Sensual CBT vs. Strict CBT
What is sensual CBT vs. what is strict CBT is in the mind of my submissive. I can tell you what I think sensual CBT is, but for someone who is really into having his cock and balls tormented, this might not be enough. Things that I think are more in the realm of strict CBT may be just up their alley. I can play with either one, so the key is that if we’re going to have a CBT session, you let me know just what you’re into.
Ms. Delia
CBT Bondage
For me, while chastity can be great CBT, tying up your cock, or using cock rings or a cock harness and ball spreader are all part of sensual CBT. I love taking a shoe lace, tying it tightly around the base of your cock, winding it down between your balls and across the top of your shaft and then wrapping the slack around your shaft. When I tie it off with a bow, it makes such a pretty present! Or taking two cock rings, and putting one snug against the base and another right below your mushroom head. I also think a ball crusher can be used in sensual CBT. It’s so adjustable, I can just crank those screws down so you feel just a bit of pressure.
Penis Pumping CBT
I like to use a penis pump when I’m doing sensual CBT as well. Lube up your dick and slide that vacuum chamber down your shaft, then start to pump that bulb. Great for my pindicks! I can actually pump their dicks up to an – barely – adequate size. Then I can play with your nipples, or shove a cock in your mouth, or maybe even slide some fingers up your ass. Too bad when I let that air back in, your penis shrinks back to its clit rivalling size!
Ms. Delia,
I have a feeling I might be able to give you a little feedback regarding what you actually consider strict versus sensual cbt later this afternoon!
I look forward to the call!
~mer mer
Well, I have to report it was rather strict. As much as the device (Rimba) could provide. Didn’t quite get me on my knees but darn close. I think a little sweat or water would make it unbearable. So that’s my feedback and thank you for the experience! You heard me groan and maybe even squeal just a bit!
This is a fantastic post, Ms. Delia! CBT is one of my favorite fetishes, and you are right, the distinction between sensual CBT and strict CBT is very personal and dependent on the caller. I also enjoy either style. Just the thought of some CBT bondage or penis pumping is making me wish I had a cock to torment right now!
I’ve enjoyed subjecting a CBT pet to some delicious torment right alongside of you Ms. Delia. So I know from experience that you are so good at measuring the torment needs of one’s cock and balls and then administering just the right amount of painful pleasure for each submissive male.
And yes, a bit of communication between a Dominant and submissive is usually exactly what it takes to get an amazing session started!
Ms Delia ~ You have definitely given us something to think about. I think that most everything can be sensual and strict. I love the part on using the penis pump. I have not used one in a CBT session. I do love to use two cock rings for various play. I have to say your sensual CBT sounds quite fun and very pleasurable – of course he is sure to like it too. LOL As always, thank you for sharing.
Mistress Delia. The thought of you binding my cock and balls are so sexy!. Leaving them so vulnerable to your actions, some sensual and pleasurable others painful. Also a perfect place to attach a leash and lead your slave around.
Those lucky CBT boys, you know so many ways to torture those balls don’t you Ms. Delia. Sticking their dicks into a penis pump is truly inspired, those barely endowed boys get to enjoy a few moments of what it’s like to be a “big boy”! Of course, then its back to reality for them.
CBT is such an intimate encounter, it requires so much trust with your Mistress. And, a Mistress who truly knows what she’s doing. In your case Ms. Delia, no one could be in better hands, or cock ring, or ball spreaders….haha!
Oh I’m sure all the little pindicks LOVE it when you pump their little clitties up to an *almost* useful size! Do they all stare at their larger cocks in awe and think they might just know how a man with a decent dick feels? Too bad it has to shrink back down to obsolete!
You forgot sounds, my favorite.
I think you did yell, and dance even, mer mer!
I would love to bind them, subthomas! Happy to see you posting here on my blog 🙂
Ohhh yesss!
I too LOVE sounding! I know you like it too!! One day we will play with sounds.
I love doing calls with you Ms Delia because of comments like the one from mer. He was sort of hinting that he can take a lot of pain and (at least I read it this way) wondering if you are a REAL strict Mistress. Well. Indeed. I love when you get in full on Mistress mode — strict Mistress even sadistic …. it is still sensual but can be quite painful for those that like that and yet …. STILL SENSUAL. This is one of the many reasons why I adore you! 🙂
Oh Mistress, how did i miss this wonderful post? Thank You for giving me multiple opportunities to demonstrate my commitment and devotion by offering, and enduring, CBT from a myriad of homemade expedients and purchased devices. 😉 i do know it is one of Your favorite types of play off Your Kink Continuum.
In the broad stereotypical vocabuary of BDSM, i usually associate strict with punishment, or unrelenting demands. i also know that many people in the vanilla world cannot conceive of inflicting (or receiving) pain as being sensual. Oh the semantics of it all.
i believe the only determination of sensual or strict resides in the relationship between Mistress and Her subbie playmate. i have many fond memories of CBT sessions with You alone, and most of the Mistresses who responded above. i agree with Ms Layla and Ms Christine about open, honest communication, and much trust, between Mistress and subbie, are essential to CBT being enjoyable. As for Strict versus Sensual, i agree with You, it really is all in the mind of the subbie and the delivery tactics of his Mistress within their negotiated scene, or the realms of their dynamics in an on-going partnership.
i guess my ultimate differential definition on sensual vs. strict for most types of kinky play is whether Mistress stops when i use a predetermined safeword; or not!
kneelcc, I know you have done both strict and sensual CBT, and you have always been up for the sensations! I look forward to another sounding session soon!!
Oh Mistress…SWOON! You know that is a gift i totally reserve for You…well and anything else You may desire from this devoted subbie~ 😉
Oh I know that for sure, kneelcc!!