Femdom Kinky Marriage Finding a Kinky Slut

Believe me, I know how hard it is to find someone who shares and enjoys your kink!  I’m so lucky that I married Jack. He is one of the sluttiest, kinkiest guys I know.  The first step was that he let me know he was into all kinds of BDSM and Femdom things, and that he wanted me to take control, which was easy!  The whole secret to our kinky relationship is that I could give him what he so desperately craved.

A Ruthless Mistress If He Misbehaves

You all know I can be the uber-Femdom bitch when it’s called for.  And you might remember the Christmas before last when I caught Jack jerking off without permission, how I teased and denied him, ruined orgasms, and punished him for disobeying me.  Although he doesn’t misbehave often, I have been known to take him over my knee for a long, punishment spanking.  Since he doesn’t act out that often, sometimes I just have to be ruthless and evil for no other reason than because I can! Just look back to the 10 days of ruined orgasms!  Part of it is knowing when he’s craving that side of me, and giving him what he needs.  Of course, I love being the ultimate Femdom bitch too, so it’s a win-win for both of us.

A Rewarding Mistress When He’s Good

Oh, and Jack can be so good!  Those fingers, that mouth, but I digress.  He craves being teased, edged and denied before I finally allow him a mind blowing orgasm. I hold him to the 5:1 rule which is 5 of my orgasms for every one of his.  He loves pleasing his Mistress, and while I know he’s not looking to be rewarded for that, that’s part of what makes us work.  It’s not just the orgasms. It also is doing kinky things he likes, like pegging him, flogging him, having him dress in panties when he’s feeling feminine.  That is all part of knowing what a submissive needs. And in the same way, he knows what his Mistress needs. The secret is balance and meeting somewhere in the middle.

So, you guys always ask, “Where can I find a Mistress like you?” Well, that Mistress might be closer than you think! She could be your girlfriend or wife (maybe even both!).  All you have to do is nut up, tell them your kinky fantasies…and let them know you want them to be in control…of your cock…your orgasms…of you!

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