Sex…it feels good, doesn’t it?

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Did you know that regular sex, whether with a partner or yourself, has definite health benefits? In fact, it can have the same benefits as regular exercise. Now, given the choice between the treadmill and an intimate evening, I say let’s all get healthy the sexy way. It is all about sexual healing!
I am here to help you open yourself up to the power of sexual healing. I want you to indulge yourself, challenge yourself and most of all reward yourself.
Sex (I use this term to mean solo or with your partner) is so much more than the physical. It transcends the physical body to include mental and spiritual. We’re going to talk about the physical here and after a while, you will feel the benefits extend to the mental and spiritual.
Sexual Healing – Make Friends With Your Body
Accept yourself, bumps and all. I hope you are ready, learning to appreciate the body you have now not the body you think you’d be happier with. Remember to thank yourself and your body. It gives you so much, so don’t take it for granted. Treat your body like a lover. Appreciate it. Admire it. Thank it, and enjoy it. When was the last time you did something nice for your body? A massage, a soak in the hot tub, something decadent. Tonight, take 15 minutes from your day and do whatever feels right to show your body some love.
Treat your body well. Remember that what you eat, how you exercise and care for your skin all contribute to your feeling ready for sex. Nurture yourself and your body.
Use a ritual to set the mood. Prepare your body for sex, whatever that means to you. Build the anticipation, stoke your fires and ignite your passion….for yourself.
Sexual Healing Assignment – Loving Your Body
Do this as many times this week as your schedule permits.
Take a sensuous shower. But before you do this take a trip down the accessories aisle. Find things that are soft, bristly and scrubby.
Each night experiment with them. Use them on different parts of the body. How does your body respond? Before you end your shower fill the palm of your hand with soap and wrap it around your cock. Use slow strokes, measured and intentional. Pay attention not only to your cock but also to your hand, your arm, the tightening of your balls, everything!
If you are not in denial or chastity you may orgasm. If you are, well then stop right there and channel all that erotic energy back into your body.
I want to know how you liked your homework assignment! Post your comments here for Ms. Delia.
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I’ve decided I’m going to let my friend take control over my feminization. Especially now that she’s selling women’s clothes and wants me to buy them from her all the time. She even called me her cabi boy. With her asking me if I dress up for therapeutic reasons and I told her yes do you think she knows I do this to get hard and off? I didn’t tell her that but have feeling she knows. I’m going to tell her there’s no reason to buy women’s clothes anywhere else since she’s selling them and I want to see if she’s interested in having me go with her shopping and if I can hold her purse/shopping bags dressed in women’s clothes as well if she can help me pick out lipsticks and try them on my lips. She did say she will take pictures of me with her ph when my clothes come in then go out for lunch or dinner dressed up. This is what I want and I feels it’s best and needed for me. I want to ask her about giving me harmless lipstick kisses on my cheeks but don’t want to ruin relationship with her or her marriage despite her telling me at concert she went with her husband one of her gfs had her sit on lap and kissed her. I want this to happen to me? What are your thoughts about this Ms Delia?