I love the cuckold dynamic and believe some men should be cuckolded. I do speak to many men who are cuckolded by their wives and accept their place as an inferior male. They know their inadequacies all too well, and do nothing to fix them, and understand their wives fuck other men.
But there are some men who do NOT understand why they are cuckolded. Think of this post as my own public service announcement. If you read about yourself in one or more of these reasons, take note and fix it, or you may very well be cuckolded!
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Reason 1: She is not cumming during sex.
You can tell when your wife cums. She has tells. If she moans right when you squirt away, and squeezes her muscles against your cock a few times, she is faking it, and you know it, but you do nothing about it because you are selfish and lazy.
Reason 2: Your penis is not the right size for her.
If you are less than average in length, girth, or both, she has noticed. Maybe she hasn’t said anything about your small penis size, but she does think it. Cuckolds have a smaller penis as a rule.
Reason 3: Your penis has no stamina.
If you are cumming before she does you do not have enough stamina for her. Ideally you should get her off more than once before your orgasm. If your penis sucks, use your mouth, hands, fingers, and toys. Do something to give her the orgasms she deserves!
Reason 4: Sex is BORING.
When was the last time you took her breath away in bed? Do you always use the same moves, and just hope things move along like they did years ago? I am here to say she is bored! You need to change!
C’mon! Get it together! Work on your pc muscle so you have more stamina. Learn a few new tricks to spice up your sex life. Toys like a pussy pump or arousal gels like JO12v, my personal favorite, work nicely. If size is an issue, get a sheath extender to improve girth and length.
Here’s my bottom line! You actually need to put in some effort to try to fix your sexual issues. If not your wife will fantasize about other men, and one day your wife WILL cuckold you!
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Oh Mistress Delia, You once again have provided such food for thought in Your choice of topics. i love the options You present to help Your devoted fans find more creative and imaginative ways to please their mates, and confess to having tried most of them myself. Yet, the reason i view myself as a cuckold, is my innate desire to ensure my partner has all options available for Her pleasure. Oh, and i do have a certain voyeuristic fetish of loving to watch Her receiving additional satisfaction than i alone can provide. And then there is also my naughty streak to feed my mind monkeys with hearing all the details when i don’t get to watch; or better yet, when i get to participate with prep and clean-up.
My (ex)wife chose to not cuckold me… hence, i am so thankful my Mistress occasionally provides me the opportunity to fill that role for Her and satisfies my lascivious desires.
Ms Delia ~ I will admit I am still smiling as I reply. It never ceases to amaze me that some just refuse to see the writing on the wall. I have zero tolerance for these men who are so focused on getting their little dicks off that they fail to realize that it is doing nothing for the women they are with. I am sure that there is more than one man who is seeing the light and more than one wife that will be grateful to you.
Great points Miss Delia!! I think it’s so important that cucks understand that this is simply their role, and not a temporary situation that they can work themselves out of. Once a cuckold’s wife gets a taste of a REAL man’s…. manhood, there is just simply no going back! And if she does, every once in a while, let him slip between those blessed thighs of hers he had better WORK… Or it’s not likely to ever happen again! 😉
Ms Delia, this post is FANTASTIC! I think you are so spot on in all your reasons. Especially # 3, I mean if they think that we would stick around and be loyal when they can’t do the one thing that is so essential in a relationship. More power to those hotwives that take control into their hands!
Ms. Gia and Ms Rita…
I am thrilled you both know the reasons for cuckolding too! If only the men knew, and tried to work on them.
Exactly, Ms. Kay!
Rubbing one out is NOT okay for little dicked men. If they are lucky enough to have a female partner, and not just their hand, they should ALL bend over backwards to do everything they can to get her off!!!
Great post Ms. Delia! You know, it always amazes me when guys just don’t get it, especially when it seems so clear to the rest of us. You are correct about a wife who isn’t pleased, a cuckold who doesn’t please his wife and still says he doesn’t get it must be selfish – I mean at least the small cock guys can’t help it, right? But when it’s a stamina or lack of excitement issue, they should realize their short comings and offer to find a Big Sex Bull for her, I think!
Great post, Ms. Delia! Cuckold dynamics are so interesting, aren’t they? Each man has his own reasons for being a cuckold, but they frequently have the same underlying narrative: inadequacy. Whether it is his dick or his overall performance, the cuckold knows that he simple doesn’t meet muster. Sometimes these issues can be helped, but when they can’t, they should be thankful that cuckold relationships exist! Otherwise, those poor fellas would be all alone.
Excellent rundown Ms. Delia—and you’re absolutely right: if a guy is lazy, ill-equipped, a two-pump chump, and/or boring in bed; eventually a woman will start looking at other options. Specifically–upgrading to bigger and better things (aka: studs with BIG dicks who know exactly how to use them).
If the guys who fit the description on this page don’t mend their ways, their lady will be stepping out to find someone who can get her screaming and creaming the way her partner never could.
I can think of another great reason. In some cases a woman can just tell when her man has a secret desire to suck cock. In those cases it’s only a matter of time before he is made to be her cuckold fluffer. There are some guys trembling right now as they read this because they know the truth is out, lol!
Agreed Ms Christine!! 🙂
Hopefully they WILL get it now!
Yes, Ms. Marlena!!
I decided to highlight 4 specific inadequacies!! I hope all those guys who learn they have one work with a Cock Control Mistress!!
Ms. Lilly, I just adore how you point out that there are “studs with big dicks” out there!!! And they DO know how just how to use them! Great reminder for our cucks!
Well, Fuck yes, Ms. Alexis
What a great reason! Cuck is a closet cocksucker. I may have to do a special blog for those cocks soon!
This was an awesome no fucking around direct commentary on why the “short stacks” out there don’t deserve to have sex and should be cuckolds. Bravo Ms. Delia for delivering the verbal spanking some of these cuckies need! I find it entertaining that some of them think they actually deserve to have sex!! I also agree with Ms. Alexis I do think many cucks are indeed closet cock suckers and being a cuckold in their minds makes it “ok” somehow lol. Great post Ms. Delia!
Ok… First of all… All I can say is ive never seen any goddess or women of any Phone roll that can compare to Goddess Delia. The fact she put the time aside to tell you guys things that you should already know has to be one of thee most generous lessons ive ever witnessed from a goddess. One thing I’ll stress that she had mention briefly is oral. I know so many men who demand blow jobs yet for some odd reason they will not make love to their woman with their mouths. I do not get it because that should be the best part for all men. You should be addicted to her taste savor it. This is when I am dominant if needed – I will tease and almost edge her because I don’t want her to cum too quickly. My lady will cum once from my tongue and she’s dome! She can’t walk she’s in another world and you know what? I am not bragging! If you do not provide her with that you deserve to be left or cheated on. Mostress Delia said the word “selfish” and that’s the only way to describe it. Selfish lovers suck in bed. In fact Id question your love for your woman if this is you. Im just amazed at the insight from Delia she could teach couples counseling im in love. Omg
One more thing… As this is how it is for me, always was always will be, but my most pleasurable moments in the bedroom are when I am pleasing my queen and making her melt into the bed. Something should come out of you when you’re making her feel like it’s the best orgasm she’s ever had every time you do it with her no matter what act. You should by my thoughts master what she loves know how to switch it up not make her feel rushed get into it!!! Let her know you’ll stay down there the longer the better. Caress her use your hands all over as well As you mouth tounge lips. It its a job for you and you act like it is she won’t enjoy it nor would I vice versa. Your too courting your wife/fiancée/girlfriend and she should bounce on you or on another mans cock.
Well that wasn’t really one more thing but hey
Thank you so much for the wonderful comment, Mark128! You are so right about selfish lovers!!
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This is great advice, Mark!
I do so agree that the longer the better for the woman when it comes to oral sex! 🙂 Nice comment…again.
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