How to Approach a Mistress
When seeking slave training from a sexy, Femdom Mistress, there is often confusion as to where to start. How do you approach a Mistress without sounding ridiculous or being completely humiliating to yourself?
We Mistresses like an intelligent and respectful inquiry from even the most slutty and untrained slaves. Decorum is expected. Research of your sexy, Femdom, phonesex Mistress as it is also your key to gaining her attention.
How to approach a Mistress in Email
Often, you may be surfing the net late, and see your Perfect Mistress around the LDW sites, and she may not be available. When looking for online training, a great idea is to email Mistress. This gives you time to think and reflect on how you can be pleasing to your Mistress in text. Here are some tips:
- Plan your Approach with Research!
- Be respectful, and state what you are looking for honestly.
- Discuss your slave training and any experiences you have had.
- Let Mistress know what about her blog or audio interested you.
- Leave the best times that you will be available for Mistress to correspond with you.
- Keep your email Pg rated. There will be plenty of time for you to express more colorful language once your slave training has begun.
If you are able to follow this advice, when approaching a Mistress for slave training you are likely to have more success. Following the steps will get you the Femdom phone sex training you need.
Always Beg for Mistress Delia, and feel free to approach me for your kinky fantasies!
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Miss Delia I love ur pic with this post….very sexy. But it makes me wonder if I have been wearing my sexy things incorrectly. …..I seem to wear them with my panties over my garters…..is this wrong?
No, nikki!
Naughty girls wear panties over their garters 😀
Hi Miss D,
Just had to comment on your pic inn this post. Hottest pic of you EVER!! Very beautiful, sexy, hot hot hot!!! What I would give just to massage those stocking covered legs!!
Excellent list of tips Ms. Delia; it’s very sound advice for any subbie looking to serve. I definitely appreciate a polite introductory email; not only does it help the potential sub put their best foot forward, but it also leaves a favorable impression with a Lady (at least with me) that this potential playmate knows how to treat a Mistress with respect. Also–Nicki; Ms. Delia’s entirely correct–naughty girls wear panties over their garters because it makes them MUCH easier to remove 😉
These are wonderful tips and pointers, Ms. Delia! All good potential slaves should study this post and make sure they maintain the proper decorum when they approach a strong, dominant Mistress such as you. Any potential slave who shows he’s done his homework and has prepared definitely has a much better chance of being chosen for training.
Thanks for the compliment, johnny!!
Thank you Empress, it has me tingling all over at the thought of a chance of pulling them off for you and willingly lying back and spreading my legs !
Should you allow Jack to bury himself deep into me, I am quite sure You would be pleased with my willingness to be used.
🙂
Add me to the list of those praising Your thorough list Empress Delia. New slaves would do well to be certain not to miss any ot these pointers. And, researching a Mistress to learn more about Her style and interests is ALWAYS a good idea!