What Straight Men Need To Know About Pegging

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You Can Be Straight And Still Enjoy Anal Play

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That is one of those enduring myths about male anal play, that the only way you can possibly enjoy is if you’re gay…or at least bi.  I’ve had callers and real life submissives who have listed it as one of their “no go” limits and won’t do it at all, who feel really conflicted about it afterwards, or who ceaselessly ask, “Does this make me a faggot, Mistress?”  So, I just wanted to set the record straight.  You can be a straight male and enjoy being pegged.

A Few Things Straight Men Need To Know About Anal Play

First and foremost, it’s still sexual activity between a man and a woman, so your sexuality is intact.  Bi-sexuality and/or homosexuality has NOTHING to do with the particular activity – it has to do with your attractiveness to the same sex.  Next, strap-on sex can be part of many different fetishes – D/s (and not necessarily Femdom – I actually know some Maledoms who enjoy ordering their submissives to give them a buggering!), cuckolding, chastity and cross-dressing – but it doesn’t have to be.  It could just be part of a couple’s sexuality.  That leads is into the third thing.  If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong – unless, of course, that’s your fetish!

Making A Pegging Session Good

Once you’ve accepted that it’s just a different kind of sex between a man and a woman, and fit it into your particular lifestyle, there are a few things you and your pegger can do to make things enjoyable.  AS always, you can NEVER have TOO MUCH lube.  If you think there’s enough, add more!  Strap-on sex requires lots of trust and communication.  Besides calling you a slut, and telling you you’re her bitch now (if that’s your kink), she should be asking how things are going.  And on your part, besides groaning and squealing, you should be telling her how you feel.

Last thing?  Forget about what other people think about your ass-fascination.  Other people do NOT matter!