might desire, to the best of my ability. Her pre-session instructions are usually rather generic, which i interpret: be ready for a deep submersion into sub-space.

One of Mistresses’ standing preparatory instructions is to always post as well rested as possible. So i set my alarm to give me bit over an hour to get things set up and in order, and i drifted off into an energy charged night of salacious dreams, and frequent waking to make sure i didn’t miss the alarm.

i also spent the night feeling very connected to Mistress and secure in the mutual admiration we share for each other in our respective roles.

What types of prep do you do before your bdsm session? How do you please your Mistress before the phone even rings?