Roles of a submissive
There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive. While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment. Being flexible and able to adapt as the situation dictates will help you succeed as a submissive. When you submit, you make sure you are putting Mistress first, and are making sure you provide whatever she needs.
Serving as a submissive
You should be prepared at any time to be:
-Her sex toy. She will have her sexual needs and sometimes those needs may involve tormenting you sexually.
-Her pain slut for Mistress. There will be times when she may seem cruel, but her strokes are often well deserved.
-Her pet. When she wishes to share her affections, we will be there waiting for her and ready to share her comfort.
-Her friend. There are times when she will need someone to talk to, to confide in, and lean on for support. Be there for her.
-Her personal attendant. Be ready to hop at a moment’s notice and deliver what she desires.
-Her housekeeper, maid or butler. Can you picture her performing tedious and menial tasks? That’s what she has you for.
A well-rounded form of submission goes beyond any individual activity. If you want to be an important part of her life you should hope to fill all of the roles she could ever ask for.
When you are ready to submit to a Mistress, let Ms. Delia know, and I will help you to become the submissive you have always hoped and dreamed you would become for your Mistress.
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I’m definitely your weak soft submissive helpless and feminine cream puff girl by having you dress/lipstick kiss my cheeks and keep me as a girl. It’s to difficult to resist and say no to you as your to hot sexy and powerful. This is who I am and become. Wearing women’s dresses/bras/breast forms/wigs/makeup/lipstick/
blouses/heels/boots I really do look better dressed as a girl then I do as a guy. With most women my age married with kids and I’m not along with being put in friend zone by girls I know means I’m not boyfriend material anymore which is fine with me as I can start calling all of you for ongoing permanent feminization.
I want to come out to my masseuse about having you and other mistresses feminizing me along girls I play tennis with about my dressing up. Should I do this or not?
Mistress Delia, thank you for this post! It’s true Women are multidimensional, and Dominant women are no exception. Sometimes we need a thoughtful articulate partner to talk with, not necessarily a “Yes” man 24/7. But when that tide turns and Mistress needs to get her Dom fix, submissive is ready willing and able to slip into that role as well. So thoughtful, so right! thanks for this.
See you around the Empire, sexy!
This is a great blog because I think sometimes a submissive will only think of just one kind of submission — and that’s really awesome — but when as Mistress finds someone who can and will be FULL SERVICE then, oh my that’s awesome!
It’s all about how willing that person is to be fully and completely submissive!
Ms. Delia, it makes sense that a well-rounded submissive relationship is far more satisfying than a one-dimensional relationship because it is a relationship. It needs to be very real and reflect how things are in day to day life to be anything other than just roleplay or acting.
Yes Empress Delia sissy tedi hopefully will fill many of those roles for the great MISTRESS Erika. Sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
Having served as a sub to a Mistress – who moved away and releases me – i can say that it is a truly fulfilling experience to be collated. Knowing that my role was to serve and fulfill Her needs and desires. Ms Delia You so well describes the importance of the multifaceted service. i never knew what to expect but i knew that if my service was complete honest and true it was the space to be in.
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THANK YOU for teaching and enforcing my submission to you, making me beg you and follow every instruction of yours ma’am. you are soooo SUPERIOR! i worship you!
i am reading through your blog so i can serve YOU better! very enlightening!!!!
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