Today I am going to discuss your submissive journey. We will get back to masturbation posts next Monday. I have been thinking a lot about how submissives grow and learn, and how they really do go on a journey. Happily, a submissive can learn new skills to best please his Mistress, and can grow in new ways. I am proud of a couple submissives I know who have really taken off on their journeys into deep submission and kink!
Submissive Desires
Mistress Delia
Do you most desire to be a pretty pet for mistress or are you more service oriented? Do you desire a sensual or strict Mistress? How do you think of trust between a submissive and Mistress?How often do you need to have a session? Think of what kind of submissive skills you have, and let that guide you on your submissive journey. What does punishment mean to you? As a submissive, do you strive to avoid punishment?
Structure Rules and Protocol for Submissives
Think about the structure, rules, and general weekly routine you’d like to have as a submissive. What do you feel most submissive wearing; a uniform, a collar, or would you be a naked slave. Can you perform slave positions for your Mistress? How can your actions show respect to your Mistress?
Think about how you would behave as a submissive, and then think of the rules that help to form those skills within you. There is no reason you can’t start working on those behaviors that need improving. Begin a Slave Journal to document your submissive journey!
Putting this information in your Slave Journal should help you see how your dreams can come true in the future. When looking to be an ideal submissive to a Mistress to submit to, giving her the journal to read will show how serious you are.
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Interesting. Love your voice. I am new to this and wondering if one can start submissive journey by phone.
Jim
I think this is a great blog entry. Lots of good info in it. I know i grew to like things to please my last mistress. I also know trust is very important in a mistress and submissive relationship. I also believe a great mistress will help her submissive grow in all aspects of life. I know mine did that for me.
Love this post Empress Delia. Indeed it is a journey, always with room for improvement toward being that ideal submissive to a Mistress, growing as it learns how to please, anticipating Her desires. A journal can be a big plus toward that end, perhaps beginning by answering each of the questions You’ve offered here for guidance.
Agreed, fscguy!!
Yes, Jim!
I have helped many on their submissive journeys via phone!
Ms Delia ~ What a great post. This really gives a submissive some important things to think about. Not all subs are the same. They do not want or need the same things. Journaling is something I have recommended many times. I think the best part is when someone looks back and sees how far they have come!
Mistress Delia, please forgive my recent absence from Your blog posts, You know things have been a bit hectic for me lately. Yet, this topic is one i am compelled to respond to.
You ask so many pertinent questions and make such valid points that i cannot help but reflect on my own journey into submission. It truly has been a wonderful, and fulfilling (full-feeling too) journey of exploration. i have been blessed to have many gifted guides along the way who have been so giving in helping me discover what true submission means for me. Thank You for permitting me to share here on a topic so near and dear to my heart.
**Mistress Delia says: I think this comment was very special and relevant, so I asked kneelcc if I could use parts of it for a new blog post. Look forward to that upcoming post in November!**
It has been quite the journey my sexy mistress. I can still remember the kind of headspace I was in when I first came to you seeking to be claimed and owned by a new Mistress. You and I have come so far and learned so many things about each other that I’m always fascinated to see what we might discover the next time we talk. You’ve also introduced me to so many fascinating women from LDW that some times the journey has been overwhelming in trying to please you all. However I’ve learned one important thing along the way, if you pledge yourself to one certain person then that person should always come before any other. I know I’ve tripped and fallen a few times but now that I’m back on my feet I see that you should always come first. Love you!
Thank you, virgin pet for such a lovely comment! You are doing VERY well in your journey, and will continue to grow even further!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Thank you, kneelcc!
I will be posting your journey in a new blog post as I think that comment truly captured the feel of what I was trying to convey in my original post!
🙂 Thank you!
Ms. Delia
The idea of it being a Journey feels right to me. I had not always realized I was a “submissive” at all. There were several “incidents” – that simply caught my attention big time. One was when I had an upset with a girlfriend and (either I had left or she had told me to leave her apartment) – we did not live together. I returned (actually the same day) to try and make up. When I knocked on her door she very firmly grasped my earlobe and led me in. It hit something inside me deeply. I did not realized what was happening fully at the time but she was leading me. My eyes went to the floor. It was very powerful.