I want you to make sure that you lube for stroking that cock especially when I give you that wonderfully cock teasing hand job!
Lube up for Masturbation
There is nothing I like better when I’m stroking a hot cum slut than to use his own natural lubricant – pre-cum! First of all, it’s a huge turn-on for me to know that I’m getting him so worked up that he’s already starting to cream himself. And that natural lube is so slick, just lets my hand slide up and down that shaft as I jerk him off. So, that’s your first option, some nice natural fluid. If you’re not producing pre-cum to start with, you can always lick your hand and get it wet that way. I’m sure by the second or third teasing edge, you’ll be producing enough to handle your needs.
Water And Silicone Based Lubes
There are hundreds of these on the market. Water based lubes are easier to clean up, but they don’t last long, so you’ll need to continually re-apply them during your stroking session. Silicone lubes last much, much longer – you’ll probably still be slick hours after jerking off – but they are difficult to clean up if they spill, they could stain your clothes (really, is that a problem for you, you always masturbate naked for me, don’t you?) and they will damage silicone toys, like those butt plugs I love to shove up your ass! Artificial lubes taste horrible – even the flavored ones – so if you’re expecting your wife or girlfriend to blow you later, you probably want to stick with something natural. Ms. Constance has a whole series of Lube Reviews over at her website, Intelligent Fem Dom, so if you want to know about a particular lube for your masturbation pleasure, do check out the link!
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I can’t tell you how awesome Miss Constance’s lube info has been. Obviously, lube is invaluable and would make all anal play a no-go! Between flavored ones and the ones required for different kinds of toys, there’s definitely a need to have a few trusty ones on hand. Thanks for covering such an important subject, Miss Delia! Great post!
Ms Delia ~ I am with you, I like precum as lube. There is just something about getting someone all wet before they really get going that turns me on. But I love saliva. That is my favorite. Probably, because you are right, if I dick is going to go in my mouth later ~ it better taste good!!!
Why did I just have the awful idea of making a stroker slut jerk off with some awful, disgusting lubricant–and then make him lick his cum off his hand after he blows his load? You really are a bad influence on me, Ms. Delia. I have all kinds of wicked thoughts when I read your blog!
May I add Coconut Oil Mistress? Natural and amazing stuff that is very healthy for stroking, sex, cooking, massage, and skin moisturizer. It’s solid in temps under 76 degrees or so and liquid over that.
Two bodies and some Coconut oil can get hot hot hot! No limits….massage, stroke, fondle, insert, lick, taste, etc. Plus it leaves one’s skin silky smooth feeling like velvet!
Nice cock ring at the base…..coconut oil…nice and slick…..then a creamy treat at the end ! 😉
Just another WONDERFUL use for coconut oil Nikki!!
I agree it will enhance the cum taste. Great idea! Thank you!
Not only that but I find that getting to the edge and the edge and the edge again and again, finally at some point totally clear viscous liquid will just ooze right out…. A nice helping of precum to wet the appetite.. then edge some more eventually, as you approach the point of no return almost ruin your own orgasm, breath deep and you can feel you own cum boil up the shaft, slowly, don’t clench don’t allow the pulse…scoop up that cream and pl;ay with it put it in your mouth….
Edge again…keep doing this, add more cum to your hungry mouth ….keep yourself horny and on edge…when no more leaks out and when you have a mouthful of cum…stroke to the orgasm and swallow….most likely if you are lucky, not much will cum out and you already gobbled it up…. but then again, you cannot wait for the net time to start all over again… 🙂
Sounds amazing, Nikki!!
I am so glad to read how very much you love cum play!! Cum can be great lube!