Today for Masturbation Monday, I have 6 sexy stroking tips for you. These should go well with last Monday’s 3 Masturbation Lessons. Yes, you can use these together, and enjoy them completely!
Stroking Tip 1
SLOW DOWN! Don’t jump right to stroking- take the scenic route! It’s a given that stroking feels amazing! You would not do it otherwise, right? But remember, there is always a way to make it feel even better. So try going slow.
Stroking Tips
Stroking Tip 2
Use lube! There are all kinds! We even have a sexy stroker here who reports on and reviews lube. You can see it it at Ms. Constance’s blog. It is SO wonderful to have these reviews, and you benefit…so check it out!
Stroking Tip 3
Enhance the experience with edging. Most of you know by now that I am a cock tease, but it is not just because I want you to suffer or ache…though I do love a great pair of blue balls! I help men to edge because it ENHANCES the entire masturbation experience. Anyone can do a 1 min quickie… but you build stamina and intensity with edging! If you can have a stronger, more intense, more powerful orgasm…well, why would you turn that down!
Stroking Tip 4
Massage the perineum! That’s the little patch of skin right behind your balls, and right before perhaps uncharted territory 😉 Try fingertips or knuckles for different sensations. If it feels out of this world amazing and it makes your cock twitch, congrats- you’re doing it right!
Stroking Tip 5
Internal prostate massage OR External prostate massage. This will soon produce pleasurable feelings, and will help prostate fluid that has built up to drain from your cock. You will not orgasm, but will drip or leak. While arousing, this will not be even close to an orgasm.
Stroking Tip 6
After all that stroking, you must be leaking precum! Good. Use it! Get your middle finger nice and slippery wet, and as you stroke, align your middle finger with that sensitive ridge where your head meets your shaft. With a nice tight grip this trick will certainly make you squirm!
Always BEG for Mistress Delia, and follow my stroking tips!
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Excellent stroking tips as always, Ms. Delia. I feel like the importance of #1 cannot be understated. Often times, when men are masturbating alone, it’s the same mechanical, repetitive race toward the end. When they have a Cock Controller on the line, they can slow down, focus on their breathing, and be mindful of the sensations they might have otherwise ignored. There’s a time and place for a quickie, but sometimes it’s nice to take an hour and make and evening of it.
Stroking tips, stroking tips, hmmmmmm. Is that a subliminal message I see? Is Mistress Delia encouraging a bit of “tip stroking”? With you being the undisputed queen of the mindfuck I think it’s safe to say that I would not put it past you to slip a little something extra into those otherwise innocent masturbation instructions.
These are great tips, Miss Delia. I think that most men have been jerking off for so long that they just do it the same old way all the time, it’s worked in the past so it’s the way to go. But enhancing the pleasure is easy to do and should be incorporated into every stroking session to take it from ‘ho-hum’ to ‘Holy sh**!’
Dear Mistress Delia,
It is always a delight to read your masturbation tips. I find tip #6 particularly helpful, which is very true in my case, where I do LOTS of edging but NO ejaculating. Being into long-term orgasm denial, those aching balls of mine are super-loaded with cum. This means that I do leak a good amount of that clear precum. I always use it as a good lubricant, in combination with olive oil.
I may just want to add something regarding that technique. Since I am uncut, I very often pull that foreskin down my shaft close to the base of my penis, which exposes a lot of sensitive foreskin area. I massage and rub that area with that combination of olive oil and precum; especially, where the veins bulge out. By stroking the foreskin this way, without touching the glans/head, I am able to edge many times.
I really enjoyed this post, as it is important to experience prolonged pleasure of a variety of masturbation techniques. This adds to quality masturbation time. Thank you for this informative post!
I agree with the Ladies–this is an excellent list of tips for getting maximum stimulation and enjoyment out of stroking! It’s rather tragic when you can tell guys have fallen into a rut with their hand-humping routine (and not the wall-banging, screaming, creaming ecstasy kind 😛 ) Luckily, that’s the kind of boner boredom the Ladies of LDW can can save them from with ease. Thanks again for an awesome post!
I am thrilled to hear you enjoyed, CFB!!!