I LOVE ruined orgasms and want to show you all about SCRUNCHING!
What is a Ruined Orgasm?
A ruined orgasm is simple. You “almost” cum, but are stopped just as you go over the edge. When you just edge for me, you stop before you have that almost orgasm. Ruining takes you just past the edge into that almost orgasm space. You do not stroke through to the full release, but you do stroke enough so you can not stop the orgasm. Generally there is ejaculate that spurts out, but with scrunching we work to keep that ejaculate in.
What is Scrunching?
Scrunching to ruin an orgasm is different from the typical, “Take away your hand and abandon it!” method. Scrunching is different, and many say more intense. I want you to practice it! To scrunch, just as you are at that over the edge feeling, you will grab and SQUEEZE the head of your cock. Seriously, do hold it tightly until all of the ruined orgasm feelings have gone away. If you do this correctly, you will still be hard, and you will not feel satisfied at all! A ruined orgasm should NOT feel like a real orgasm, and should not give the same chemical release that a full orgasm does. When you are able to prevent your release, you will still be able to masturbate. Because of that, you can do many ruined orgasms in a row, even until you are “dry!”
Ms. Delia’s Ruined Orgasm Challenge
1. I want you to edge 5 times for me, as that is my MINIMUM number of edges. Do 10 to make me happier!
2. With EACH edge practice squeezing the cock head until each edge has passed.
3. Once those edges are done, it is time to ruin that orgasm using the scrunching technique. Squeeze the head, and let NO cum escape!
Let me know how your ruined orgasm was, and talk to Ms. Delia for so much more about ruined orgasms!
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Oh Sexy Ms Delia! You have hit the nail on the head, and I love RO’s as well! So naughty and so unfulfilling keeps that cock hard and wanting more! No wonder you are popular and leaving the guys wanting more! Your control divine your knowledge of the male mind and body intimidating for many I’m sure.
Here’s to ruined orgasms! *holds glass high*
*laughs*
See you around the Empire!
I never heard of scrunching before. I don’t have to be hard to cum
I frequently cum soft. I have stopped masturbating because it caused my penis to shrinki
Ms Delia ~ This is how I love to ruin an orgasm. It’s active I guess. Not just leaving it go but they have to actually ruin it by their actions (or it is ruined by mine ~ yes I have pinched the head myself lol) I just love combination of frustration and bewilderment. I think it is an excellent idea to challenge them to see how many times they can ruin until they are “dry”. Thank you for the suggestion.
Ms Kay Marie
Ms. Delia, this sounds absolutely delicious! I never knew there was a term for it. I would just tell my stroker to squeeze his cock until the cum started to feel like it was backing down into his balls. So glad to know it’s an actual thing. I’m curious to know now how long one of your guys has scrunched? An hour of scrunching would be so exhausting….hehee 🙂
I love this technique of ruining an orgasm. I’m sure it’s so much more intense than just abandoning the orgasm and allowing it to dribble out. I’ll have to “borrow” this technique for my boys who don’t seem to be all that frustrated by an abandoned orgasm. I’m sure it’ll give them some serious frustration! 😉
From now on i am just going to keep my hands off the stupid penis & just let someone else handle it.
Mistress Delia,
Another way of ruining the male orgasm:
1st he only gets to masturbate without lube.
2nd once hard he must HIT the head of his cock with the back of a hairbrush (minimum 10 hard whacks) this will make his penis numb to enjoyable orgasm even if he strokes to completion. “Extremely unsatisfying”
3rd once he has ejaculated and gone soft he will experience many unpleasent times he cant control oozing from his penis (can get embarassing) This is when a man realises just how dominant a woman is.
4th if he regains any sensitivty in his penis repeat step 2, I promise he will stay frustrated and only desire ruined orgasms. Also repeating this process several times, he will discover that masturbation without his mistress (alone) leads to premature ejaculation sometimes cumming just as he reaches erection or the most disappointing, the hands free orgasm.
All your subs need this treatment.
Mistress Delia,
Ive been trying different ruins. The penis head hitting before masturbation not only ruins the orgasm but causes me to dribble precum everytime I get excited. It is frustrating because I dont even realize Im cumming from excitement, and when I masturbate I see my penis squirt but the sensation isnt there. It would be wonderfully entertaining for you to witness because I anticipate that great feeling that comes with orgasm but am left frustrated and covered in my sperm. I think Ive not only ruined my orgasms but also my penis. Im hard again so Im going to ruin myself again with head smacks and disappointing ejaculation.
I love the idea of head smacks for ruining!
Keep up the great work 😉
Ms. Delia
I will have some subs try this! Great idea using the hairbrush!
Ms. Delia
Mistress Delia,
Yes using a hairbrush inflicts pain, shock,anticipation and the inability to enjoy orgasm. Have your subs do this before getting hard just for your entertainment, it brings you to erection and makes the orgasm sensation very awkward because I know I should be feeling it throughout my body but extreme frustration is all Im left with and a penis that precums uncontrollably, dribbles when I do ejaculate, and oozes everytime I get excited.
Today Im going to try masturbating to orgasm, letting go to ruin it and whacking my penis during ejaculation. I think it may ruin me from ever enjoying a masturbation session again.
By the way Mistress Delia I think I love you. I definetely worship you my goddess.
Misress Delia,
Whacking my penis during orgasm was mentally difficult and excrusiating. What a mindf**k, just as I started to cum I whacked the head 3 very hard times, I immediately stopped ejaIculation. It was worse than scrunching in every way. It did make edging a bit easier though because before every time Id edge I would orgasm. Ive been masturbating to the edge all day now and must say Im extremely frustrated because it ruined my squirt rythm, what a struggle to orgasm.
Thanks for the worship!!!
How did the ruined orgasm go?
Ms. Delia