Strap-on Humiliation
Is Pegging Humiliating?
A while back, in my post How Do You Like Your Anal Play?, I wrote how anal play can be soft and sensual, or it can be hard, rough and humiliating. In terms of butt sluts, it takes all kinds. It doesn’t have to be humiliating, it can just be a new way to experience sex. For some anal whores though, to get those really powerful feelings, that just might lead to a mind-bending orgasm, they need the humiliation. So, what is it about Strap-on Anal Play that’s so humiliating?
You’re Being Penetrated
You’ve grown up your whole life being told, being taught that men do the penetrating, and women take the cock. It’s quite taboo being the one having something thrust inside you. It may bring up feelings that liking a cock up your ass somehow makes you gay, or less of a man. Really, it’s a small pin-dick that makes you less of a man, but I digress. Having your ass penetrated, whether by fingers, a plug or my big cock can certainly bring a feeling or humiliation and embarrassment to the surface.
It’s A Power Exchange
Having a Strap-On Domme take your ass, own it, and use it for her enjoyment and amusement is quite a power exchange. She controls the action or runs the fuck as I like to say! Too much? You have to beg her to slow down. Too little? Well, then you have to admit what a slutty bitch you are and beg for it harder, faster and deeper. That power exchange and knowing you’ve given up control can be quite humiliating as well.
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Mmmm hmmmm… anal play is delicious, no matter how you look at it. But, adding the humiliation factor. Faaaabbbbbuuuullllouuuuusssss!
It is yummy how you highlight why a person might be humiliated when being penetrated. But, Ms. Delia, how wonderful is it for us Mistresses to be the Penetrat-OR? I love it, too!
Putting a man in front of a mirror, we Mistresses behind him as he leans over a wooden chair… allowing him to see himself be used this way… and for us to see the shame on his now-red face.
Yes yes!
Oh Mistress Delia, so sad i missed seeing this earlier. However, since the subject is one that is near and dear to my…heart, i was inspired to share the thoughts You induced with the topic Strap-on Humiliation. Thank You for mentioning humiliation isn’t for everyone. i respect those who enjoy this kink. You know it’s one of the few that isn’t mine.
However, i like the thought of penetration and power exchange for all the reasons You mention. i see it as a matter of perspective, i love giving up control to You and always wanting You to “run the fuck”, and as for begging, my usual plea is for Your pleasure, and if reminding me i’m Your naughty little slut by having me beg for harder, faster, deeper gets You higher into Your Domme’ space, so be it.
Thanks for owning me and caring so well for me.
I’ve never done this Ms Delia 🙁 I’m afraid it would hurt to much 🙁
I know you want to put makeup on me for my feminization circuit training program which I’m fine with along with wearing my panties/bra/dd breast forms/slip and one of my body con dresses with wig. Would we want to do this after you’ve made me up? I’ve heard with this I’ll hard major hardon and shoot farther.
Thanks Ms. Daphne!!!!!
I know you love anal play too!! We should play with a subby slut together soon!!!
Ms. Delia
Thank you kneelcc!!
You are so good at power exchange, and taking anal toys for me!!! I am so very pleased!
Mistress Delia
Oh Paulina…
I think after a transformation, anal play would be amazing…and we could start small!!!!!
Ms. Delia
I guess between the two pegging is better then cock sucking. Never did either
Bob,
I say try BOTH cock sucking and pegging. BOTH are amazing if done correctly!
🙂 Ms. Delia