Chastity seems to be a simple concept. The man is locked away after terms have been negotiated, the keys are given to the holder, and denial and games and other fun teasing activities begin.

However, chastity, while a wonderful gift of power that is given to the holder of the keys, can also turn out to be a big waste of time if the partners are not matched well with their expectations or their feelings about chastity.

Chastity Expectations

My expectations for chastity are simple, really. I want you to turn over control to me completely. We will have a safe key that is very unattainable and not taken lightly. It is ideal if we could have a helper such as a girlfriend or other trusted source who could serve as a third party for verification of locked status. I expect you to stick to my rules and schedule. This can include scheduled phone sessions, email assignments, and mandatory begging just because I love that! It is pretty straightforward.

Chastity Pain

I think chastity can cause real kinds of pains, including emotional pain, and physical pain and discomfort to the locked one. This is an activity I revel in, causing that type of emotional sexual distress and the ache of blue balls and other physical discomforts. This can create a mindfuck! When done correctly, chastity can include being teased, milking, ruined your orgasms, cleaning, the laughing at pleading, and the kind, yet rare pleasurable release.

I often crave that power, that ability to control something so intimate to a man. To allow release only as it suits me, to punish indiscretions with extra time locked, to impose my schedule on a man’s prized cock, to show little mercy for a cock, but never really be described as heartless. It is a wonderful balance!

Tell Ms. Delia your chastity wishes and desires.