This Week, Have a Sexy Masturbation Date!
As you know, Ms. Delia is generally all about the Art of the Cocktease, and I rarely let a man orgasm without permission. This is not a change of heart. Oh no! Not at all. What this is is a wonderful time for you to enjoy masturbation with permission! Why? Well, think of it this way. Sometimes you just need to settle in for the night to have a little self-love! That is a masturbation date! And remember, after you cum, I will build the ache, and make sure you appreciate any allowed orgasms! See, it is all about balance!
Here are some masturbation date ideas:
1. Set the scene. Make your bed or set up the room in a special way. I know you can rub one out ANYWHERE, but DO make this nice!
2. Foreplay is fun with your favorite movie or erotica stories, so enjoy that. Feel free to send Ms. Delia links!
3. Start slow with slow, teasing strokes to get nice and hard. Do not use your regular, fast stroke. Go slow. Have fun exploring your cock!
4. Do denial and edges to keep ramping up that pleasure, bit by bit. I like 5 edges generally, but for this date, I want a minimum of 10 even if you need breaks. I know you will have a much more intense orgasm!
5. Continue to work yourself up until you are really ready for that orgasm, then let it happen!
When Should you Enjoy a Masturbation Date?
I say make a masturbation date for yourself once a month! Make sure Mistress gives you permission. The point of a masturbation date may be to allow a release after a time of chastity or to change up your regular masturbation routine. And ENJOY the fun!
Do report back about what you did to make your masturbation date special. Let Me know how it was! And do remember to always beg for Mistress Delia!
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I love being part of a special masturbation date, like when they call all prepared with lube, toys, towels and their favorite porn playing silently in the background. They’re making sure all their senses are stimulated, and I’m right there in their ears, in their head, giving instructions and pushing their buttons. Yummmmm!
I love the idea of scheduling some ‘me time’ for masturbation. Hey, people get mental health days off work, right? Everyone needs a chance to recharge sometimes, and what better way to do that then in a natural, sexy way? Endorphins are great and it’s easier and (way) more fun than running!
Ms Delia ~ What an excellent idea. I believe that anything can be enjoyed. I am like Ms Claire I I love when someone calls & they have taken the time to plan. Toys, lube, porn, maybe even dressed for the occasion. Great ideas ~ thank you for sharing. Might need to have one of these nights myself soon!
Ms Kay Marie
What a great idea to make masturbation dates a special thing. I think it breaks the monotony of a regular rub and tug. The scene should be set perfectly before picking up the phone. It can be much more fun with all the toys , outfits and lube ready. There is no such thing as over preparation! A little thought about what is exciting a caller before he talks to us is so hot!