Erotic CBT
Is CBT Painful? Not always! CBT does not have to focus on intense pain. In fact, I often say that tease and denial and the ache of blue balls is a form of sexy and erotic CBT. In this blog, I want to focus on some sensations that are more sensual and less painful if you want to experiment with new feelings on your cock and balls.
Ball Stretching
A stretching sensation can be sexy!
CBT Stretcher
First, I will have you start with a nice warm towel. I am absolutely 100% sure you know that when you’re cold, your body pulls those balls closer to your body to keep them warm. I insist on warming up and relaxing that scrotum, and get those lovely little fruits to drop down a bit just for me.
Once those balls are dropped down, I can attach a nice cock ring and ball stretcher. Ienjoy using the type that have a strap that separates your balls, so I can give them some individual attention. Now, to get the stretch I want, the D-rings on the ball stretcher come in oh so handy! Why? Ohhh I can put some weights on them! Not too much, just enough for a nice stretch.
Once I’ve got those balls all stretched out, I can can get into even more sensation play with those balls. I love to squeeze them, roll them around in my fingers, maybe even attach some electrodes for low level vibrating electro play!
I wonder if you could cum from my special ball massage. Then I could milk a hot load for you to eat right out of them!
Is Erotic CBT Rough?
Actually, no. The whole point of it being sensual and erotic means I will be gentle. I’ll just take my feather duster and run it over and over your cock and balls, and just tease you. I’ll bring you to the edge, over and over again…oh, edging is such fun! I’ll have you keep stroking your cock, right on the head, over and over again, using that pre-cum to make it all slick and sensitive. How long will it be before you start begging me for release you little slut. Do you think I’ll let you cum? No! That ache WILL stay in those balls!
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Oh damn Ms Delia! This sounds like so much fun. I can imagine what sort of fun you could have tormenting my full balls! Mmmmmmm.
I think the general assumption is that CBT is just one type of thing, that it always includes pain, that it’s just a bunch of pulling, squeezing and pinching. But CBT can be sexy when you consider the different ways to approach it. Toys, yes. But CBT fun can be more about absorbing the sensation, getting off on more than just the ‘extreme’. Doing something slowly builds tension, add in a blindfold and then anticipation of what can be done pushes it over the top. More than just a stereotype of ‘punishment’, it’s about what ever we want to make it and the thrill of owning a surrendered part of someone.
This all sounds so sexy, Ms. Delia. I was beginning to wish I had balls for you to wrap a hot towel around and a cock for you to tease with a feather duster! This was a very delicious post–your erotic CBT sluts are VERY lucky!
Mistress Delia,
For me the most erotic aspect of CBT play is the vulnerability that it places the submissive in. Never knowing if Mistress will be sensual or painful and having absolutely no control over it. This requires significant trust and dedication to your Mistress.
I’ll never my entry into erotic CBT … at the very first part of my own Mistress journey I had my doubts about my own personal enjoyment of CBT …. I mean who gets a thrill or a sexual charge from being the administrator of physical pain to someone? THEN I got my head around it … why? Because CBT whether sensual and erotic or rough is FUN!!! Fun for Mistress and fun for the submissive who enjoys CBT! LOVED the blog!
Ms.Delia yes CBT is painful as I know it when a Girlfriend I had in the early 80’s used CBT on me as a form of punishment to keep me Loyal & Faithful to her as well as Obedient in following her commands!
She used her hands and had a very firm grip I must admit! She even had help from one of her older sisters in the use of CBT and her older sister had an ever stronger grip that she used to her full advantage!
I Love your post here as it is a better way to use CBT that would make any Male easily submit to you and that’s the whole goal the Mistress has in mind that she have total and complete submission from us! 🙂