A Year Without Orgasm

Meet My Chastity Slave, e

red-set-copyI am very lucky to have a wonderful submissive, e, who has undergone “chastity by will” and without even planning for it has done over a year without orgasm.   First, you may be wondering, what is “chastity by will”?  Well, it simply means that e never really asked for a formal chastity contract, and I never demanded it of him.  As we played throughout the year, I just continued to say NO to orgasms.  My e remained chaste because as time wore on, my teasing and edging of him caused quite a revelation for him which I just loved.  But let’s hear him tell it…

e Is Really Also My Edging Slave

Already, time flies, we have reached the end of October and I have now been more than one year without an orgasm…it feels strange as if I would have known  about that on day 1, I would have panicked as the idea of not cumming for a whole year would have been FRIGHTENING…

 

But now that I find myself at the other end… after not having experienced an orgasm in more than a year, I feel no panic and a certain pride in having been able to “survive” for so long.  I still feel the urge to ejaculate… that has not changed… but what I am saying is that the absence of orgasm is not as difficult to endure.

 

I have discovered, throughout the year, through multiple edging sessions, either before you or in solo, with your excellent masturbation guidance through various teases, that the edge in itself is very close to the orgasm with the difference that once the edge has faded away, I am immediately ready to experience another one which would not be the case with an orgasm.

 

Furthermore, I have discovered that after an edging session, the feeling is like I am releasing all the tension that has built-up… not as satisfying as an orgasm but the feeling is unique… still, the craving to stroke and edge does not fade away… only the tension that had built-up… and being able to release that tension has been of a HUGE help in my being able to survive over a year without an orgasm.

 

To me, being your slave within a genuine M/s connection  is far more important than being able to achieve an orgasm once here and there…

 

This Is One Way To Please Your Mistress

This reflection makes me smile. Knowing that the year of no orgasms was not planned makes this reflection even more special!  If you find yourself in chastity or simply denied by your Mistress, read this reflection, and know deep down, you CAN do it…and that the edge can be just as good as an orgasm!