Do you need tips for sexual confidence? Sometimes sex can be stressful especially if you are wondering about your performance. And it may not be because you have a small penis or are a premature ejaculator. You may be just fine in the penis department, but need the confidence to make things even hotter! Do read on!
Act Like Sex Is Normal
Because it is! Sex is fun and sex is enjoyable and you should have a blast doing it. If you like to dress up like a sissy, that’s okay. If you like it when a Mistress spanks you, that’s okay. If you like being tied up and teased and tormented, that’s okay. As long as you’re not hurting yourself or hurting someone else, enjoy your body and everything it can do for you.
Looks Don’t Matter
If you can give a woman a mind-blowing sexual experience, give her an earth shattering orgasm, it really doesn’t matter how old you are, what you look like, or even how big your cock is (although having a large dick will certainly help!). If you can give her the biggest “O” she’s ever had in her life, nothing else will really matter. Practice visualization. Think about exactly how you’re going to do that to her, and it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Delay Your Gratification
All of you strokers know just how important it is to delay your orgasm. To be teased and edged past your endurance. All that sexual tension builds up and just amps up your arousal and makes that release – when it comes – so much more powerful and intense. And another thing? If you can stop looking for instant results, and work up her arousal level? You’ll give her that mind blowing orgasm that will make her think about everything else, except how hot you’re making her.
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What a fun post! These are great tips. So many guys need to read this. Believe me…I’ve had the misfortune of kicking a few of them out of my bed. 😉 Guys can be pretty clueless when it’s really pretty simple. I love the way you made it clear and concise how to bring about that climax!
Confidence can make all the difference! The phrase ‘Fake it til you make it’ definitely applies here and even if you’re anxious about performing sexually, pretending you have it in the bag can give you a boost. It’s all about having fun, relaxing and enjoying sex for everything it is!
wow . I have vary big hard strong and hot cock.. I can make her hot.
“If you can stop looking for instant results, and work up her arousal level?”
This is so true, and it even makes my sex better. Just focus on her and forget yourself and that old maxim holds true : “it is better to give than to receive”. I can’t explain it logically but it really works!
Of course this all makes sense.It is not the size, but how you use it. Most of it is mental.Care about the other person.Make them happy.It will all come together.The edging is great.You can have sexual pleasure for hours.Great post Mistress Delia
Thank you, gigi!!!
I really agree with you! Care is where it is at!