Let me be upfront. I want to develop a long term chastity plan for you. Why? I love having complete and total control of your cock. Listening to you begging and pleading to cum is just music to my ears. I laugh the hardest when you tell me, “Ms. Delia, I NEED to cum!” Really? There is no actual physical need to cum. Oh, you may WANT to cum, but there’s no actual NEED to cum. Yes, your balls will swell up and get all blue and achy with that pent up seed, but once they’ve reached capacity, will they explode? No, your body will just start cannibalizing the excess spunk, breaking it down so it can just make more. So don’t try the “I NEED to cum” line on me, stroker boy. I know a chastity plan is just what you need.
Do you NEED a device? Technically no. You can do chastity by will. Honestly, my favorite chastity device is you AND Your desire to not cum because it pleases me, and your will to make that happen. Having you profess to me that you want to be in chastity and that you will remain chaste for me without the use of any devices shows me how devoted you are to me.
If you really feel you need the extra help, a chastity device can be a wise investment. There are so many types to choose from though. So, of course, I will help you hilighting some of my favorites.
Long Term Chastity Devices
Silicone
I like the comfort of silicone chastity devices, especially the Bird Locked Chastity Device. Why do I like them? Well, silicone chastity devices offer some pros over the other types. First, they are more realistically 
shaped, which makes them a bit more comfortable. They are also a bit flexible, so there’s a bit of “give” if you get excited. You’ll still know your chastity device is there, because it will be quite snug.
Metal Chastity Devices
My favorite devices come from Mature Metal Cock Cages www.maturemetal.com. I just think there’s something “classic” about metal. Each one is custom made, so your comfort should not be as much of an issue as it would be if you grab one “off the shelf”. They can be locked on for a day, or for a year, and they’ll allow for comfort and the ability to keep yourself clean without having to come off.
App-Controlled Chastity Device Keyholding
I have discovered a chastity device that actually makes virtual keyholding possible. This remote chastity cage is app-controlled.
Prostate Milking In a Long Term Chastity Plan
There may be some health benefits to prostate milking. Some believe that the alkaline content of the prostatic fluid can lead to prostate disease, and that the compounds aren’t even released through regular masturbation and sexual intercourse and that regular prostate milking should be done, even if you’re not in the middle of a chastity challenge. Some people say it has no health benefits at all. Whether it does or it doesn’t, admit it, it’s enjoyable for you – either because of the sensations you receive, or the humiliation!
Using Toys to Milk Your Prostate
I love the NEW Edge from Lovense.
I discussed how you could externally massage your prostate, but if you really want to empty it completely, internal massage is the way to go. You could use your finger, but wouldn’t a toy be much more fun? We’ve talked about the Aneros in the past, but that can be a little small for a real anal chastity whore. Instead, I’d recommend the Tantus Prostate Massager. It’s quite a bit larger, which will make you feel that much fuller, and it has a built-in mini-bullet vibrator to rub up against your p-spot and milk you d
Long Term Chastity Plan
For me, the definition of chastity isn’t so much about not orgasming. In fact, have all the orgasms you want. Just deny the world your essence. Ejaculation is just the climax, the denouement of an orgasm. I want you to think about this though. What is the best part? Is it the cum spurting out of you, flowing out of your body? you’ll admit, after you cum a profound sense of fatigue overcomes you. Most of you just roll over and go to sleep. No, the best part is that feeling of absolute pleasure and joy that comes over you as you orgasm, right before you start shooting that cream. If you can refrain from actually ejaculating, you can have multiples – just like your Mistress. Imagine having that wonderful feeling, over and over again.
Very interesting and informative post Ma’am
I wear a Queens Keep
Will have to catch up
With you
Oh Ms Delia 🙂
I read that like you were personally talk directly to me.
It sent shutters down my spine!
You and I both know I need a long term chastity plan.
Andy, Yes! I know and have known for a LONG time that you feel best when someone is controlling your little penis in a chastity device.
We must continue with this!
Ms. Delia
Lexi the Queen’s Keep and Jailbird are my favorites for chastity devices in metal.
Glad you like the post!
Ms. Delia
May the Goddess bless Keyholder Mistress’s like yourself….I am in chastity now…..and i’m intrigued by the app controlled device…..I pray more beta males get locked for the benefit of ALL woman and of deserving men
I’ve been a little lost since the start of the year and maybe this is what I need. Possibly with my first metal device, though remote chastity is also very intriguing to me as you could probably guess.
Hi Ryan! Nice to see your comment.
This year is having us all in stages of here and there. No worries. Metal devices…oh I can advise you. And the remote chastity device is one I am learning! More to come.
Ms. Delia
Hello princess
I love your comment, and agree more men should be locked. YUM!
Ms. Delia
Hi Ms
As you probably know Ms Olivia has me in chastity to enhance my feminization. I use a pain creme so I do not have an accident during calls. It has very much made me more feminine.
xxxxxxx
yvonne
Mmmm I love this, Yvonne!
Chastity CAN enhance feminization so much. I love how you use pain cream during calls. Smart!!!
Ms. Delia
I think you are absolutely right Mistress Delia. There is no actual medical need to cum. Chastity is not bad for a man’s health, although some chastity devices are dangerous so care is needed.
When a man says he needs to cum he is just being selfish. What he means is that he wants to cum, and of course everyone knows that if he is allowed to do so, then he imediately becomes lazy and less focussed on pleasing his Mistress.
Having spent very long periods in chastity I can attest to everything you said. It is beneficial both to the Mistress and the sub. The sub learns to focus on serving the Mistress well and also learns to find imense satisfaction in that service. The man learns to rise above his selfish desires and to find his pleasure through pleasing his Mistress.
Being put in chastity is like giving up smoking. It is difficult to come to terms with at first, but it is much better for you in the long run. As for chastity devices – well – I know that a man should really be able to remain in chastity without one, but lets face it, most of us are far to weak and pathetic not to fall off the wagon once in a while. So I think for most men it only works when it is inforced by a woman.
We all know that she knows best.
Miss You Mistress Delia. I still tremble when i recall PTP with You, Erika, Cassandra and Constance. Now, would that be a combination for a long term chastity plan? ohhhh
Oh wow! YES that grouping is amazing for long-term chastity for sure!!
Ms. Delia
Oh, I LOVE this comment!!!
Yes, there is no medical need for a full orgasm! And I love that you can attest to this. Chastity periods DO make a better sub!
Ms. Delia