Bedroom Rules
Rules in a Femdom Marriage are for Keeping The Kinky Flame Alive
As you all know, I am a Femdom married to my submissive, Jack. We dated and lived together for a long time before I made him my forever slut. During the time we’ve been together, we’ve come up with quite a few rules, rituals and protocols. I would say we live a 24/7 Mistress/submissive relationship, even though he’s not always naked and I’m not always dressed up in leather. I thought I’d share some of the rules we have for our Female Led Relationship.
Queening Rules
Rule 1: Whenever I open or spread my legs, and expose my pussy to him, I want to feel his mouth and tongue on me. Now, I said I’m not always dressed up in leather, but I do frequently wear skirts and dresses, either with crotchless panties, sexy panties, or no panties at all! I love when I know he’s in the middle of
Rules in BDSM
something, to just sit down across from him and spread my legs. He knows he has to stop whatever he’s doing, climb in between my legs and start using that wonderful mouth of his. Why? His pleasure is MY pleasure! Oh, and rule 2? Whenever he goes down on me, I expect at least five orgasms. Only then is he permitted to stop. I think that rule might have started at two…but who wants to stop after 2 orgasms!
Fucking Rules
Rule 3: We only have intercourse when I decide we have intercourse. I mean, that’s only as it should be, right? She who has the pussy should make the rules! Sometimes, I just want to tease him, and we don’t have sex at all. Other times, we fuck – but it’s me fucking his ass! And rule 4 is that when we have intercourse, he doesn’t always get to cum….or, as you all found out with our ruined orgasm challenges, his orgasm is ruined.
Cumming And Cleaning Up
Rule 5: He is only permitted to ejaculate with permission. You all know how much I like to tease edge and deny my slaves, and my subby hubby is no exception. Rarely do I let him cum without a prolonged period of teasing – it’s just so much fun and I really like watching his face and seeing how his body responds. I am an erotic Femdom, you know. When and if I finally let him pump a load out of his swollen blue balls, rule 6 comes in to play: When I do allow him to finally orgasm, he is required to clean up after himself or lovingly lick and suck the cum out of me!
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Yet another reason to be exceedingly jealous of the subby hubby…
I didn’t see one rule that I wouldn’t eagerly follow – for the goddess that is Ms Delia.
I’m glad that you shared your personal rule with us, Miss Delia. You know, I was reading this, I was just marvelling at how different our marriages are. There isn’t just one ‘business model’ when it comes to femdom. The beautiful thing about it is that the female writes the rules and they can be varied and unique as she is.
Oh, and ‘She who has the pussy should make the rules’ should be on a t-shirt or a bumper sticker, by the way!
Awesome, Sexy post Empress! It’s always interesting (and entertaining!) to learn about Your 24/7 lives in a Female Led Relationship as You so eloquently put it. How great that You two found each other! Rituals, Rules, and Protocols are wonderful tools in a D/s relationship, very effective in establishing and maintaining control, often w/o even a word, as in Your example of spreading Your legs.
Oh, bill, I KNOW you would eagerly follow those rules!!
You are indeed very naughty!!
So true Ms. Amber!
Our Femdom marriages are very different, and yet so similar.
I love your idea about the tee shirt!! Maybe we should get matching ones 😀
Yes, and it…
My husband knows how to follow rules, and follow through and not make excuses all the time!!!!
Mistress
I love this post Ms Delia! The model of your Femdom marriage is definitely something to aspire to when I leave the single life behind. I don’t think any Mistress can imagine a marriage that is not Female ruled and as we all know there must be strict rules to keep those subs in line. And these are great ones. I may have to put that five orgasm rule into effect immediately! 😉
i know i’ve said it before: Jack is the luckiest man i know! When i grow up, i hope i marry a FemDom as benevolent as You. 😉 Until then, i’m so glad i belong to You and the protocols, rituals, and rules we have negotiated.
🙂 Thank you kneelcc 🙂
I love all the rules protocols and rituals too 🙂
Thanks for sharing this post.I share bill’s envy of what You and Jack have together in Your marriage. And I’m personally grateful for how You have over the years graciously given me my own distance training/serving rules–not only how I serve You and Mistress Amber, but my wife as well. Were can I get one of those T-Shirts, “She who has the pussy should make the rules!” That’s priceless!
I think you need one of those tee shirts, bill 😉
Maybe one day!!
The power that Mistress has to control submales is overwhelming.Mistress will always win,I know.😣
Why thank you! I agree Mistress always wins, and a submissive should always follow the rules Mistress sets out.
Ms. Delia