Naked, Exposed and Excited Sllaves are the best!
Clothed Female, Naked Male
If you read enough erotica, or watch enough Femdom porn, you’d think that Mistresses are always dressed in leather bustiers, g-strings and thigh high boots – and submissives are always naked. Now, that’s not to say that CFNM is not a integral part of the BDSM scene – it is! However, don’t believe everything you read. Oh, I may have you naked, but while I have quite a section of fetish wear, sometimes I’m dressed like a business woman – in an modest skirt falling just below my knee, a starched white blouse, hose and a pair of sensible shoes (I call that my School Marm look – it’s perfect for a OTK spanking session!)
Why CFNM Works
CFNM works only if it reinforces your status as the submissive. I want it to leave you naked, exposed and vulnerable. Having you naked allows me to notice every reaction you have to my ministrations. You can’t hide your erection. There’s also embarrassment and humiliation. This is especially apparent at fetish events, when all the submissives and slaves are naked, and the Dominants are clothed. Not only can your Mistress – or Master, if you’re so inclined – see just how excited you are, but so can everyone else! And spankings and paddling just aren’t as effective when
Slaves Aren’t Always Naked
Here’s the thing though. If you become comfortable with being naked – either when it’s just you and your Domme or in a group – then the allure of CFNM starts to lose some of its appeal. There’s also the appeal of some fun fetish wear – like body harnesses that include a cockring to keep you hard! So, there are times when I allow my submissives some clothing – just to make it that much more fun when I tell them “Strip!”
I am going to wholeheartedly agree with you, Ms. Delia: you don’t ever want a slave to get too comfortable with anything. That goes double for edgy play!
As much as I’d love to KEEP a man denied ALWAYS, I know that eventually it’ll become “old hat” to him–so I make sure I let him cum once a year (or two) to keep him all fucked up!
You never want a CFNM slut to get used to being naked either. Keep it fresh and nicely humiliating! 🙂
Keeping slaves naked definitely keeps them feeling vulnerable, but I like to see them in a little something sometimes! I actually have more fun dressing them up in girly things and then having them strip at parties or when I get bored. I kind of look at them as naughty paper dolls that are live and helpless against me! Great post, Mistress!
~laughs~ I loved your comment about femdom porn. It’s the femdom meme and cliché. But, as someone who has played with you face to face, let me just mention that you fucking ROCK that corset with those new black thigh high leather boots! Stereotype or not! ~laughs~ I so glad your special caller sent them to you as a gift because they make ME swoon! Just sayin’
Great description. The feeling of being exposed/vulnerable while powerful dommes are clothed as you say heightens the power exchange. Knowing that any comment, no matter how subtle, will be seen and read on the ‘lie detector’ no matter how much the sub wants to hide it, heightens the experience and allows the Domme to go deeper into the psyche. I look forward to you finding out my weaknesses and vulnerabilities!
I agree Ms. Piper!
I think that a mindfuck goes well with chastity and many other kinks!!
I love how you think Ms. Amber!
Wearing girlie things is often helpful in manking certain men more submissive!
I LOVE those boots too, Ms Olivia!
There is something that sets the mood when putting on those certain pieces of fetish wear. I know you know! I have seen your mood go completely FEMDOM just by changing your outfit!
Thanks, Paul!
Going in deep is what I love to do! You are so right about the “lie detector”!!
Great idea! I love that! Just a little something something so that when you do command them to strip, it takes it to a whole new level! I love being served by a naked little subbie, or a sissy who is dressed up. That is just too fun! I love being able to smack a sub on the bare ass at a fetish party and make my little bitch feel like a piece of meat. You know how much they love being objectified!
YES!!! I agree, Ms. Courtney!
The STRIP command really does change a scene or scene negotiation. Objectification is SO powerful! 🙂
Being naked in from of you and the other mistresses I would be so weak, submissive and feminine. Especially if you had me in pumps/bra/panty/slip. Then all if you teasing me by kissing me putting makeup on me. I wouldn’t be able to control myself as I would explode. Which means chastity:(
As I have said to you…often…you DO need to be in chastity! 🙂 It is only a matter of time!
Thank You Mistress Delia for once again for providing such a thought provoking, and inspiring topic, especially from Your esteemed colleagues. Thank You also for allowing a venue for me to share a bit of a subbie’s perspective.
You KNOW how much i relish being vulnerable for You! It is true, being naked, does provoke a sense of being exposed and “outstanding” both in private sessions, and public scenes. It is also true, as
You mentioned, staid routines may lead to familiarity and a certain level of comfort. i’m so glad i never have to worry about that with You! Can i just say “im glad You don’t always keep me naked!
The vulnerability i sense in our sessions doesn’t come from whether i’m wearing anything or not. i know you enjoy seeing my sculpted, naked body (which You have helped me appreciate) and it pleases me to yield it, and the instant feedback its reactions signal, to You. Yet, i also know You enjoy the power and control of prescribing my wardrobe, or lack thereof, so often.
You realize how much i enjoy Your guidance on donning so many of the items You have helped me either: craft; select for purchase; sleep in; or when to post wearing my fetish party clothes (Especially when You invite other Mistresses to join our web cam sessions and You want to share a bit of eye candy with them). 😉
i must also confess, the visual of an empowered female dressed in black is a stereotype i held when we first met, and still find very erotic. Your Latex photos are an abundant source of nutrients for my mind monkeys. Yet i have cum to appreciate, a Mistress must be comfortable in her outfit in order to facilitate an active play scene. i adore You in whatever You wear, or don’t, whenever we play
Imperial Mistress Delia is of course correct in Her statement that slaves should be naked, exposed to the caress of Mistress’s whip, and vulnerable to Her gifts of pain and humiliation. A slave is property, so it can own nothing, not even clothes.
Of course, a slave is hardly ever totally naked; it wears a slave collar (property of the Mistress, like the slave itself) and probably a cock restraint (because slaves cannot control their baser impulses, so their Owners must do so). If Mistress pleases, Her slaves may also be manacled and handcuffed, or even hooded, or fitted with bridles, bit and a saddle if Mistress is amused to use it for riding or pulling a cart.
To dress a slave in clothes suited to the Superior Sex may seem like embarrassing treatment to the outside vanilla world, where the myth of male superiority is foolishly accepted and Women are considered lesser beings (the opposite is true, in fact, as readers of this blog certainly know). But the truth is that male creatures that pretend to look like Females, or which imitate them in any way, are secretly mocking the Superior Sex, the Rightful Rulers of the human race. To put it clearly, no slave is worthy of wearing Women’s or Girls’ apparel, make-up, or anything that would allow the male scum to masquerade as members of the Higher Half of Humanity. Ladies, Mistresses, Empresses, Queens and Princesses can amuse Themselves by laughing at, and tormenting for fun, the male as itself, the ugly, worthless animal that deserves no mercy, pity or respect — not in any way a pretense of the Perfect Gender.
Actually, there is no need for a slave to have clothes, any more than it deserves to eat gourmet food, live in luxurious quarters, or have free time and fun. These frivolities are reserved for the Superior Ones, and slaves exist to do the work and provide those luxuries for their Owners. Yes, slaves, like other livestock, need food and water, shelter from the worst weather, and a few hours of sleep. But there is no need for excess: table scraps and gruel are enough, an unheated cell sufficient. If it amuses a Mistress to feed Her slave by dropping bites to it kneeling at Her feet under the table, why not? She is a Woman, so deserves a little entertainment. Having a slave lick its supper from Her boots keeps Her footwear clean, and that’s important to a Lady.
Femdom research has found that slaves can learn to endure working naked in winter snow if they are given no choice by a Mistress who expects obedience and has a whip to persuade Her chattel to obey.
This insignificant insect thanks Empress Delia for allowing it to post on Her site, and hopes that She,and the Dominants and dominated reading this, will agree with the positions stated here. To those who may not, please accept this bootlicker’s humble apologies. Finally, a cyber-kiss to the Imperial Feet and Boots, Empress Delia, from Your devoted groveling suppliant…………
………………………………………………………………………bootlicker
bootlicker, I think this is beautifully written, and I love the sentiment here! Ms. Delia
Thank You, Mistress, for Your more-than-kind words of appreciation. With Your permission, may this slave point out to Your readers that it is appropriate for a Mistress to respond as You have. A Mistress does not say “thank you” to a slave: that would imply that She owes something to the slave, that She is in debt to it for the favor. Never! The slave is grateful to be allowed to serve its Owner; that is why slave like me exist. The purpose of a slave is to please and serve the Mistress.
If it does please Her, She may reward it by saying She is pleased, or that Her chattel property is a “good slave” or, subtly reinforcing the similarity of slaves and dogs or other animals, “good boy,” with perhaps permission to kiss Her boot-toe.
For this, as for Your kind words here, the slave is the one overflowing with humble gratitude and boot-kisses, even if only by correspondence, in continued thanks for the privilege of submitting to Your pleasure.
Please, Mistress, this slave begs Your forgiveness for not responding sooner to Your precious reply, and welcomes whatever punishment You wish to prescribe if You were displeased by this discourteous delay in expressing its gratitude.
I like this comment. I do not think I owe slaves anything. I do like to encourage service though!
Most Gracious Divine Delia,
May it please You, an Owner should provide Her slave with leadership and control. This is, of course, for Her benefit, far more than as any value to a slave, although it makes it more useful to its Owner, which is certainly important.
……………………………………..bootlicker
May it please You, Most Magnificent Mistress Delia:
Perhaps a Mistress does owe something to Her slave, in an odd sense. She is a generous and kind Goddess, and Her obligation is to dominate Her slave property, to give freely of the pain, torture, humiliation and degradation that it deserves.
If, indeed, She is a natural-born sadistic Dominant, She enjoys whipping Her slave, and fully understands that She deserves the pleasure of whipping, kicking, caning and flogging the worthless animal.
May it please You, this is what a slave deserves, needs, and is eternally grateful for: the opportunity to please and amuse the cruel Owner with Her generous gift of pain.
Thank You, Mistress!
bootlicker, I call this being on opposite sides of the same coin. Without slaves, there would be o Mistresses.
I would agree with you, bootlicker!
Mistress Delia, You are more than kind to this unworthy groveling worm.
This worthless bootlicker’s Sublime Mistress, were She still alive, would perhaps suggest that the Divine Dominatrix Delia might respond by saying that She is pleased to see that a mere humble slave agrees with Her wise opinion in the matter.
Whatever matter it is, the opinion of the Mistress is always the correct one, and Her slaves (or any member of the inferior gender) must agree with Her beliefs. That means, naturally, that the slave accepts whatever punishment She is pleased to prescribe, so that the slave may atone and learn to be a better and more obedient thrall.
If Mistress pleases, She might even reward Her slave for exceptionally good behavior
once in a while. This slave’s late Mistress would, now and then, bestow on Her chattel property a small gesture of appreciation, for which it is eternally grateful (Mistress never says “thank you;” that would imply too much; “I am pleased” or “Good job” is the highest praise from a Superior Female Dominant to a lowly slave). If only this maggot were in Your Divine Presence, Mistress Delia, You might allow it the privilege of kissing You booted feet; please prescribe a punishment by remote control if this impertinent suggestion has offend You, Gentle Goddess.
So I would say yes, that you actually are a beta male…