There is Strength in your Submission
It may sound a little paradoxical, to say the least, but there is actually a great deal of power and strength in submission. Just because you submit, and enjoy power exchange, does not mean you are weak in your everyday life. Maybe at work, you are a leader, but at home, you fully submit to your Mistress. That does take lots of strength. Admitting you need to be directed and controlled, that you need the teachings of a Mistress is not weak…ever!
Where is your strength?
Right inside you, where it always is. Submissive power doesn’t always look like power. It may be about calm, competence, and devotion. Or about being secure enough in yourself to let yourself be vulnerable, knowing that your conventional power is always right there if you need it. It’s your strength that gives your submission a center. It takes strength to negotiate your fantasies with a Mistress. It takes even more strength to utter a safe word when you need it! It takes so much strength to learn new things and try new kink adventures Mistress wants.
Submit to Mistress Delia
As a submissive you share your power when you give control to your Mistress. Submissives who fail to acknowledge their own power can become too needy or too demanding and miss out on the deep satisfaction that is possible in an erotic power exchange, even with our sexy distance domination scenes.. Are you strong enough to truly submit to a Mistress and explore kinks in a new way? Let Ms. Delia know what makes you strong within your submission.
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I really want and going to start dressing up as a girl as my friend has told me to buy from her all the time as she’s selling women’s clothes. She even said she will give me her old lipsticks. Being her submissive is best thing to happen to me.
Excellent post could not agree
More after 15 hours of being
In charge of Everything to submit to a mistress I not only focus on her but it also helps me recharge an focus my mind
On the days ahead
Yes! After you are in charge all day, it can really help to decompress with submission!
Ms. Delia
Paulina, this is great!
You will be a wonderful submissive!
Ms. Delia
The power of submission
Thank You for sharing this important topic. i know You perpetually have new fans vying for slots in Your stable of subbies. i believe this concept of a submissive’s strength is essential to what makes You such a successful Mistress and grasping this a foundation for a lasting FemDom lead relationship.
i am so happy You taught me the power of a submissive so many years ago. The part i remember most You mentioned above is the power invested in a sub to say “Red” and stop a scene that is no longer physically, or emotionally, safe.
Over the years, we have had many sessions along the kink continuum from sensuous intimate romantic to hardcore pain play in Your virtual dungeon. You have never pushed me to the point of needing to say “RED”, but i know the time i said “yellow” You heard me, and immediately stopped our scene to address my issue at the moment without question, or judgment.
i actually believe that incident was a pivotal moment for both of us in manifesting the immense trust and respect essential to empowering us both, in our respective roles, to move further into what has developed into such a beautiful dance each time we play a scene.
Thank You for teaching me there is strength in submission and allowing me to incorporate it into becoming the slave i need to be for You to also feel empowered and able to soar ever higher in Your Domme’ space when we session.
As we quickly approach our six year anniversary, i say thank You for the wonderful journey where we are equal partners in a healthy and affectionate relationship.
i do hope Your newer fans take this blog’s subject to heart and realize how important understanding their power is and using it appropriately to develop as wonderful a relationship of commitment and devotion to You as the one You gift me with every day.
You’ve put this very well. I enjoy submitting by being strong. I want to give my strength, my ability, my everything to my Mistress for her use. That use can be in any type of service she wants. I’m fulfilled by being valued, by being an asset to her wants, needs, and pleasure.
The stronger I am, the more focused and capable I can be, the better I can serve her.
Wow, kneelcc!
This was indeed powerful! I know using safewords can be tough because you want to please so much…but that trust! Oh yes!
That WAS such an important moment. Amazing!
I am happy you have those positive memories, and that the experience bonded us!
Mistress
Thanks, well-spanked!
Every submissive gives SO much! I love this comment.
Ms. Delia