Why do men love being flogged and spanked?
Ms. Delia likes to think of it as comfort food! Floggers as comfort? Spanking as comfort? Oh yes! Comfort food can bring you back to an earlier time when certain feelings and emotions were imprinted. Now, you get to feel safe and protected, while being vulnerable. Flogging and spanking play can bring out 
many emotions and triggers. Would you like to share those with me?
How I play: Things to know for our Fantasy Call
Though I can be a sadistic and mean mistress, I like to start with a sexy hand spanking. Your flesh will increase circulation to that area, increase the endorphin effect, and increase the level of impact that can be endured by you. Want a hot tip for making your buttocks unable to clench? Have your toes point inward. It’s impossible to clench if done correctly, and I can help you with that!.
Areas I LOVE to play with: Location, location, location.
Face slapping for my subs is a hot topic to discuss! I love this type of power, and would love to do a fantasy around this! For more common impact play, I can focus on your buttocks, upper back on either side of the spine, thighs, and lower shoulders. I will work these areas into a hot and sexy BDSM fantasy.
Do you prefer a thud or a sting sensation?
Thud
A palm of the hand or thick heavy paddle can provide deep, resonating, penetrative yet dull, deep tissue stimulation.
Sting
A light wooden paddle, wooden spoon, and a hairbrush can provide more shallow stimulation, a sharp biting feel.
Different hand shapes
When spanking with a bare or leather-gloved hand, know that cupping the hand tends to create more thud while holding it flat with fingers spread creates more sting.
Rhythm
I like to find a nice, steady rhythm and may have you count to make it more sexy and interactive.
The compliance you give makes me a very pleased Mistress! Maybe you’ll be lucky enough to hear my spanking playlist! I can’t wait to flog, spank, and have fun impact play with you! Oh, and I do like to be safe, so I will INSIST on a safeword!
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Going over a woman’s lap has filled me with emotion my entire life. It is literally overwhelming in a thousand ways. I am scared, excited, filled with dread and fear, very, very embarrassed/humiliated. But I have realized there is another part of me, deeper, and less obvious perhaps, that also feels taken care of. This is how she takes care of me. It is the part of me that feels incredibly and deeply grateful even though humiliated and hurt.
Oh Wow!
This is a hot post.
I would love to be spanked by you Ms Delia!
As you know I’d be locked up in my chastity cage. I’d love to hear the jingle of my key around your neck as you deliver the blows.
I know what spanking does to me, I love the feeling of being the focus of attention. Being the object that is receiving the sensation where the line of just enough pain to create pleasure. The vulnerability, the compliance it takes to be spanked all play are part.
I’m a fan of the thud. A nice paddle, a heavy belt. Hands are wonderful too. Spoons are just mean…lol
I love impact play as well Ms Delia. Face slapping is the most fun for me, hands down…lol. There is nothing more humiliating than an unexpected bitch slap across the face with a declaration of humiliation of “you are a slut, learn to listen”. Then of course there is the cane following. Awesome post! Thanks 🙂
Have I heard your spanking playlist?
I love using music to control the pacing and energy of almost any kind of kink play.
Using sounds of the spanking, flogging, caning and slapping is a fantastic way to hook the beat to the beating (pun intended lol).
AND then add the gasps and moans for that little submissive with the bare bottom — well then — happy Mistress!
For a Mistress to put them in a disciplining situation and actually spank them will bruise their masculinity but only make them want more. Not to mention that spanking often has roots from earlier in life and now they can’t hold back how sexually exciting it all is. I have zero problems with an open hand, a paddle or using a different object to remind them of the power I’ve always had!