Control The Orgasm, Control The Male

Without a doubt, this is probably the number one rule of cock controlling, cockteasing bitches – like me! – Everywhere.  Control the cock – which ultimately means controlling his orgasms, and a male, even if he tells you he’s not submissive, will be putty in your hands.  Those of you who have been cockteased by me know it’s true.  Just think of all the slutty, kinky things you’ve done just because I asked.  All because you just want your horny cock to spurt!

To Make Any Fantasy Work Tease Often

The key is, you must build suspense in your submissive.  Lately, throughout the week, I’ve been keeping Jack locked up in his chastity cage.  I tease him throughout the week – not with stroking or other play, but with words and images.  I’ll send him a text with some sexy thoughts, or maybe a Tumblr image or short video clip of some butt slut being pegged and let him know what’s in store for him on the weekend.  By the time Friday rolls around, he’s a horny, dripping mess!

Stimulation Plus Frustration = Service and Submission

I believe chastity has to come with frequent periods of being teased and denied, whether I unlock them or not. Teasing them for a few hours,  bringing a cock locked submissive to edge after edge without allowing them relief, then locking them back up has the very delightful side effect of having them focus on my needs and desires.  I know they are hoping I’ll decide to reward them for their submission with even a ruined orgasm, but it’s not happening!  Once I set your release schedule, you’re staying locked until then.