One of the important things about the Femdom/submissive dynamic is the respect you give to your Mistress. One of the ways to show respect and that you value her and her time is your manners. These are some pet peeves of mine and fellow Mistresses that are important to address.
I can help you be a polite submissive.
Hanging Up on Mistress
So, we’ve spent 20 minutes or so on the phone. I’ve tormented and teased your cock. I’ve guided your masturbation and you to the edge too many times to count. You’ve been begging to cum and finally – FINALLY! – you hear the sweetest words you’ll ever hear, “Yes, cum for Ms. Delia…” Then I hear a grunt, maybe a moan, then “CLICK!” You hung up! I’m not saying I want to have a 10-minute after orgasm talk with you (although I do, and those are great!), but c’mon stroker, a “Thank you for allowing me to cum, Ms. Delia” is the least you can do! Hanging up on me? Well, the next time you call, that’s likely to get you denied!
Not Following Directions of your Mistress
When I guide your masturbation, or have a cocksucking or anal play session with you, I’m giving you directions for a reason. With guided masturbation, it’s because I am an expert cocktease and I know how to give you the hardest, longest, most intense orgasm you’ve ever had. In other cases, it may be something safety related like “No, you should not cover your cock in Tiger Balm.” Or “You’ve never had anything in your butt, you probably shouldn’t start with the John Holmes dildo.” And isn’t part of being submissive following the directions of your Dominant?
Not Trusting Your Mistress
That leads us to this – why would you not follow your Mistress’s commands? Maybe it’s because you don’t trust her? As a Femdom I take your safety and well-being very seriously. When I do things, or have you do them, I keep in mind your limits. I may push them, but I’ll never break them. I want you to have the best session you’ve ever had each and every time we play, so put your trust in me. After all I do know what’s best for you.
Not Keeping Appointments with Mistress
You all know I am very big on appointments. I LOVE appointments where I can set aside a special time just for us. So here’s my one rule – KEEP YOUR APPOINTMENT! Hey, I realize things come up. You’re stuck in traffic, you had to have your leg amputated, hell, I don’t know, maybe your dick fell off. Just let me know – IM me, email me, call in and let one of our sexy dispatchers know. Breaking an appointment with me is a sure way to make sure you’re going to be teased, tormented and left denied the next time we do connect!
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On the point about keeping appointments, we all know that life happens and fouls up our plans. But there’s no excuse to not communicate. This is why I no longer do appointments! These are good points to bring up and I hope callers take them seriously. Respecting a Mistress happens on and off the phone!
These are ALL very good points, Ms. Delia. Several of these are my personal pet peeves too, especially not following directions. I can’t imagine why ANY of your pets wouldn’t follow your directions, though. These pets must be daft not to! 😉
Ms Delia ~ I can’t imagine anyone who identifies as submissive not being polite and well mannered towards a Mistress, whether it is his Mistress or just in a getting-to-know-you conversation. I’m glad you shared this to help educate those who don’t know yet!
I agree Ms. Stephanie!
All submissives should have manners, and need to learn if they do not.
Respect. Appreciation. Courtesy. Consideration. These are the very least a Mistress deserves. It is difficult to find someone with whom we can safely share our submission. And rare indeed if we are fortunate enough to experience a special connection with a Mistress. Surely such a gift is worthy of your best manners.
I truly agree, My lamarr!
🙂 Very well said!