7 Kinds of Ruined Orgasms
I have always been a great fan of ruined orgasms. In searching to find more ways to deprive men of orgasms, and also enhance the masturbation experience overall, I have come up with explanations for 7 kinds of ruined orgasms. At the end of these descriptions, I will offer a challenge to be endured for me!
Ruined Orgasm Porn
I became curious about ruined orgasm methods when I watched Femdom porn videos. There is something to be said for free porn, right? I would watch these sexy movies and video clips and see a Femdom edging her slave male with these amazing handjobs. Think about it! Those big hard cocks, deprived of sex, of pleasure! My kind of porn video for sure! The Mistress was all about the control, as a Femdom is! She talked about denial and ruining her slave over and over. Some of these videos dealt with chastity and milking also. I became curious! So I learned all the kinds of ruined orgasms.
Abandoned Ruined Orgasms
Abandoned ruined orgasms are, in my opinion, the easiest way to ruin your orgasm. To abandon, you need to get right to the edge, to the brink, or point of no return. At that point, STOP and just let go and remove any and all stimulation. My favorite part is when the frustrated cock twitches, spasms, jerks and drips as the orgasm is ruined and stays totally unsatisfying.
Squelching
A squelched ruined orgasm happens because of squeezing. When you are close to cumming, say right at that point. No more stroking or stimulation. Instead, you will grip the base of the shaft, and squeeze very tight. I mean seriously tightly! The goal here is to not allow any cum to spurt out. You may see some light oozing from the tip of your cock. This could be precum or orgasmic fluids. When you squeeze the base of the shaft, you are working to stop the ability for the cum to get into that shaft. You are trapping it. You may feel a little pressure or light pain from the cum trying to escape.
Scrunching
Scrunched ruined orgasms are almost orgasms, but not quite. When you reach the edge of the edge, that orgasm point, you will stop stimulation and stroking. For this technique to work, you need to take the head of your cock, and even the upper half of your cock, and squeeze it HARD! Yes, scrunch it! This will stop any ejaculate from escaping the head of your cock. It can not flow freely. The goal here is to hold that upper portion of the cock hard for a while, at least until the orgasmic feeling passes. If you do this successfully, your orgasm will not be complete, but it may very well be awkward, unsatisfying, and uncomfortable.
Dictated (Also called Thumbing)
A dictated ruined orgasm or thumbed ruined orgasm involved placing the tip of a thumb (thumbing) or a finger of the hand not in use over the hole in the tip of the cock. The goal is to really block the hole quite tightly so no fluid can escape. It instead stays totally trapped in the shaft! There is a harder difficulty level with this ruined orgasm technique. Generally when a man orgasms, he moves around. When this close to an orgasm, he may find that he moves and your thumb or finger slips! Palming may be better. This type of ruined orgasm is not my favorite.
Palmed or Cupped Ruined Orgasms
A palmed or cupped ruined orgasm is similar to thumbed or dictated. If you have a large cock, this technique may be better for you! If you try thumbing, and it does not work, give palming a try! What happens is you get to that delicious point of no return. You must, of course, stop any stimulation and immediately use your palm of your hand cupped over the head of the cock. It is important to hold it down tightly! One trick with this type of ruined orgasm is to use this with squelching so the cum is blocked two ways!
Recycled Ruined Orgasms
A recycled ruined orgasm intentionally produces pre-cum and uses it for more lubrication. I personally love doing this with teasing and delay! So what do you do? Work your cock right to the edge, that 9.5 out of 10. Let the precum ooze out. You can take this fluid, and use it to lubricate you for more and more stroking for me! I have seen men do this recycling so much that after a while, they can actually have a completely dry orgasm. So try this! One thing to note. If you do lots of recycling, it can cause a slight burning sensation. This will go away with more stroking. This sensation can happen a few times before you are fully dry.
Thwacked Ruined Orgasms
Thwacked ruined orgasms take some courage to do! I think of this technique as a bit of CBT. As you get to that point of no return, you stop stroking and stimulation. When those strong throbbing edge feelings happen, you slap the underside of your cock. This is not a gentle smack. It is a more intense stinging smack. This is why I did say CBT! If you do this correctly the slap will cause the cock to enter a sort of self-defense mode and shut down your release. So slap hard and fast, and see how the cock changes.
A Ruined Orgasm Challenge
For this ruined orgasm challenge, I want you to take a day and practice each of these techniques. I want you to try your very best, your hardest. Yes, I know you will be teased, denied, delayed and probably very frustrated! That is ok. I will even sweeten the deal. Watch your favorite porn videos, video clips, and movies while you are stroking. Add to the denial! Please your Mistress by completing this challenge, then write to me about it! Tell Ms.Delia about your orgasm denial fetish and how ruined orgasms add to it!
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I loved reading this !!! For whatever reason, as I get older, I love ruined orgasms and denial the most.
Especially “Recycled Ruined Orgasms”
Rather than using the precum as lube, this is the easiest and most enjoyable way to eat my own cum. As big globs of thick cum slowly work it’s way up my shaft, I do my own type of “recycling” by swallowing all of it !!!
I can usually do this 2 or 3 times before the taste of cum in my mouth sends me over the edge and I have full (more like ruined) orgasm and little to no cum comes out.
I love ruined orgasms. I’ve done a few of these myself. Abandoned is probably my favorite. If I can get a little cum to leak out I like to eat it. Thank you for your blog. I enjoy reading it.
Derek!
This is excellent. Thanks for the comment. I love recycled ruined orgasms too.
I am glad you swallow all your cum for me.
Ms. Delia
Hi Rick!
Thanks for the comment. I like to have men abandon a lot also. It is an easy way to start getting into ruined orgasms!
Ms. Delia
I love being told to ruin my orgasms. But there is another ruin not all men can accomplish. That is the hands free orgasm , no toy in the butt, I mean no stimulation at all. It only took me 50 years to discover I could do it. The most satisfying and disappointing experience ever. All subs should try it.
Love this!
It is such fun to ruin orgasms! It really is pleasure and frustration mixed!
Ms. Delia
Mistress Delia,
Im so delighted you have acknowledged my hands free orgasm.
For subs that have never experienced the hands free method, try this to start.
Get yourself hard and sqeeze your legs together with the penis pointing backwards (dont use your hands).
Now start humping as though you are fu**ing, keeping your penis squeezed between your legs until that orgasmic feeling comes upon you. Done correctly it will give you a ruined orgasm along with no cum release. With a little stamina you should be able to ruin yourself for hours. I ruined myself for 8 hours straight one night A Euphoric kind of feeling took over and I couldnt stop until I was exhausted (a symphony of dry orgasms). I remember counting 32 times, it became a spontaneous reaction, it was intense. Im not sure if I passed out or what but when I realized there was no spunk all over myself the following morning I tried for one more the same way but at the point of orgasm I relaxed my legs just enough for release and WOW what a load, it was almost like peeing all over my ball sack (a hot gooey mess). Frustration from the no sensation just alot of cum all over my nuts.
Once you subs realize no hands can be accomplished for Mistress Delia this way you will find that you can ejaculate just thinking about squirting for Mistress Delia. I promise you will only desire unsatisfying ruined orgasms.
Ive become devoted to pleasing and entertaining my godess Mistress Delia.
Thank you!!
I am happy you love ruined orgasms SO much!!!
Fabulous!
Ms. Delia